So you and her have both boarded the “exclusively dating” docks. Most guys at this stage, face the nagging question: “How can I keep this going?” Some believe that it becomes more difficult than attracting her from the jump. But knowing how to keep a girl interested in you the long haul requires even less work than you can imagine.
Let me dissect the simple science on how to keep a girl interested in the long haul for you with 5 cornerstone tips.
1. Keep doing what always worked! Why break away from your usual routines that yielded success?
Continue taking the lead, setting the boundaries, and being a challenge. Don’t ever “give her the entire you” – otherwise she’ll soon take you for granted. Keep your ambitiousness at an all time high, focus on your career, and also other areas of life that make you happy. See her sparingly if you must, but when you do spend time with her, make it an unforgettable time.
It’s a psychological principle that needs to be obeyed to the T. You want her to keep competing for your attention. Just because she’s officially your girl now, does not mean you soften up and make more sacrifices for her. The attraction cards still need to be played, and the fun dynamic still needs to be oiled up!
2. Brush aside the “worries and concerns” of “how to keep a girl interested”. If you constantly live in fear that she may leave you some day, then your actions will only come across as desperate, which then compels her to dash out the doors even earlier. It’s always better to let her know in the back of her mind, that you will always have options, and that you are not afraid of being single or independent.
3. Women will always require some form of emotional stimuli to keep them interested. Keep her both intellectually and physically engaged! If not, they’ll restlessly find a guy who will keep her free from the chains of boredom. It could be her friend, colleague, whoever. You want to turn average things to exciting. That’s why the dynamics of getting too comfortable with each other doesn’t fare well in the long haul.
4. Great relationships aren’t based on external elements. Romantic kisses in the rain, late night ambles on the beaches are all Hollywood influenced fantasies. Great relationships stem from the high quality of character from both sides. When you’re both happy, you can just lay around at home, watch a movie together, without worrying about having to do anything extravagant to make the time spent together worthwhile.
If you can’t accept the simple mundane activities – then the relationship is doomed for failure. So make sure you girl understands this, and is not deluded into thinking that she will find her own Aladdin one day who’ll take her up for a ride around the world in a Persian flying carpet.
5. Stop taking the “exclusive status” so seriously. Being boyfriend/girlfriend does not mean you have to see each other every day, or give each other a good night call before dozing off. It does not mean you’ll have a higher tolerance to accept her occasional fits or irrational behavior.
Tease he, and don’t spoil her. Maybe only when it’s her birthday. Continue being a colorful character that’s unpredictable. The roller coaster effect needs to be seamlessly woven into the cloth of your relationship. At the same time, be her better half, and roll with her through the thick and thin. Yes, that’s some cliched stuff you need to adhere to. Always have her associate you with “Joie de vive” – the Joy of life!
Well, I gotta pack now guys. Taipei tomorrow. Stay tuned for Part two on how to keep a girl interested in the long term!
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Before I dash off to my solo soccer workout session, I just wanted to share a quick and timeless dating tip on how to get more girls.
Once word. Exercise.
This sounds like a given, but the thing is, most people fail to follow this simple and classic dating tip. The older most guys get, the less time they have for this shit. I know because I’ve been there.
There are many reasons why most guys don’t hit the gym, or squeeze in hourly slots into their schedule for a quick game of soccer or basketball with their boys.
1. They’re too caught up with college or career. When most of us graduate from high school, everyone’s too busy working, pulling part-times, late-night shifts, and just trying to make more money. For those that work, they’re usually too exhausted to move their asses by the time they get back home.
2. The word “exercise” itself sounds mundane, more so, most people react to it as extra work.
Well, hopefully this entry serves as the turning point where you’ll consider giving “exercise” a big warm welcome to your lifestyle.
Here’s 7 grand reasons why you should exercise.
1. You will lead and live a healthier lifestyle. Once your body is well-shaped and shredded, you’ll get prolonged eye scans and longer attention span from the ladies.
Some may even start approaching you. Here’s the deal: The more sexier body features you have, the more reasons they’ll have to throw themselves wildly at you.
2. You will build and strengthen your immune system to ward off all kinds of diseases, especially obesity. The healthier you are, the more time and energy you’ll have to be around women.
And yes, looking fit and toned beats the living shit out of carrying lumps and rolls. Being overweight or nearing the resemblance of a whale is not something you should be proud of.
3. Exercising easily lets a woman know that you know “how to take care” of yourself, which also translates to them as “I can take care of you.” Didn’t you know some girls get wet when they’re around professional athletes?
4. When you take care of your body, you add more “perceived value” to who you are as an individual. A woman will know that you care about your image and future. This commands mad respect and builds up a feeling of security when they’re around you.
5. With all those waves of endorphin (chemicals that make you feel peaceful and happy) released from a session of intensive exercise, your energy and mood will rev up. You will feel good about yourself. Your foundation of inner confidence goes up.
Once you feel good about yourself, women will feel good around you. That’s another classic tip on how to get more girls. Exercising helps to shift you into that positive mindset by nurturing all your senses with joy.
6. With the cardio and stamina game you’ll be honing, you’ll last even longer without passing the f-ck out when you’re getting freaky with a girl in bed.
Now, if you don’t have a weekly workout routine, start one. The three types of exercising I strongly recommend are: aerobic exercise, strength training, and flexibility training. Think holistic.
Find something of your interest or one that inspires you. For me, it’s basketball, soccer, and just power walking. Oh, sex counts too.
Sign up for hot yoga or gym aerobic classes where you’ll increase your opportunity to meet hordes more hot young women. Yes, it’s in-trend and meditative for women to sign up for these body contorting gym sessions, especially those with day job in the offices.
Make sure you exercise correctly. Give a day in between each workout day so your body can rest, heal, and so your muscles can grow etc. Google a bit about exercising if you need to.
The golden key is to stay committed to your workout regime. And the secret to staying committed is turn whichever form of exercising you’ve chosen into a habit.
Overall, it’s a win-win activity for you, and women will start noticing.
While you’re out scouring for more dating tips on how to get more girls, get out, soak up some vitamin-c powered sunshine, and exercise. The least you can do is to start brisk-walking (I call it power walking).
And like I always say, invest in yourself first so the ladies will invest in you.
Now that’s a classic tip on how you get more girls. Share it with the next generation.
I want you to play this video clip above, released by all star R&B singer Lloyd featuring B.o.B
Notice a recurring element in the hook? The three words “Lay your head”… that’s a commanding statement.
How’s a commanding statement relevant? Well, women love it when you take command! As discussed plenty of times before, the best way to get girls is to be comfortable with leading.
Leave alone the indecisive and non-confident side in you. Be assertive and lead the way by taking command – that’s what women want from a man. Want to know how to get a girl’s number? Don’t ask, “tell” her to give you her digits, in a non-pushy but casually cool demeanor.
The secret on how to get girls is this: If you can get them to comply to your commands in endless successions, she develops the habit of giving in to you. This is how you crush any barriers to getting a girl to spend time with you and do as you wish.
In the initial phase of courtship, what women is for you to be the street savvy driver while she rides passenger. Take command of the wheel, and give her the ride of her life.
Whenever I upload a hip hop / rnb music video onto the blog, I’m not here to promote it.
My sole intentions are for you to check out how these celebrity artists move, especially their body language game (which I know they spend HOURS training on).
In this video, I’d like you to study their body language and notice how both crooner and rapper communicate nothing short of confidence, authority, and masculinity.
Now, what else can you pick up from this song “Phone Number”?
Notice how Bobby V doesn’t ask, but “orders” the girl when he wants a number.
That’s EXACTLY how you can double your success rate when getting a girl’s number, GIVEN that you’ve established great rapport with them beforehand!
Tell, no need to ask.
I want to talk to you about Momentum today, which I am certain will be one game changing word for you too.
It’s an invaluable element not just to business successes, but for all guys who want to sharpen their game with women.
Momentum is essentially the life force that makes you “stay in the game”. It keeps your driven and consistent with “staying in form”.
You see, we are inherently creatures of habits, so if your goal is to bed more girls, then you must start doing things that will increase the chances of that happening, WITH CONSISTENCY.
The more you focus intently on something, the better you’ll obviously get.
So, if you want more women in your life, reshape your lifestyle where you dedicate a portion of your schedule everyday to meeting new faces.
Don’t be afraid to approach chat up the next girl you see, and even the girl after. Whether she’s a 4, 8, or 9 in appearance, don’t discriminate.
It’s quantity and repetition that helps you gain momentum, and your direction is to keep moving forward!
Most importantly, you must have that sense of urgency to DOING IT NOW.
Day one may be awkward, but after a week of getting into the swing of things, it’s all smooth sailing since you’re acting by default.
These short term goals, or what I call “immediate wins”, will help nurture the “bigger picture”. The small series of success will breed momentum for even greater successes.
It will feed your ego, confidence, and keep you focused.
So, start mapping out all your short term actionable objectives.
Start small, like saying “Hi” to 10 random girls a day, then scale things up to number closing within 10 minutes with 10 different girls everyday.
Complete one thing at a time, and soon everything will “fall into place”.
Once you start, don’t stop, and you’ll soon be unstoppable. It’ll be like getting up everyday and brushing your teeth.
Next thing you know, you’ll have more diversity of women in your life to choose from than you ever imagined.
Go get em.
To know how to talk to a girl, is to also know what topics you should avoid like popping open beer bottles with your eye socket.
I’m going to go over some of the most common subjects women dread to hear, unless she’s totally obsessed with you and wouldn’t mind to just hear you the sound of your voice.
Here we go.
1. Talking too much about yourself that bears NO relevance or relation to her life.
Don’t talk about your favorite basketball team, their winning history, especially if she’s not even remotely interested in sports. Imagine discussing something that does not affect either person’s life is in anyway, what will you get out of the conversation? Nothing much. You’ll probably forget about it the day after.
So, what personal information should you actually disclose?
Talk only about yourself when it relates to something that coincides with her interest or life. If she tells you how just developed a newfound passion for photography, and assume that you have experience in the field, you may then proceed to expand on photography itself.
When diverting the attention onto yourself, you also want to talk about things that will ramp up your character value. Communicate that you’re a man with exciting things happening in his life; that you are someone with qualities worthy of boasting to her friends and family.
Tip: Talk about things that will evoke an emotional response. What does she like to take pictures of? Why kind of moments does she enjoy capturing?
To keep yourself on the right track, most of your conversation should be based on “getting to know her” better. Silence is golden; let her do the talking.
2. No numbers. The numbers sitting your bank account, the time, mathematics, the number of women you’ve dated, the number of awards you’ve won. Anything involving numbers should be tucked away.
3. Don’t talk about your friends, or anyone she’s not familiar with. This happens way too often on dates. The guy starts talking about a ‘cool’ friend of his — who either did something incredibly macho, magnanimous, or messed up — so he shares the story thinking it’ll amuse her, when the only person who finds it interesting is himself.
Bottom line is, if you talk about a person she never met or barely even knows, keep it short, or you’ll drive her nuts. You’re on a date, hence, you’re suppose to get to know each other, not someone else.
That’s all for now
Until next time, we’ll talk about how to transition smoothly into the topic of sex without any awkwardness in the air.
Cheers.
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Hey guys,
Wow. It’s almost two weeks deep into 2010, and it only felt like I was counting down & popping bottles on the last 10 seconds of 2009 yesterday.
I wanted to drop by and keep my readers updated, and shoot ya’ll a few pointers that will easily give you edge over other men.
Updates:
1. Verbal Playboy is 90% complete. I’ve received ongoing inquiries regarding to when the actual release date is… after 2-3 push backs. Well, my apologies fellas, I’ve been really strapped for time and the finalizing stage can be a bitch — it’s mad exhausting. I’m just as eager as you to get it on the market, but I simply won’t let anything incomplete fall into your hands.
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2. The new release date is due before end of this month. I promise, and I don’t break promises.
Now… on to the 3 Big First Date Tips
1. Learn to use your ears more than your mouth.
2. Don’t overexert or over plan for first dates. It’s all in the ‘interaction’ that counts; not where you take her to.
3. If she’s not revealing anything about herself personally and consistently, you’re veering off track.
Follow these timeless first date tips and I guarantee you’ll get a second and more.
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Hey guys,
I’ve been receiving a flurry of e-mails encouraging me to load more content onto the blog lately. Truth is, I’ve got more than a truckload of hot unconventional secrets on how to succeed with women soon-to-be scheduled for posting.
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