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Unless you’ve been living under a rock, then you know the world’s now living in a digitally-driven era. This means you’ll no longer have to bank on outdoor venues to spark a connection.

With Myspace, Facebook, Orkut, and a shhi-load more emerging social networking sites, meeting more women online should not be ruled out from your playbook.

Discover how to attract women online easily in that very armchair of yours by following my outline below.

1. Personal profile photo – Deal Breaker

Take a high quality (hi-resolution) photo of yourself. The sharper and cleaner your image, the less sketchy and cheap you’ll appear. Also, your initial photo sets the greatest impression of yourself; a reflection of your character.

2. Kill any potential distractions.

You want the girl to focus on you, not your profile page layout. Try to limit the amount of widgets you have onboard. Moderate your wall, and avoid glittery background – avoid tackiness at all costs.

3. Profile page equals you.

Treat your profile page like your home. Keep it tidy, clean, and welcoming. You’ll score points for a mature well-groomed look.

4. Protect your mystery.

Don’t be tempted to fill out your personal profile details. You want mystery. Omit facts such as whether you “want to be married” or ever have children alone.

5. Capitalize off your ’status’ box.

This is the area where can beefen up your perceived value, that is,  if you have any ‘interesting’ activities to share.  Women dig men with ‘plans’ in his life.

Are you traveling overseas? Attending a big event? Got a raise?  Broadcast it on your status. Whatever you update about yourself, make sure they define your individuality and not disguise it.

That’s all for now

In part 2, I’ll be revealing the secrets on how to approach and interact with women online

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Yes.

Valentines day is nearing.

Some say it’s overrated. Some panic in hopes of not being a
let-down… and will just watch it go by.

I’ve had many people ask me for pointers, so I decided
to extract some time out of my chaotic schedule to
spread some insights

Here I go.

* For those who will have a date for this special occasion
with their significant other…

Don’t worry about outdoing your last V-day.

Your winning ticket is to just keep it ‘original’.

Once you’ve got everything planned, ask yourself…

“Will tonight be memorable?” Better be yes.
“Can it be replicated?” Hint: Think outside the box.

My point is: It’s unnecessary to buy into the generic dates.

You can choose not to dine under the stars, or book for a swank
restaurant where you can gaze out in the sparkling city skyline.

Don’t be ashamed of keeping it ‘frugal’ later. She’s not
going to think you’re cheap if you can override her logic with
a constant surge of fun and happiness.

Instead of investing wallet-bruising numbers on an expensive
date, think outside the box and let creativity do the
‘wowing’.

It’s always the whole interaction that counts, not the
external extravaganza.

Now …

*  If you two just started dating, don’t let V-day raise the bar
or sweat you a bit.

1. Focus on getting to know each other better.

Establish deep-level attraction by progressively
escalating into more emotional intimate
conversational topics..

For example…

Exchange stories about each others most adventurous,
embarrassing, unforgettable experiences.

Then, raise the heat by
talking about the naughtiest, or publicly obscene conducts
you’ve been through.

Swap crazy stories. Time will FLY.

2. Drill into her lifelong interests and passions.

Get down to her quirks, dramatic childhood
stories.

Dare to ask for ‘private’ information. But do so in a relaxed
manner. Set the frame that she will entertain to your
questions.

Once you get her into the habit of opening up herself – not
only will you have shot up her comfort level towards you, but
also rocket-shuttled your personalization level.

3. Just to sweeten the night, or to add more fire to the romance
(without getting physically sexual yet…)

Find a venue or local college for live music with swinging jazz.

I’m sure there’s bound to be more than enough events around your area.

Take in the wind, and have a few nice drinks to recline to.

Now, if the vibe is noticeably buzzing well throughout
the night,  you know what you got to do: Sexually escalate.

It ain’t just the guys, women all want to get laid on valentines.

How do you bring her home?

Seed the idea of visiting your place later
while you’re on the date.

Tell her you’ve got some (insert an object
of her interest) you’d like to show her…

If she’s a die-hard fan of Bob Marley,
prepare a play list in advance and
return home to listen to it together.

You get the idea.

One more thing…

If you’re getting her flowers…which I assume
most will, save it for last.

And get artificial ones. Don’t go overboard with bouquets
either.

Try to attach a little slip that says something along
the lines of…

“I had an amazing night with you. Happy
valentines.”

Simple yet effective. Less is more.

What you want to imbue in her mind by the end of the night is…

“What’s next?” … followed by smile on her face.

Gentlemen, I hope you all have an amazing Valentines.

Try not get her pregnant.

Cheers.

Respect,

Andrew Wang

P.S Stay alert. Verbal Playboy Blueprint WILL be launching SOON.

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COMING VERY SOON!

Hey guys,

Wow, it almost felt like January never  happened, time really just flew by — no surprises.

I just wanted to thank you all personally for the continued patience on the release of Verbal Playboy Blueprint I can assure you this, it’ll be ready before Chinese New Years (which happens to land on the same day as Valentines this year).

I’m currently finishing up the sales page, so once that is ready, you guys will soon have all-access to it, including the jaw-dropping bonuses which I’m keeping under rags as a surprise.

This year will be phenomenal.

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What up guys…

Here’s a quick field report documenting a live example of
how to banter with women

[Part I]

The other night, I decided to clock in some evening hours
at Coffee World to work on some new projects.

Approximately 15 minutes later…

A group of smoking hot tourists — which I discovered later
were Irvine (California) undergrad students –  came in and sat
down right across the table from where I was.

Two minute goes by…

One of them comes up to me to ask if I had any idea whereabouts
they can find ‘transexuals’ in Bangkok.

Obviously, they wanted some raw uncut entertainment and
amusement. Witnessing transsexuals for the first time in
their lives must be special occasion.

Don’t get the wrong picture though, it may be stereotypical
to assume that transsexuals flood the streets here Bangkok,
but in actuality; their community is very small.

Anyways, as soon as she asked,

I decided to step the plate and and tease her…

I throw her a playfully startled look and tell her…

“Wow, I really didn’t know you were the type that’s into them.”

She instantly laughed and gave me a playful punch to the arm.

Note: Whenever a woman initiates such physical contact,
you’ve broken the ice.

I then tell her where she can locate them, and surprisingly…
she continues to ask me whether “they are good-looking”

This gave me more fuel to tease…

I tell her… “I am really starting to get a stronger
impression that you like them now.”

“Were you… (pause) a transexual in your past life?”

Bam. Double-shots of flirtatious tension.

***

[Part II]

A friend of hers then joins and sees what the commotion is,
and her face lights up with joy when she sees my laptop.

(I assume she’s been internet-deprived and hasn’t checked her
email due to heavy-duty traveling.)

Well, I was right. She asks if she can use my laptop
since she hasn’t checked her mail for 5 days.

I said “No.”

They both go “Awww. Why?”

I tell her, “it gets me jealous when other hands besides
from mine touching it.”

Bam. Added flirtatious tension. They both giggle.

Of course, I then gave her permission.

So what happened in the end?

Me and the girls wind up talking & bonding for the
next half an hour.

As the group was about to depart, one of them
even voiced their hesitation to leave as she wanted to stay
behind and talk learn more about Bangkok. (Obviously an
excuse to stick around.)

Well,
I hope you found this short report helpful in some way

The moral of this entry : Never settle for mundane
conventioanl responses.

When a woman is hot, “never please but tease”.

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It’s inarguable: Any man with social proof will always be perceivedwith higher value and status, thus making him more desirable.

Now, the question is, how do can we maximize our social proof? how we can explode our network of friends?

Here’s a quick tip that’ll go a LONG way.

Say “Hello” to the people around you more often!

Of course, wait til the you guys meet eye-to-eye.

Although most of us were raised and taught not to  “talk to strangers”,  I believe now is the time to defy this rule. If you fear meeting new people, start developing a passion to do so now.

Watch your social network and contact list on your phone balloon within the next month

The more frequent you practice this method, the more “accustomed” you’ll grow to this new habit, and trust me, your popularity / social proof will shoot through the roof.

Now hit the stride and get go on a “Hello”ing spree! You’ll soon realize that most people are more responsive and friendlier than you’ve expected.

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Hey guys,

Wow.  It’s almost two weeks deep into 2010, and it only felt like I was counting down & popping bottles on the last 10 seconds of 2009 yesterday.

I wanted to drop by and keep my readers updated, and shoot ya’ll a few pointers that will easily give you edge over other men.

