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Hey guys,

Wow, it almost felt like January never  happened, time really just flew by — no surprises.

I just wanted to thank you all personally for the continued patience on the release of Verbal Playboy Blueprint I can assure you this, it’ll be ready before Chinese New Years (which happens to land on the same day as Valentines this year).

I’m currently finishing up the sales page, so once that is ready, you guys will soon have all-access to it, including the jaw-dropping bonuses which I’m keeping under rags as a surprise.

This year will be phenomenal.

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What up guys…

Here’s a quick field report documenting a live example of
how to banter with women

[Part I]

The other night, I decided to clock in some evening hours
at Coffee World to work on some new projects.

Approximately 15 minutes later…

A group of smoking hot tourists — which I discovered later
were Irvine (California) undergrad students –  came in and sat
down right across the table from where I was.

Two minute goes by…

One of them comes up to me to ask if I had any idea whereabouts
they can find ‘transexuals’ in Bangkok.

Obviously, they wanted some raw uncut entertainment and
amusement. Witnessing transsexuals for the first time in
their lives must be special occasion.

Don’t get the wrong picture though, it may be stereotypical
to assume that transsexuals flood the streets here Bangkok,
but in actuality; their community is very small.

Anyways, as soon as she asked,

I decided to step the plate and and tease her…

I throw her a playfully startled look and tell her…

“Wow, I really didn’t know you were the type that’s into them.”

She instantly laughed and gave me a playful punch to the arm.

Note: Whenever a woman initiates such physical contact,
you’ve broken the ice.

I then tell her where she can locate them, and surprisingly…
she continues to ask me whether “they are good-looking”

This gave me more fuel to tease…

I tell her… “I am really starting to get a stronger
impression that you like them now.”

“Were you… (pause) a transexual in your past life?”

Bam. Double-shots of flirtatious tension.

***

[Part II]

A friend of hers then joins and sees what the commotion is,
and her face lights up with joy when she sees my laptop.

(I assume she’s been internet-deprived and hasn’t checked her
email due to heavy-duty traveling.)

Well, I was right. She asks if she can use my laptop
since she hasn’t checked her mail for 5 days.

I said “No.”

They both go “Awww. Why?”

I tell her, “it gets me jealous when other hands besides
from mine touching it.”

Bam. Added flirtatious tension. They both giggle.

Of course, I then gave her permission.

So what happened in the end?

Me and the girls wind up talking & bonding for the
next half an hour.

As the group was about to depart, one of them
even voiced their hesitation to leave as she wanted to stay
behind and talk learn more about Bangkok. (Obviously an
excuse to stick around.)

Well,
I hope you found this short report helpful in some way

The moral of this entry : Never settle for mundane
conventioanl responses.

When a woman is hot, “never please but tease”.

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It’s inarguable: Any man with social proof will always be perceivedwith higher value and status, thus making him more desirable.

Now, the question is, how do can we maximize our social proof? how we can explode our network of friends?

Here’s a quick tip that’ll go a LONG way.

Say “Hello” to the people around you more often!

Of course, wait til the you guys meet eye-to-eye.

Although most of us were raised and taught not to  “talk to strangers”,  I believe now is the time to defy this rule. If you fear meeting new people, start developing a passion to do so now.

Watch your social network and contact list on your phone balloon within the next month

The more frequent you practice this method, the more “accustomed” you’ll grow to this new habit, and trust me, your popularity / social proof will shoot through the roof.

Now hit the stride and get go on a “Hello”ing spree! You’ll soon realize that most people are more responsive and friendlier than you’ve expected.

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Hey guys,

Wow.  It’s almost two weeks deep into 2010, and it only felt like I was counting down & popping bottles on the last 10 seconds of 2009 yesterday.

I wanted to drop by and keep my readers updated, and shoot ya’ll a few pointers that will easily give you edge over other men.

Updates:

1. Verbal Playboy is 90% complete. I’ve received ongoing inquiries regarding to when the actual release date is… after 2-3 push backs. Well, my apologies fellas, I’ve been really strapped for time and the finalizing stage can be a bitch — it’s mad exhausting. I’m just as eager as you to get it on the market, but I simply won’t let anything incomplete fall into your hands.

I only want the very best for you.

2. The new release date is due before end of this month. I promise, and I don’t break promises.

Now… on to the 3 Big First Date Tips

1. Learn to use your ears more than your mouth.

2. Don’t overexert or over plan for first dates. It’s all in the ‘interaction’ that counts; not where you take her to.

3. If she’s not revealing anything about herself personally and consistently, you’re veering off track.

Follow these timeless first date tips and I guarantee you’ll get a second and more.

