Whenever I upload a hip hop / rnb music video onto the blog, I’m not here to promote it.
My sole intentions are for you to check out how these celebrity artists move, especially their body language game (which I know they spend HOURS training on).
In this video, I’d like you to study their body language and notice how both crooner and rapper communicate nothing short of confidence, authority, and masculinity.
Now, what else can you pick up from this song “Phone Number”?
Notice how Bobby V doesn’t ask, but “orders” the girl when he wants a number.
That’s EXACTLY how you can double your success rate when getting a girl’s number, GIVEN that you’ve established great rapport with them beforehand!
Tell, no need to ask.
I want to talk to you about Momentum today, which I am certain will be one game changing word for you too.
It’s an invaluable element not just to business successes, but for all guys who want to sharpen their game with women.
Momentum is essentially the life force that makes you “stay in the game”. It keeps your driven and consistent with “staying in form”.
You see, we are inherently creatures of habits, so if your goal is to bed more girls, then you must start doing things that will increase the chances of that happening, WITH CONSISTENCY.
The more you focus intently on something, the better you’ll obviously get.
So, if you want more women in your life, reshape your lifestyle where you dedicate a portion of your schedule everyday to meeting new faces.
Don’t be afraid to approach chat up the next girl you see, and even the girl after. Whether she’s a 4, 8, or 9 in appearance, don’t discriminate.
It’s quantity and repetition that helps you gain momentum, and your direction is to keep moving forward!
Most importantly, you must have that sense of urgency to DOING IT NOW.
Day one may be awkward, but after a week of getting into the swing of things, it’s all smooth sailing since you’re acting by default.
These short term goals, or what I call “immediate wins”, will help nurture the “bigger picture”. The small series of success will breed momentum for even greater successes.
It will feed your ego, confidence, and keep you focused.
So, start mapping out all your short term actionable objectives.
Start small, like saying “Hi” to 10 random girls a day, then scale things up to number closing within 10 minutes with 10 different girls everyday.
Complete one thing at a time, and soon everything will “fall into place”.
Once you start, don’t stop, and you’ll soon be unstoppable. It’ll be like getting up everyday and brushing your teeth.
Next thing you know, you’ll have more diversity of women in your life to choose from than you ever imagined.
Go get em.
To know how to talk to a girl, is to also know what topics you should avoid like popping open beer bottles with your eye socket.
I’m going to go over some of the most common subjects women dread to hear, unless she’s totally obsessed with you and wouldn’t mind to just hear you the sound of your voice.
Here we go.
1. Talking too much about yourself that bears NO relevance or relation to her life.
Don’t talk about your favorite basketball team, their winning history, especially if she’s not even remotely interested in sports. Imagine discussing something that does not affect either person’s life is in anyway, what will you get out of the conversation? Nothing much. You’ll probably forget about it the day after.
So, what personal information should you actually disclose?
Talk only about yourself when it relates to something that coincides with her interest or life. If she tells you how just developed a newfound passion for photography, and assume that you have experience in the field, you may then proceed to expand on photography itself.
When diverting the attention onto yourself, you also want to talk about things that will ramp up your character value. Communicate that you’re a man with exciting things happening in his life; that you are someone with qualities worthy of boasting to her friends and family.
Tip: Talk about things that will evoke an emotional response. What does she like to take pictures of? Why kind of moments does she enjoy capturing?
To keep yourself on the right track, most of your conversation should be based on “getting to know her” better. Silence is golden; let her do the talking.
2. No numbers. The numbers sitting your bank account, the time, mathematics, the number of women you’ve dated, the number of awards you’ve won. Anything involving numbers should be tucked away.
3. Don’t talk about your friends, or anyone she’s not familiar with. This happens way too often on dates. The guy starts talking about a ‘cool’ friend of his — who either did something incredibly macho, magnanimous, or messed up — so he shares the story thinking it’ll amuse her, when the only person who finds it interesting is himself.
Bottom line is, if you talk about a person she never met or barely even knows, keep it short, or you’ll drive her nuts. You’re on a date, hence, you’re suppose to get to know each other, not someone else.
That’s all for now 
Until next time, we’ll talk about how to transition smoothly into the topic of sex without any awkwardness in the air.
Cheers.
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Hey guys,
Wow. It’s almost two weeks deep into 2010, and it only felt like I was counting down & popping bottles on the last 10 seconds of 2009 yesterday.
I wanted to drop by and keep my readers updated, and shoot ya’ll a few pointers that will easily give you edge over other men.
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1. Verbal Playboy is 90% complete. I’ve received ongoing inquiries regarding to when the actual release date is… after 2-3 push backs. Well, my apologies fellas, I’ve been really strapped for time and the finalizing stage can be a bitch — it’s mad exhausting. I’m just as eager as you to get it on the market, but I simply won’t let anything incomplete fall into your hands.
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Now… on to the 3 Big First Date Tips
1. Learn to use your ears more than your mouth.
2. Don’t overexert or over plan for first dates. It’s all in the ‘interaction’ that counts; not where you take her to.
3. If she’s not revealing anything about herself personally and consistently, you’re veering off track.
Follow these timeless first date tips and I guarantee you’ll get a second and more.
I’m rooting for you.
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Hey guys,
I’ve been receiving a flurry of e-mails encouraging me to load more content onto the blog lately. Truth is, I’ve got more than a truckload of hot unconventional secrets on how to succeed with women soon-to-be scheduled for posting.
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Keeping a woman on good terms is a widening issue most men face everyday. How can you guarantee that the bird will return after you let it out the cage? In other words, what are some sure-fire behavioral patterns you’ll need to adopt in order to keep a woman coming back for more?
This may actually depend on your date’s personality type, but here are five universal tactics you can apply to keep a girl interested, infinitely.
1. Keep her guessing. If you’re the first to call a woman on a date out of common courtesy, try to cut down the time you spend on phone conversations. Most men nowadays ring their dates up more than their date’s mom does. That’s a dating no no.
Instead, you want to tickle her curiosity. Make her think of you. Make her guess what you’re up to. Provoke her to fantasize, as this allows you to keep her attraction level boiling hot for you.
Don’t give in too easily. Even when she asks if you would like to hang out, don’t give in too easily. Let her know you have plans, and you better have plans. Find something productive to do, not just sit around all day at home playing games online, or emptying beer cans with the boys.
Curiosity is powerful weapon to keep a girl interested.
2. As real men, we should not revolve our schedule around keeping a woman company. I’m sure you have dreams, so bring them all to fruition. Make it happen. Live life as you envision it. When a woman sees a man that teems with ambition, she will naturally, and helplessly be drawn to it. Women with class and standard are usually not interested in men with no real passion, drive, or big dreams — it translates as not being able to provide.
3. Your plans should be counterparts to the rise of your future. Imagine your dream as a piece of painting. You must devote everyday filling it with strokes and color. You need to keep your eyes on it. It must be a masterpiece. Keeping your hands on the paint brush is synonymous to sticking to your ‘plans.’
4. You want to be a man that has a life outside her world. Again, women dig strong, independent, and driven men.This may sound contradictory, but not showering them overtly with attention inadvertently ignites their attraction level towards you. Always keep things under moderation.
5. Keep your dates simple; there’s no need to embellish it with gifts in advance, nor go Shakespeare on her. Your focus should be placed on creating ‘unforgettable’ moments minus the extravagance. It could just come down to a killer-massage on her back, or completing a daring task together. Keep it simple, sweet, memorable. It actually goes a long way and yields more value.
For more powerful tips on how to become an alpha male, or the latest cutting edge tips on how to succeed with women, make sure you check out my other live articles available on here.
Here’s a toast to exploding your game.
Andrew Wang
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula
Knowing exactly how to get keep a girl interested is a widening issue most men face everyday. How can you guarantee that the bird will return after you let it out the cage? In other words, what are some sure-fire behavioral patterns you’ll need to adopt in order to keep a woman coming back for more?
