It’s time to issue my own 3, not 10 commandments – whether you’d like to obey it or not. These are three highly critical points you simply cannot overlook if you’d like to know how to pickup girls more successfully and in abundance.
1. Have a strong positive mentality.
In case you are unaware, your current state of mind and emotions can easily be picked up through your most subtle behaviors. Don’t be short-tempered and shortsighted – that’s the antithesis of remaining well composed and charismatic. Stay away from negative energy as it only breeds and feeds negative vibe. What women wants is positive vibe.
Attaining a positive attitude and mentality is also the only way to go if you’d like to draw in more crowd and attract more women. It is also attracts women when you can create, produce, and go out there in the world to make contribution. Charity is indeed sexy to them. So, be altruistic. Strive to make other people’s life better, not just yours. Be the one who gives more than he takes. That’s what attracts women.
The world will thank you for it; even if no one recognizes you for your goodwill and hard work, know that in your hear you’ve done some good, that you’ve lit your light in this world that will last beyond your mortal years, and that it will continue to grow and burn brightly long after your dust has returned to dust and blown away in the wind. Ask yourself, would you rather die a man who never helped nobody but himself or one that many will forever respect and be thankful for?
2. Leadership Is Gold
There’s a vast difference between leading, and being a possessive prick. With a leadership attitude, you are providing a sense of direction without the force. It’s about being dominant, taking charge, weathering the storm and showing he the way. On the contrary, possessive men are ridden with insecurities – therefore incapable of leaving their women alone. Every second they’re apart, they think their woman may be cheating, flirting with another dude on line etc.
Before you can successfully command leadership, you need to know your end-goals. You need to have foresight and a direction for yourself. Start fast tracking your decisions making skills, instead of being indecisive. If a guy is always uncertain about what to do, women will be easily be agitated. It’s like dealing with a kid. Pathetic. Are you a man or a kid? If you want to kiss the girl, kiss her.
3. Have an infectious humor, and make others laugh.
The world seems to be falling apart today. The economy is spiraling downhill. Everyone seems to be depressed. Well, you do not have to become a victim even if you are affected. If you want to know how to pick up a girl like the pros do, humor is gold.
Stand firm and try to make the world a better place for everyone you encounter. Light up a woman’s world with laughter and pure joy and she’ll appreciate and love you for it.
The evolutionary theory is: If you make someone feel good about themselves or about you, it instills a feeling of security which is very addictive and makes people want to be around you. This also happens to be the core foundation to attract more women in your life.
To your dating success,
Andrew Wang (Allurre)
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant addiction Formula