I’m rooting for you.

Andrew

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“HOW HARD WORKING ARE YOU?”

Gentlemen, my apologies for not having wished all my readers Happy New Years, so here it is… Happy new years! And may we start 2010 with a big bang

In this post, I’m going to share a quick effective tip on kino escalation for those who struggle on seamless transitions.

Since the palm reading method is overdone, played out,  and has etched itself into the mainstream consciousness, here’s an alternative technique you can add to your artillery.

Here’s how it goes down…

Once you’ve reached the point in a conversation where questions are volleying back and forth in regards to each other’s personal background – which you eventually will – ask her…“How hard working are you?”

As soon as she answers, tell her to give you her hand. You’ll then want to hold and inspect the palms. Don’t do this intently but casually.

THE DIAGNOSIS

Those who work laboriously outdoors are more likely have a rougher skin texture and hands.  If her hands are smooth, she may work more indoors, and her work is less physically grueling.

Give it a shot, and let me know how things pan out

And once again, may I raise my glass to toast to a more luminous future: Better health, more time with the family, fatter income, and finding an amazing partner to kick it with

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Photo Credits: Cutie Court

I know. There will always be women who are raised conservatively, bizarrely shy, religiously-constrained, and in response, you’d think their inner playgirl or ‘stripper’ has been handicapped from ever fully expressing their sensual side.

If you really want to know how to get a girl horny, or helplessly hot and bothered, it all boils down to how you emotionally connect with her under a sexual frame.

Although what you see on the surface may suggest that a woman is in the mood for sex, what lies beneath all that skin is an uncontestable universal truth. All women silently crave to fulfill their sexual urges. They all have a voracious appetite to get down and dirty, even if unconscious. It’s wired in our primitive nature. All it takes is one simple state shift for them to book first class flight to naughty-ville.

The problem is, most men just can’t escalate into a sexually-charged attraction level with her. This is usually due to the lack of emotional progression and comfort build.

Here is a fine 3-step method on how to get a girl horny and awaken her wild inner beast.

1. Start light with non-sugar coated compliments. Push and pull.

If you’re like most aspiring pick up students whose been preconditioned to believe that ‘sweet talking’ gets you no where, that it’s a catch 22 and condemned as a ‘nice guy’ thing to do, you ought to think again.

Women are vulnerable to sweet talk. It’s the overdose of sugar that’s destructive. When you compliment a woman, be cautious perform sincerely and tactically. When sweet talking, you must also trigger sexual tension simultaneously. That’s when Push and pull comes to play.

For instance, if you want to tell a girl she’s beautiful, try… (In a playful tone) “You’re too beautiful to be true.”

You could also tell her … “You’re beautiful, but I’m still debating whether your inner beauty matches up.” Or, “You know, you’re a very beautiful person, but is there more than what meets the eye?”

As you can see, we’ve successfully complimented, but also framed our dates to qualify her for you, which consequently positions you as the one being under pursuit.

2. Never reveal sexual intent. If you’d like a safety net in the process of creating sexual frenzy, never reveal your underlying intentions to sleep with her, and never fully communicate to her that ‘you like her.’ No signals, no hints. This is a reverse engineering tactic to make her comfortable in unconsciously developing a sexual and emotional desire for you.

3. Talk about sex like it’s no big deal.

Most men shudder at the thought of dwelling on sex. Truth is, if you want her to be comfortable with the thought of having sex with you, you must first induce her to associate you with sex as acceptable.

A quick and painless method is to get her into the spirit of ‘intellectually discussing’ about sex. Keep it controversial.

You can simply ask which celebrities have regular affairs, since temptation is all around them; or ask whether she thinks men or women are more desperate for sex. Approach this friendly argument with confidence and playfulness. Don’t take it seriously, and don’t treat it like a big deal. Apply humor where possible.

Your mission is to get her into a participatory mode and spread her insights on the multifaceted aspects to sex.

Then, progressively advance into more personal depths by asking what she considers ‘good sex.’  Just remember, the key to how to get a girl horny verbally is through the right emotional progression and sexual tension.

Follow the three steps respectively and her inner volcano will erupt in no time.

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The smallest and most unexpected things can shape the course and dynamics of a relationship. Ultimately, it can either improve or limit your success with women.

Even an online text message (AIM, MSN, Yahoo) or offline one can spoil the dynamics if carelessly conducted. Just because your phone plan permits you to send out unlimited text messages, or seduces you with ‘happy hours’, don’t consider yourself playing it smart and getting your money’s worth by clogging up your date’s  inbox space. This is not a real estate game.

