Ok. So I don’t usually write about how to please a girl wildly when it comes to bedtime play. Why? Because there are plenty of resources dedicated to that area available online. Well, it can’t hurt to offer some of my own personal tips on how to get a girl wet, and make her go freak-wild for you.
Her are 3 golden tease-her-in-the-sheets tips you can use to your advantage to make it rain down south.
1. Steady Kisses
Whenever you start kissing her, do so with no tongue. Save it for later when you’re deep into foreplay. Tease her with light and quick kisses first, then progress naturally into longer and more sensual ones. You want to vary the intensity. Kiss her intensely, then withdraw. Then soften up the kiss, and raise the pressure. Don’t let her catch you ever with a pattern.
The magical effect of this is denying her the pleasure until she aches for it. Make her sizzle like a sirloin steak on a grill. The act of push and pull you’re executing mirrors the nature of intercourse itself (insert, withdraw).
2. Sniff and Bite
What you can do while kissing her, is to also sniff and bite. This is actually an animal mating ritual since prehistoric times, and a powerful way on how to make her wet gradually. Use all your senses during times of physical intimacy. Smell her neck, hair, body. When you exhale, do so gently so she can feel that tingle in the release.
Tell her in a whisper-like voice that you like how she smells; ok so perhaps some words can help.
Then cast a gentle bite or lick on an erogenous zone (neck, lips, back of ears). This will always send shocks of pleasure through their neurological system.
3. Embrace Everything
Most guys neglect the entire body. They go straight for the breast, ass-grabbing, and then penetrate. Unless you’re both in it for a quickie, avoid the rush if this is your first time with her. Run your hands and explore her entire body.
Don’t touch nipples, or V area. While your hand unabashedly explores her delicate body, give her massages along the way. Firm squeeze and grabs suggest masculinity which turns them on like a switch.
While massaging, remember to multitask and blaze a trail of tactical kisses from her neck to her inner thighs. Grab her feet and give a 2-3 seconds foot massage as you go in lower. When you reach the bottom, return back up to caressing and drumming her back.
Always have both hands working, and embrace the full body. You should also use your body (chest, legs) as an instrument also to create movement when both of you are sharing skin contact.
After a good 10-15 minutes of foreplay, you may want to escalate into French kissing, grabbing he condom, and shifting gears to bang the lights and every breath out of her. She will orgasm all over your shaft and look forward to a second run.
If you enjoyed my personal tips on how to make a girl wet without words, make sure you e-mail me your thoughts and comments.
Cheers.
Here’s another new music video with great references on how you can talk dirty with a girl. Yes, Luda and Trey knows that they’re talking about.
Don’t just take this up for it’s entertainment value, get familiar with the style and attitude in their language. There’s a very good reason why they’ve culled a larger fan base of females than males.
Here are 3 quick tips on how to talk dirty with you girl to bursting the thermometer during your next bedroom encounter.
1. Don’t just get physically wild, let her imagination run wild too. Hang her in a constant suspense on what “you’ll be doing to her next.” Be vivid with the details, and get more explicit as you escalate into more intimate positions.
2. Avoid the routine. During any initial phase of courtship, always have a “new program” for the night — this is a surefire way to keep her “coming back for more later.”
Instead of just sticking to the bed, get out of bed, grab her by the hand and tell her you want to “tour around the house”, with “you inside her.” Go rack up your mileage points.
Spontaneity, creativity, and unpredictability is gold. A little planning and thought will go along way and easily distinguish your class from her exes.
3. Take the lead, dominate. You are the “director” of the night. Even if you’re not her boss, don’t be afraid to order her around, now’s the opportune time and context.
When you’re both in the bedroom and hungry for action, women will usually shift and become transfixed in an “obligatory” state. They want you to take charge. That’s why the cliched role play of “Doctor and Nurse” is still commonly practiced.
Most women want to be ravished and dominated. That translates as “hot sex” to them.
Have fun boys – try not break the condom.