Updates:

1. Verbal Playboy is 90% complete. I’ve received ongoing inquiries regarding to when the actual release date is… after 2-3 push backs. Well, my apologies fellas, I’ve been really strapped for time and the finalizing stage can be a bitch — it’s mad exhausting. I’m just as eager as you to get it on the market, but I simply won’t let anything incomplete fall into your hands.

I only want the very best for you.

2. The new release date is due before end of this month. I promise, and I don’t break promises.

Now… on to the 3 Big First Date Tips

1. Learn to use your ears more than your mouth.

2. Don’t overexert or over plan for first dates. It’s all in the ‘interaction’ that counts; not where you take her to.

3. If she’s not revealing anything about herself personally and consistently, you’re veering off track.

Follow these timeless first date tips and I guarantee you’ll get a second and more.

I’m rooting for you.

Andrew

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“HOW HARD WORKING ARE YOU?”

Gentlemen, my apologies for not having wished all my readers Happy New Years, so here it is… Happy new years! And may we start 2010 with a big bang

In this post, I’m going to share a quick effective tip on kino escalation for those who struggle on seamless transitions.

Since the palm reading method is overdone, played out,  and has etched itself into the mainstream consciousness, here’s an alternative technique you can add to your artillery.

Here’s how it goes down…

Once you’ve reached the point in a conversation where questions are volleying back and forth in regards to each other’s personal background – which you eventually will – ask her…“How hard working are you?”

As soon as she answers, tell her to give you her hand. You’ll then want to hold and inspect the palms. Don’t do this intently but casually.

THE DIAGNOSIS

Those who work laboriously outdoors are more likely have a rougher skin texture and hands.  If her hands are smooth, she may work more indoors, and her work is less physically grueling.

Give it a shot, and let me know how things pan out

And once again, may I raise my glass to toast to a more luminous future: Better health, more time with the family, fatter income, and finding an amazing partner to kick it with

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Photo Credits: Cutie Court

I know. There will always be women who are raised conservatively, bizarrely shy, religiously-constrained, and in response, you’d think their inner playgirl or ‘stripper’ has been handicapped from ever fully expressing their sensual side.

If you really want to know how to get a girl horny, or helplessly hot and bothered, it all boils down to how you emotionally connect with her under a sexual frame.

Although what you see on the surface may suggest that a woman is in the mood for sex, what lies beneath all that skin is an uncontestable universal truth. All women silently crave to fulfill their sexual urges. They all have a voracious appetite to get down and dirty, even if unconscious. It’s wired in our primitive nature. All it takes is one simple state shift for them to book first class flight to naughty-ville.

The problem is, most men just can’t escalate into a sexually-charged attraction level with her. This is usually due to the lack of emotional progression and comfort build.

Here is a fine 3-step method on how to get a girl horny and awaken her wild inner beast.

1. Start light with non-sugar coated compliments. Push and pull.

If you’re like most aspiring pick up students whose been preconditioned to believe that ‘sweet talking’ gets you no where, that it’s a catch 22 and condemned as a ‘nice guy’ thing to do, you ought to think again.

Women are vulnerable to sweet talk. It’s the overdose of sugar that’s destructive. When you compliment a woman, be cautious perform sincerely and tactically. When sweet talking, you must also trigger sexual tension simultaneously. That’s when Push and pull comes to play.

For instance, if you want to tell a girl she’s beautiful, try… (In a playful tone) “You’re too beautiful to be true.”

You could also tell her … “You’re beautiful, but I’m still debating whether your inner beauty matches up.” Or, “You know, you’re a very beautiful person, but is there more than what meets the eye?”

As you can see, we’ve successfully complimented, but also framed our dates to qualify her for you, which consequently positions you as the one being under pursuit.

2. Never reveal sexual intent. If you’d like a safety net in the process of creating sexual frenzy, never reveal your underlying intentions to sleep with her, and never fully communicate to her that ‘you like her.’ No signals, no hints. This is a reverse engineering tactic to make her comfortable in unconsciously developing a sexual and emotional desire for you.

3. Talk about sex like it’s no big deal.

Most men shudder at the thought of dwelling on sex. Truth is, if you want her to be comfortable with the thought of having sex with you, you must first induce her to associate you with sex as acceptable.

A quick and painless method is to get her into the spirit of ‘intellectually discussing’ about sex. Keep it controversial.