Nowadays, I see a lot of guys, especially with a Blackberry devices, BB’ing their girls incessantly like there’s no tomorrow. What they don’t realize is that a lot of fluff talk goes down, and that the compounding effect inevitably manifests as negative impact.

Keeping in touch with people is cool, but constant texting will eventually kill your mystery level and chew away your private life. When this happens, don’t blame the recipient but yourself.

With that said, I’d now like to introduce to you my 5 rules of engagement for off and online text messaging.

Follow this simple guideline, and I can guarantee that you will increase your perceived value and attraction level simply by pushing-buttons.

Rule #1: Have a date-oriented end-purpose.; and that one single purpose should be to use bridge into your next date.

Don’t just text to ask “What are doing?” or “What are you up to?” without any follow-up text to set up for a date after.

Suggest that she joins you for xxxxx next week, state how it’ll benefit her, and be enthusiastic about it.

Rule #2: When you can, communicate on a level that stimulates a feeling of excitement and anticipation. Messages like…

“Guess what?”

“I got something amazing to share with you.”

These types of lines all elicit anticipatory responses.

Now, to keep your conversation dynamic exciting, follow rule 3.

Rule #3: Keep your texts short, succinct, playful, and flirty. Avoid punching in long messages. 2-3 lines or less would be preferable. Usually, a round of text exchanging shouldn’t exceed over 8-10 messages (including yours and hers)

Rule #4: Attitude of a tease. Try to recall something silly/embarrassing she recently said, and talk about it. This is a great way to maintain a level of sexual tension.

“You were amazing at basketball today. Averaging zero points per game. For some reason, why do I find that sexy?”

Rule #5: Keep your message open-ended and call for emotional involvement. To keep the text conversation buoyant, she must be involved.

Ask questions that require a response every time you send a text message. I always end my messages with a question etc.

In terms of response, make sure it triggers a side of her emotions. The last thing you want is for her to respond indifferently.

Avoid however, asking nosy questions which prompts a negative response.

For example,

“When are you going to sleep?”

“What will you do tomorrow?”

“When do I see you again?”

As you notice, a woman wouldn’t exactly be thrilled to reply to those questions. Instead, it only makes you seem more desperate, lonely, and meddlesome.

Remember, always keep a woman guessing to whether you are interested in her or not.

So there you have it, my 5 rules on text-messaging. Never go over-the-top, and try cast a restraining order to volleying messages back and forth like it’s a sport.

Gentlemen, have a great day, and go easy on the calls too.

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Hey guys,

I’ve been receiving a flurry of e-mails encouraging me to load more content onto the blog lately. Truth is, I’ve got more than a truckload of hot unconventional secrets on how to succeed with women soon-to-be scheduled for posting.

As you may or may have not known, I’ve been working around the clock further expanding my music and fashion company LUXLIVIN.

The good news? my clothing line will soon be distributed in select department stores throughout the hearts of Singapore.

Rumors Jewelry Store, my boutique jewelry line for independent-minded and self-made women will officially be fully-functional and launching December 1st!

Apart from that, I’ve also been super-busy beefing up the contents inside my upcoming product – Verbal Playboy Blueprint…

In the next post… I will give you a brief overview on what you can expect from it.

Rest assured, you’re going to love it.

P.S I will be giving 50% discount to all my valued members on my e-mail list, so if you haven’t signed up (FREE), make sure you do so over at www.20datingsecrets.com

Being part of my Elite Dating Society news feed usually cost ($317 USD), but for now, I’m leaving the door open with no admission enforced. Good things DO come for free.

I’ll see you on the inside!

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Here’s a live field report which I recently documented for my readers and thought I should share on here.

It explains how I use my Open & Tease (O.A.T) Method which should help those seeking an alternative answer on How to approach a girl in a club.

The other night, I was out with the boys partying at Kao Sarn Road – which is notoriously known as an expat-dominated district with strings of bars/clubs here in Bangkok, Thailand.

You’ll find women from all over the globe on this street.

Anyways, we headed over to the trance/techno club which went by the name “The Club.” – It’s one of the hottest in this area, with state-of-the-art sound system and high powered strobe lighting setup etc.

After buying our buckets of local made whiskey (Sangsom) mixed with coke and Redbull, I scope the scene and my eyes stop at this table with 4 of the finest Korean women (tourists.)

They were wilding out; one put her foot on the table and teasingly lifted her skirt up her legs, another start grinding provocatively with her back to the wall.

Surely, every table around them was watching.

While chilling with the boys two tables away, I see at least 5-6 guys approach these women within the span of 15 minutes.

What happened? All got rejected.

20 minutes go by, and the girls seem to have reached a point of exhaustion from all that swaying and screaming.

One of the girl’s in the Chanel top which I had my eyes on , was leaning back on her couch with her head pulled back.

It seemed like she was falling asleep. I even caught her yawning.

Either they are really tired from all that dancing, or they were straight up bored.

So I did what I had to do and approached.

*THE APPROACH*

So, here’s what I would did.

I walked right up to the girl with the white top, lets her see me incoming, and I took the vacant seat right next to her and sat myself down.

I curiously ask her… “Do you always sleep when you come to a club?”

Her: (Springs upright, smiles, and embarrassingly giggles) Hahaha, no no no, I’m just a bit tired.

Me: I see. Tired of rejecting all those guys? (I gesture towards the men around us)

Her: (laughs) That too!

Me: Well that’s very nice of you. You come to Kao Sarn Road and generously hand out rejections. Are you getting paid to do that?

Her: Hahahaa no!

Me: (Smiles) Well hey, I’m Andrew. What’s your name?

And from that point on, we just hit it off. I meet, handshake, and exchange hellos with her friends after, the drink continues flowing, and we dance the night away.

*THE RECAP*

So here’s what I happened.

1. Before stepping up to the plate, I made observation and caught her on the verge of falling asleep. I then took advantage of this situation immediately as my opening call since this was something I can tease her about.

In a sense, I used her own actions against her and it worked beautifully.

2. I went in with no expression of ‘interest.’

This gave me a better impression at first glance. Right off the bat, my opener communicated to her that I wasn’t like the other guys, so in essence, seeing me was more refreshing compared to others.

I did not walk in with the standard approach of “What’s your name?” “Are you from Korea?” – which is what the other guys most likely asked first. I could tell my reading their lips.

So, next time you’re at the club…

Observe, go in for the kill, and just blend in naturally.

Now of course, there are plenty more methods on how to approach a girl, but this is just one of the many methods that have proven effective for me, and hopefully you can make good use of it too.

And here’s a toast to exploding you game.

Respect,

Andrew Wang

Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula

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You’re in a bar, club, or mall, looking salaciously at her.

However, she’s stationed amongst a group of seemingly protective friends who chit chat nonstop with he. The clock ticks, your eyes are still fixated on her beauty, but your body freezes.

Sounds familiar? Such circumstance is the modern plague of a man’s approach anxiety towards a group of women. To know how to approach a girl in a group is proven more challenging, nerve-wracking, and nail-biting than approaching a girl alone.

Most men just don’t have the guts to step up to the plate, especially when there’s a group of women. It feels like the odds are firmly stacked against them.

Well, knowing how to approach women in a group no longer has to be a daunting task, since I will now lay out for you a step-by-step mini blueprint of mine on how to approach women in a group.

Did you know? When a woman travels in a pack, each one of them still yearns to be noticed by men. They love it when men approach them, and hate it when they don’t know how to approach a girl.

So, never let the size of the group impose an illusive barrier to entry. Remind yourself that every female member in the group is waiting to be rescued, so play supply and demand and do a great deed.

The most non-alarming and seamless way to proceed is to ‘naturally’ submerge into her circle. Don’t dive straight for your target, and don’t make it seem like you’re picking anyone up. They key is to blend in and socialize first.

1. Introduce yourself casually and assertively to everyone in the group. Play the courtesy card and ask how they’re doing. The rule to engagement on how to approach a girl in a group is to first win her friends over.
2. Once all the attention is on you, execute an opinion opener. Tell them you’re conducting research, and that you’d like their honest opinion on what would make a romantic date. This question alone will have them fighting for your attention on their answers. You can also come up with your own alternative questions; just keep it relationship-centered.
3. Time to Isolate. After everyone shares their input, express your appreciation and then ask if you can borrow your ‘target’ for a quick minute. At this point, they’ll be more than welcoming of your advances and comfortable with your presence. Relocate with your target somewhere not so distant – anywhere that’s not off her friend’s inspection-limits.

Then, tell your chosen girl that you’d like to follow up with some more questions later, and it’d be wonderful if she helps out. You have a 99% chance she’ll say yes.

As soon as she agrees, ask for her number or e-mail, and tell her you’ll be in touch. Don’t keep her away from her friends for too long. You have all the time later to talk.

Now that you’re armed with this killer mini blueprint on how to approach a girl in a group, you may also want to check out more groundbreaking articles revealing the secrets on how to approach women in other various hot settings like a party, street side, coffee shop and more.

When you get a chance, please leave a comment and let me know how things work out for you.

To your dating success,

Andrew Wang

Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula

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