It becomes fairly difficult at times to decode the non-verbal cues aired by a woman. This often applies to those who have zero battery-life in communication skills. If you fall into this category, don’t despair.

I will now reveal to you several universal signals will help clear any confusion to whether a woman will be well-receiving of your approach or not.

Here are 5 tell-tale signs and advices you’ll need before approaching a woman.

1. Get yourself together. Man up. Step up to her, and use an opinion-opener or situational opener.

The Opinion opener – Hey, I just bought this shirt, from a valued woman’s perspective, what do you think?

The Situational opener (if you’re in mini-concert) – “So which artists are you here to support tonight?”

If she fails to respond or face you, that’s a clear indication that she’s not welcoming any approaches. Don’t push things further by sticking your face into hers and greeting yourself obnoxiously.That would be invading her privacy.

Just shrug it off and leave. There are plenty more fishes out there. Don’t waste your time on women who have their heads high up in the clouds.

2. Observing & Assuming Her Mood
Use your senses and observe your target. Does she look preoccupied? Is she on the phone? Does she look at ease and relaxed?

Depending on her mood, you might want to consider the fashion in which you approach her. If she is busy writing or reading, go up to her and apologize for interrupting; be confident about it. Don’t give a shaky apology.

Tell her…

“Hey, I know I’m interrupting, but I’d feel bad if I didn’t come and say Hi. I thought you’d be someone fun to get to know.”

That line alone, always works beautifully. It can send chills down her spine. Remember, never appear nervous, or it’ll make her nervous also. Emotions are contagious.

3. Check out her level of eye contact.
It’s human nature. When you’re in the proximity of anyone, or within her 5 feet perimeter, you are bound to exchange eye contact at least once. If you see that she’s making a conscious effort not to look your way, then she must be really reserved and less open to being approached.

4. Check Her Reaction Level
After you’ve said Hi to her, does her eye sparkle? Does she seem enthusiastic to have met you? Judge by her comments to see how receptive she is. IF she keeps her sentences short, she’s either not interested or in a piss-poor mood.

However, if you get more than a sentence out of her, then the game’s on!

5. Test Her With Conversational Openers
Before approaching her, study your surrounding. Is there anything interesting?

Let’s say she’s chilling alone at Starbucks with her Macbook opened.

A great conversational starter is to discuss about her Macbook. Ask open ended questions always! That’s the trick to get them talking.

It’s always best to pick an object that she already has interests in. The Macbook is obviously one, or you can ask how where she bought her “fabulous dress or shirt”, since you know a friend that would look great in them.

It’s also excellent to ask, “What’s the story behind that?” about some article on her person. For instance, you might say, “Excuse me, I couldn’t help noticing your unusual necklace. I can’t recall ever seeing one like that before. If you wouldn’t mind me asking, what’s the story behind that?”

These are great ways to open conversations with any woman, and will help you see how receptive she is.

Don’t jump to conclusions until you REALLY approach.

You should never make any hasty conclusions that she is not interested. The only way you’ll really find out is by approaching her. Make the move. Don’t guess.

Next time you spot an opportunity, go for it. There’s no harm in finding out whether she’s interested or not. You’re making a gain by KNOWING.

Remember the indisputable fact I mentioned in my 20 Dating Secrets Special Report, ALL women love to be hit on.

An often untold secret on how to approach girls is knowing that they all want to be approached.

So do yourself and her a favor and fulfill that need.

To your dating success,

Andrew Wang (Allurre)

Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula