The thing is, you should never be afraid of getting “caught” red-handed expressing your sexual desires.

You want to check a woman out? Go ahead, just don’t look like a salivating chronic pervert who hasn’t jacked off for days. There’s a fine difference between “scanning”  a woman in a pre-qualifying way, and one with a predator’s unflinching  gaze.

Nonetheless, you should never recoil from expressing your sexuality. Do not feel shameful or guilty of this act. Smash down this barrier of fear. It’s part of your life. Embrace it to the fullest.

“If you bury your sexuality, you bury your sexy drive and life.” – Me.

Here are 10 pivotal tips on how you can get comfortable with your own sexuality.

1. First and foremost, you must accept yourself for who you are (as an intellectually advanced ape) and understand that it is coded in your biological nature to be ready-to-fuck. Let a woman know exactly that you love sex. Better yet, give it to her.

2. Stop watching estrogen-inspiring soap operas and chick flicks. Leave them alone as they don’t inspire your inner masculinity, but rather chew away at its bones. Don’t’ be afraid of women! They’re not going to knife your balls and feed it to your neighbors dogs.

3. It should be a daily habit where you should just “Feel fucking good about yourself.” Work hard and accomplish things. Realize your goals, and raise the bar for yourself. A strong ongoing sense of self-accomplishment gives you confidence, which feeds your sexual vibe.

4. Stick to a healthy dietary and exercising regime to keep yourself in shape. Yes, you have to work on your body. Lose the weight if you’ve the extras – fat deposits secrete estrogen. Empty that shit. Get some nice biceps – women always notice them, and may even ask to touch them. The better you feel about yourself, and the more confident you are with your package, the sharper your sexuality seductively stings.

I wrote an in-depth entry on why else you should whip yourself into shape, and how you get accomplish this feat easily. Check it out here: Classic Tip on How To Get Girls

5. Practice eye-contact with yourself. Be brutally honest, how do you feel? Who do you see?. Do you look intimidating? Inviting? Friendly? Respectable? Attractive? Are you pleased with who you see in the mirror? How would you respond if you saw yourself in public? What do you need to improve on? Get on with it.

6. Focus on good body language. This is one of the best way to get girls – when you acquire full mastery of enhancing your body language. Your physical posture and inner thoughts greatly affects your state of sexuality. Some starters are to never slouch or hunch over when you’re walking or talking.

Watch some  Hip Hop or R&B music . Look how they interact with the video vixens they have on deck. They’re all secure with expressing their sexuality; they hold nothing back.

More importantly, work from then “inside’ out. What you think will determine how you look. You want a posture of a captain or undefeated champion? then think like one. Or think along the lines of “invincible, untouchable” outer space hero. Do whatever works for you.

7. Don’t be afraid of body contact. Women welcome the thought of being touched, as long as your approach to it is fluid. Do not ever be afraid of invading a woman’s privacy or getting in close proximity. Share your special presence with her.

If a woman offers a hand shake, you can shake your head and tell her “no, I only do heart to hearts. Then pump your chest out and wait for her to reciprocate”. It’s fun, playful, and you demonstrate that you’re not afraid of body contact.

8. Do it like its part of your “way of life” or culture. When you’re talking to a girl, remember to always find opportunities to touch them, and do so comfortably. Keep testing the waters and she how she responds. That’s how you determine where you stand with her. Every girl will respond slightly differently. Some are very physical, some require strong comfort build up first. Different strokes for different folks.

When I meet women in the club and I notice something cool about them (e.g their personality, energy level, clothing), I tell them that they “get a hug for being cool”, then proceed to hugging them. Get used to making physical contact.

9. Be comfortable in being verbally sexual. Step out of your comfort zone and say “risky” or “near offensive” things., but make sure you deliver it in a teasing and non-serious attitude. Don’t be afraid to blurt out things like “Stop turning me on by wearing so little.” Say it with a playfully troubled look. Just dont’ take the crassness overboard – I’m sure you can use your best of judgement.

They key is to slip in sexual innuendos whenever you can playfully. Tie it with humor. This way you’ll never be friend zoned. You may even tell a girl “how it turns you on” when she does something embarrassing, for example, when she accidentally releases gas.

10. Enjoy life. Do the things you love. Pursue your hobby, profession, favorite sport activity. Having a strong passion and letting it shine is very admirable and attractive to women. It is food for your sexual-being. Women will eat up this good vibe and return for more bites – given that your hobbies can be potentially interesting for them.

Whatever it is, you want to do things that will regularly keep your mood and energy level high. Once you’re at ease, or better yet, at a semi-ecstatic state, you’ll be more comfortable with being sexual.

All in all, learn to have a good time. That’s one of the secret way to get girls that will always be in full effect. Be happy. Be sexual. Let go off all the life’s bullshit and stress, and fulfill your primal urges.

Stay tuned for the next entry: Club Game Pt. 3!

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If you ever catch yourself hearing the words “Let’s just be friends”, “I’d like us to just be friends”, or any variation therefore, you better get yourself the f**k out of there.

…that is unless you intend, or will be content with remaining strictly as her “friend”. This also means no heavy touching, kissing, or anything physically intimate. Are you sure you want that?

When a woman tells you she wants to be friends, don’t buy any of the common excuses when you hear them. E.g “I have too much work nowadays”, “I need some time to think things over,” “I don’t want too ruin our friendship”.

My friend, when a woman categorizes you as a friend, it translates as “I am no longer attracted in you. You just don’t turn me on. Hands off me now.” Her interest level simply wandered off into no-where land, and you do not want to go chasing for it.

So, how do you crawl yourself out of this dreaded shit-hole? The question you should REALLY be asking yourself is, how did you get yourself there in the first place?

Most likely, you became too dependent and needy. Your whole schedule probably even revolved around her, and you had nothing “going on for you” other than HER. This is the type of reality that’ll turn a woman off quick like hearing a girl fart during dinner.

Ok, to the solutions board. If such scenario applies to you, here are three actions you ought to follow through: to help you possibly regain her interest level, and to help you move on from any imminent emotional repercussions from the blow in confidence.

1. Don’t be phased. If you let any signs of “being hurt” show, you’re giving her the upper hand. Stay cool and collected. Tell her upfront with a tone of sincerity that that you’re afraid that’s “not going to happen,” since that’s not the kind of relationship you can see yourself in with her. Hey, it’s your life, run it your way.

Wish her the best and tell her it was great knowing her. Don’t break down and cry over the phone insisting that you could do better. You want her to feel a sense of loss or denied access. Women want what they can’t have.

2. Avoid further contact with her. Cut loose, or go cold turkey (it’s ok to be extreme in this case) on the text messages, e-mailing, or whichever form of communication she got used to. Get on with your life and business.

3. Instill jealousy. Meet and hang out with other women. Don’t do so forcibly out of revenge though. Do it because you intend on meeting other quality women, and yes, there are plentiful out there! You never know who’s available until you start shopping!

By increasing your social factor, you inadvertently pump up your perceived value in her eyes. Let her know that you are in demand, and that you can have a smashing time with other women. Once she realizes that she’s missing out on the fun, her interest level will naturally shoot back up.

Needless to say, do learn from your past. Track back and evaluate how you behaved. Did the flirting dynamic start to suck? Did you become too supplicating? Uninspiring? Non-challenging?

Did you soften up completely and handed her both your balls where she now keeps in a jar? Whatever it is, don’t repeat the same mistakes.

I call this game… “KEEP THE STARE”

Thank you, I put a whole lot of effort into that name.

Here’s how it works.

Next time you’re out and you see any fine looking girls on the street, practice staring them down, in a non creepy or malicious way of course.

Instead of averting your eyes – which suggests that you are uncomfortable – light up a friendly smile and give a light nod.

Let them know that you register their existence and that you’re not fazed or afraid of their appearance. This is very sexy, refreshing, and great for sexual tension, since most guys would typically shy away.

Hot girls usually like to stare a guy down to test his level of confidence, so be prepared to rise up to this challenge.

If she reciprocates and smiles back, what I’d do is then catch up to her (after you two have walked past each other), and tell her, “Hey, I just wanted to tell you that you had a wonderful smile.”

This always melts them on the spot, and instantly makes her open up to you for conversation.

Try it.

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I know. There will always be women who are raised conservatively, bizarrely shy, religiously-constrained, and in response, you’d think their inner playgirl or ‘stripper’ has been handicapped from ever fully expressing their sensual side.

If you really want to know how to get a girl horny, or helplessly hot and bothered, it all boils down to how you emotionally connect with her under a sexual frame.

Although what you see on the surface may suggest that a woman is in the mood for sex, what lies beneath all that skin is an uncontestable universal truth. All women silently crave to fulfill their sexual urges. They all have a voracious appetite to get down and dirty, even if unconscious. It’s wired in our primitive nature. All it takes is one simple state shift for them to book first class flight to naughty-ville.

The problem is, most men just can’t escalate into a sexually-charged attraction level with her. This is usually due to the lack of emotional progression and comfort build.

Here is a fine 3-step method on how to get a girl horny and awaken her wild inner beast.

1. Start light with non-sugar coated compliments. Push and pull.

If you’re like most aspiring pick up students whose been preconditioned to believe that ‘sweet talking’ gets you no where, that it’s a catch 22 and condemned as a ‘nice guy’ thing to do, you ought to think again.

Women are vulnerable to sweet talk. It’s the overdose of sugar that’s destructive. When you compliment a woman, be cautious perform sincerely and tactically. When sweet talking, you must also trigger sexual tension simultaneously. That’s when Push and pull comes to play.

For instance, if you want to tell a girl she’s beautiful, try… (In a playful tone) “You’re too beautiful to be true.”

You could also tell her … “You’re beautiful, but I’m still debating whether your inner beauty matches up.” Or, “You know, you’re a very beautiful person, but is there more than what meets the eye?”

As you can see, we’ve successfully complimented, but also framed our dates to qualify her for you, which consequently positions you as the one being under pursuit.

2. Never reveal sexual intent. If you’d like a safety net in the process of creating sexual frenzy, never reveal your underlying intentions to sleep with her, and never fully communicate to her that ‘you like her.’ No signals, no hints. This is a reverse engineering tactic to make her comfortable in unconsciously developing a sexual and emotional desire for you.

3. Talk about sex like it’s no big deal.

Most men shudder at the thought of dwelling on sex. Truth is, if you want her to be comfortable with the thought of having sex with you, you must first induce her to associate you with sex as acceptable.

A quick and painless method is to get her into the spirit of ‘intellectually discussing’ about sex. Keep it controversial.

You can simply ask which celebrities have regular affairs, since temptation is all around them; or ask whether she thinks men or women are more desperate for sex. Approach this friendly argument with confidence and playfulness. Don’t take it seriously, and don’t treat it like a big deal. Apply humor where possible.

Your mission is to get her into a participatory mode and spread her insights on the multifaceted aspects to sex.

Then, progressively advance into more personal depths by asking what she considers ‘good sex.’  Just remember, the key to how to get a girl horny verbally is through the right emotional progression and sexual tension.

Follow the three steps respectively and her inner volcano will erupt in no time.