This may actually depend on your date’s personality type, but here are five universal tactics you can run to the finish line with.
1. Keep her guessing. If you’re the first to call a woman on a date out of common courtesy, try to cut down the time you spend with phone conversations. Most men nowadays ring their dates up more than their date’s mom does. That’s a dating no no.
Instead, you want to tickle her curiosity. Make her think of you. Make her guess what you’re up to. Provoke her to fantasize, as this allows you up keep her attraction level boiling hot for you.
Don’t give in too easily. Even when she asks if you would like to hang out, don’t give in too easily. Let her know you have plans, and you better have plans. Find something productive to do, not just sit around all day at home playing games online, or emptying beer cans with the boys.
2. As real men, we should not revolve our schedule around keeping a woman company. I’m sure you have dreams, so bring them all to fruition. Make it happen. Live life as you envision it. A woman will see man that teems with ambition and will naturally be drawn to it. Women with class and standard are usually not disinterested in men with no passion, drive, or big dreams — it translates as not being able to provide.
3. Your plans should be counterparts to the rise of your future. Imagine your dream as a piece of painting. You must devote everyday filling it with strokes on color. You need to keep your eyes on it. It must be a masterpiece. Keeping your hands on the brush is synonymous to sticking to your ‘plans.’
4. You want to be a man that has a life outside her world. Again, women dig strong, independent, driven men.This may sound contradictory, but not showering them overtly with attention inadvertently ignites their attraction level towards you. Always keep things under moderation.
5. Keep your dates simple; there’s no need to embellish it with gifts in advance, nor go Shakespeare on her. Your focus should be placed on creating ‘unforgettable’ moments minus the extravagance. It could just come down to a killer-massage on her back, or completing a daring task together. Keep it simple, sweet, memorable. It actually goes a long way.
For more cutting edge dating tips for guys, or the latest insights on how to succeed with women, make sure you check out my other live articles available on here.
Now that you know how to keep a girl interested and fly right back to nestle in your arms…
Here’s a toast to exploding your game.
Andrew Wang
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula
Having played the role of a private dating instructor and hosting a goldmine of alpha male seduction secrets for several years now, the most dreadful form of feedback stories I regularly receive from my clients revolve usually pertain to the abused and mistreatment by women they’re dating.
Sadly, and unsurprisingly, most men nowadays continue to be treated not like celebrities on the red carpet, but literally the red carpet itself. They’re letting a woman walk all over them while still clinging on to the last shred of dignity remaining.
Here are 5 common retching behaviors that all men should never tolerate from a woman. And just for your future reference, I am no male chauvinist.
1. The Verbal War Freak
These are feverishly bitter women who enjoy angry brawling and frequent bickers; they were probably warlords in their past life. Every peaceful conversation you hold with her somehow snowballs into a painful argument. Some women just enjoy arguing or irrationally debating. Since it’s uncivil and non-lady to send their fists flying, they’ll resort with verbal clawing.
Anything that is said from you can easily be extracted out of context, and used as fuel to wage war even indirectly at you. Stay away from such women, you’ll only suffer in a holocaust of misery.
Do you want to date a potential lover, or saliva-machine gunner?
2. The Permanent Toddler
These are insecure and immature women. Those that probably never experienced the hardship of life and were spoiled growing up. Even the smallest criticism or rejection will send them crying in years.
If you are dating a toddler, you’ve probably spent half the relationship being her shoulder to lean on, and have burnt more consolation calories than a humanitarian.
These women may literally commit suicide if you decide to break up from them. It’s nothing to take lightly if you’re only seeing one. Play it smart, seek for a specialist consultant, and slowly, but surely weaken the bond. The secret to breaking up is to convince her that you’re an utterly despicable guy who’s just not right for her, and that there will be a prince in shining armor arriving soon after. Keep her hopes towering high, or her world will collapse.
3. The Mad Moody Drag Queen
Similar to the war freaks, these types of women could be just as worst. They’re simply the types that have no clue how to be happy, or what the definition of happy is.