You can simply ask which celebrities have regular affairs, since temptation is all around them; or ask whether she thinks men or women are more desperate for sex. Approach this friendly argument with confidence and playfulness. Don’t take it seriously, and don’t treat it like a big deal. Apply humor where possible.

Your mission is to get her into a participatory mode and spread her insights on the multifaceted aspects to sex.

Then, progressively advance into more personal depths by asking what she considers ‘good sex.’  Just remember, the key to how to get a girl horny verbally is through the right emotional progression and sexual tension.

Follow the three steps respectively and her inner volcano will erupt in no time.

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The smallest and most unexpected things can shape the course and dynamics of a relationship. Ultimately, it can either improve or limit your success with women.

Even an online text message (AIM, MSN, Yahoo) or offline one can spoil the dynamics if carelessly conducted. Just because your phone plan permits you to send out unlimited text messages, or seduces you with ‘happy hours’, don’t consider yourself playing it smart and getting your money’s worth by clogging up your date’s  inbox space. This is not a real estate game.

Nowadays, I see a lot of guys, especially with a Blackberry devices, BB’ing their girls incessantly like there’s no tomorrow. What they don’t realize is that a lot of fluff talk goes down, and that the compounding effect inevitably manifests as negative impact.

Keeping in touch with people is cool, but constant texting will eventually kill your mystery level and chew away your private life. When this happens, don’t blame the recipient but yourself.

With that said, I’d now like to introduce to you my 5 rules of engagement for off and online text messaging.

Follow this simple guideline, and I can guarantee that you will increase your perceived value and attraction level simply by pushing-buttons.

Rule #1: Have a date-oriented end-purpose.; and that one single purpose should be to use bridge into your next date.

Don’t just text to ask “What are doing?” or “What are you up to?” without any follow-up text to set up for a date after.

Suggest that she joins you for xxxxx next week, state how it’ll benefit her, and be enthusiastic about it.

Rule #2: When you can, communicate on a level that stimulates a feeling of excitement and anticipation. Messages like…

“Guess what?”

“I got something amazing to share with you.”

These types of lines all elicit anticipatory responses.

Now, to keep your conversation dynamic exciting, follow rule 3.

Rule #3: Keep your texts short, succinct, playful, and flirty. Avoid punching in long messages. 2-3 lines or less would be preferable. Usually, a round of text exchanging shouldn’t exceed over 8-10 messages (including yours and hers)

Rule #4: Attitude of a tease. Try to recall something silly/embarrassing she recently said, and talk about it. This is a great way to maintain a level of sexual tension.

“You were amazing at basketball today. Averaging zero points per game. For some reason, why do I find that sexy?”

Rule #5: Keep your message open-ended and call for emotional involvement. To keep the text conversation buoyant, she must be involved.

Ask questions that require a response every time you send a text message. I always end my messages with a question etc.

In terms of response, make sure it triggers a side of her emotions. The last thing you want is for her to respond indifferently.

Avoid however, asking nosy questions which prompts a negative response.

For example,

“When are you going to sleep?”

“What will you do tomorrow?”

“When do I see you again?”

As you notice, a woman wouldn’t exactly be thrilled to reply to those questions. Instead, it only makes you seem more desperate, lonely, and meddlesome.

Remember, always keep a woman guessing to whether you are interested in her or not.

So there you have it, my 5 rules on text-messaging. Never go over-the-top, and try cast a restraining order to volleying messages back and forth like it’s a sport.

Gentlemen, have a great day, and go easy on the calls too.

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Hey guys,

I’ve been receiving a flurry of e-mails encouraging me to load more content onto the blog lately. Truth is, I’ve got more than a truckload of hot unconventional secrets on how to succeed with women soon-to-be scheduled for posting.

As you may or may have not known, I’ve been working around the clock further expanding my music and fashion company LUXLIVIN.

The good news? my clothing line will soon be distributed in select department stores throughout the hearts of Singapore.

Rumors Jewelry Store, my boutique jewelry line for independent-minded and self-made women will officially be fully-functional and launching December 1st!

Apart from that, I’ve also been super-busy beefing up the contents inside my upcoming product – Verbal Playboy Blueprint…

In the next post… I will give you a brief overview on what you can expect from it.

Rest assured, you’re going to love it.

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Being part of my Elite Dating Society news feed usually cost ($317 USD), but for now, I’m leaving the door open with no admission enforced. Good things DO come for free.

I’ll see you on the inside!

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