They’ve grown up with a dark cloud over their heads. She’s the type that is proficient at moaning, whining, worrying, and filing more complaints that a family who’s home is situated right next to a celebrity nightclub.
These devils also get the kick out of complaining. Negativity is their source to survival. Too bad most guys would never suspected such behavior during their initial phases of courtship.
4. The 400 Horse Power Chatterbox
Chatterboxes can easily be defined as girls who are exactly, high-powered chatter boxes. This is less severe than constant complaining, however, the sound of ongoing drone about topics that needs not to be discussed about can sometime eat you alive, slowly, depending on the topic.
Chatterbox-lesque women are those that tries to wisely crack a comment about everything, or cuts you off while you’re saying something, just so she can complete it for you. These girls would make great emcees, just not dates.
5. The Notorious Gold Digger
With the economy spiraling in a downhill-ski fashion, it is no surprise if the human race experience a spike in Gold Diggers. These are women who are strictly in it for the money. They will seduce you into buying them presents, not out of courtesy, but sympathy.
If you catch yourself tripling your monthly spending on a date in order to keep your woman happy, or if suddenly, your wallet becomes diagnosed for malnutrition, then you ought to have a talk with yourself, “Are you being played for your money?”
These are 5 of the most lethal types of women you’ll want to avoid, because a shining Kevlar armor won’t do the job.
There’s also the possessive type which I deliberately left out, but incase you’re blind to identify them, possessive women are like your mom when you first climbed out her womb, rarely will you have freedom outside her reach.
Stay away from the top 5 listed whether you’re dead or alive.
Here’s a toast to your dating success,
Andrew Wang
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula
Photo courtesy of Urbzoo.com
Alright gentlemen, now it’s time to separate the sheep from the goat, away from the group of disparaging chauvinists who just want to get their hand into a woman’s skirt.
But you, the one, is distinctly different. Better, strong, a cut above the rest. Isn’t that right? You aim to be in a long-term contract and still play Casa Nova. Here is how you can get a girl to like you more with several alpha male qualities to tuck under your belt.
1. Got ears? Listen. The most fundamental skill to attracting more women is to listen to them. And not just nodding your head incessantly, but active listening to show you are truly interested in their like and dislike. Feel free to give them feedback and shower them with genuine compliments — that rarely do they receive from other men. Listen with sincerity and not just say “Uh huh, I see.”
2. Don’t be sticky rice
Ouch, so you call her up ten times per day and inquire where she is and what she’s doing? That’s a big dating no-no, monsieur. Quit being so controlling by putting her under scope. Obsessive behaviors will only result in break-up. Loose up a bit and show your trust to her. This is an alpha male personality you’d want to certainly acquire.
3. Quit talking about your business.
See, most guys always want to show-off their wealth and talk smart. They love stroking their ego, and they think that raises their self-worth in a woman’s eyes. If that’s how you think, you’re dead wrong. Why not show them that there’s other stuff beyond your business? Don’t you scuba dive? Cook? Or even do charity? Flaunt something real and relating to daily life. Show them that you also have a heart too.
4. Don’t be reasonable
Women are unreasonable being, particularly when they are in love. You must restrain your impetus from trying to argue or reason with them. That will only extend into a nasty drawn-out brawl. Time wasting in my opinion, and highly unproductive. A guaranteed win-win situation is to extend your arm and give her a big hug. Seriously, this small amorous gesture does the trick.
5. Be a “Man-child”
Show curiosity in a variety of field; spend time upgrading your own soul. A tattoo guy who talks nothing but tattoo, or entrepreneur snort everything else but business has a heart as poor as a beggar. Now that’s how you get a girl to want you more.
If you’d like to discover more cutting edge alpha male seduction secret and powerful dating tips for men like this, make sure you check out my other live articles.
Now that’s how you get a girl to want you more.
Have a great day, and once again, a toast to exploding your game.
Andrew Wang
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula
