Knowing exactly how to get keep a girl interested is a widening issue most men face everyday. How can you guarantee that the bird will return after you let it out the cage? In other words, what are some sure-fire behavioral patterns you’ll need to adopt in order to keep a woman coming back for more?

This may actually depend on your date’s personality type, but here are five universal tactics you can run to the finish line with.

1. Keep her guessing. If you’re the first to call a woman on a date out of common courtesy, try to cut down the time you spend with phone conversations. Most men nowadays ring their dates up more than their date’s mom does. That’s a dating no no.

Instead, you want to tickle her curiosity. Make her think of you. Make her guess what you’re up to. Provoke her to fantasize, as this allows you up keep her attraction level boiling hot for you.

Don’t give in too easily. Even when she asks if you would like to hang out, don’t give in too easily. Let her know you have plans, and you better have plans. Find something productive to do, not just sit around all day at home playing games online, or emptying beer cans with the boys.

2. As real men, we should not revolve our schedule around keeping a woman company. I’m sure you have dreams, so bring them all to fruition. Make it happen. Live life as you envision it. A woman will see man that teems with ambition and will naturally be drawn to it. Women with class and standard are usually not disinterested in men with no passion, drive, or big dreams — it translates as not being able to provide.

3. Your plans should be counterparts to the rise of your future. Imagine your dream as a piece of painting. You must devote everyday filling it with strokes on color. You need to keep your eyes on it. It must be a masterpiece. Keeping your hands on the brush is synonymous to sticking to your ‘plans.’

4. You want to be a man that has a life outside her world. Again, women dig strong, independent, driven men.This may sound contradictory, but not showering them overtly with attention inadvertently ignites their attraction level towards you. Always keep things under moderation.

5. Keep your dates simple; there’s no need to embellish it with gifts in advance, nor go Shakespeare on her. Your focus should be placed on creating ‘unforgettable’ moments minus the extravagance. It could just come down to a killer-massage on her back, or completing a daring task together. Keep it simple, sweet, memorable. It actually goes a long way.

For more cutting edge dating tips for guys, or the latest insights on how to succeed with women, make sure you check out my other live articles available on here.

Now that you know how to keep a girl interested and fly right back to nestle in your arms…

Here’s a toast to exploding your game.

Andrew Wang

Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula

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Now that’s how you get a girl to want you more.

Have a great day, and once again, a toast to exploding your game.

Andrew Wang
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula

There’s one aspect about a man’s attribute that women will always respond favorably to. What’s that?

It’s our self-developed burning passion for what we love to do. A man who avoids to sluggishly carrying out his duties, but does so ambitiously is one profound contagious manifestation. To women, it translates as ‘sexy’.

Women dig men who love what they do, regardless of the subject. What women want in a man is one with deep-seated passion. A dream, direction, and driven attitude.

Whatever your 9-5 job is, or even if industrial standards deem your positioning “Ordinary”, you should always give your career “your all”, not just come “half-assed”.

If you feel like you’re stuck in a rut, find ways to circumvent your problems and make the reality of it better. Trust me, if you’ve got the will, there will always be a way to make your surrounding environs better.

If you have a lifeless soul, no sense of life direction, or no passion to live, then it will affect and show in your external behavior. Your eyes will seem grey, solemn, and you’ll be qualifying yourself as a “walking dead”. Not attractive, just downright scary.

People who are genuinely passionate and attuned to their job are very attractive by default.

When you look at these people, you see a fiery cackle of fire and life in their eyes. These people are fully immersed in what they do and will most likely excel fastest in their field. To both men and women, that’s salutary and inspirational.

Whether you’re a chef, bartender, veterinarian, or even butterfly-catcher, don’t ever be embarrassed with the role you play. Even if you’re a huge fan of fishing, women will naturally develop a keen interest once your actions transfer the energy and excitement you feel to her.

Here’s a final analogy before I close on this note. Imagine yourself as a hip-hop rap beat (instrumental) If the production is low-quality, droning, and poorly structured, you set yourself the risk of being ‘skipped’ by the selective artists (women) who are in search of that beat (man) to complete their song (relationship).

Remember, being ambitious is what women wants. It can never go wrong.

To your dating success,

Andrew Wang (Allurre)

Fellas, there’s a stark contrast between the potency of a gaze and the detriments of a stare when a man and woman first exchange glances.

I thought I should expound on this factor as most men fail to exploit the power in gazing, and rather shoot themselves in the foot by staring.

You know you’ve done it before. We all have. Some still do.

The difference.

When you stare at a woman, it only conveys that you’re a pervert, lack mileage with women, and is boyfriend no-no.

Staring in our society is considered annoying and disconcerting.
It suggests that you are desperate but don’t have the balls of steels to approach her.

Staring is for the weak. It is rude, pathetic, and counter productive. Quit staring.

Now, here’s the fine difference between a gaze and a stare. Gazing is powerful and seductive.

A gaze can penetrate the windows of the eyes and into the soul. Real talk. When two lover’s are looking into each other eyes, they’re gazing, not staring..

Gazing unravels a wave of tingly and exciting emotions. A stare rings their built-in alarm and makes them want to teleport days away from you.

To your dating success,

Andrew Wang (Allurre)

Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula

Esquire magazine runs an enlightening column every month in its print issue, putting a female celebrity in the spotlight and asking them to answer that eternal question: What do most men not know about women?

The list is extensive and the answers are varied, but for the best results in your dating career, file these five rules to memory on your pursuit to understanding women better.

1. Too many compliments spoil the broth.

Girls love getting compliments. They do. They don’t spend hours getting ready for nothing. A well chosen compliment goes a long way. However, there are benefits in restraint.

Showering her with compliments, even though you mean it, will dilute the impact. She might even begin to think that you have ulterior motives, or worse, guilty of something. At which point, paranoia creeps in.

2. Women dress to impress other women.

Remember that when you’re tempted to ask her about her uncomfortable looking babydoll-and-leggings combination. She won’t be impressed by any snide comments, especially if her girlfriends think she looks fab.

Instead, tell her she looks very trendy. It’ll score you point or it’ll make you sound gay. And if it’s the latter, then you can always prove her otherwise, right?

3. Selective hearing.

All the nice things you’ve said about her will be wiped out by a single negative remark. Praise and flattery are background noise, but she’ll zero in on a criticism like a shark to chum. And she’ll remember it for life, bringing it up months from now. So lads, even if you don’t have anything nice to say, say something nice.

4. Never trust a woman without girlfriends.

If she’s managed to pissed off and alienate all of her female friends, what chance do you stand? You might think that her reduced requirement for girly time and shopping excursions might mean more time for you, but who’s going to bear the brunt when the inevitable paranoia and insecurities set in?

5. Keep the seat down.

Women aren’t physically built like us men, you know. We may be fine with having the toilet seat up, but girls need it down. Make it a point to lower the seat when it’s up, and she’ll start noticing what a considerate chap you are. Major brownie points. And if the seat is down and you splash while you tinkle, start wiping.

Understanding women is a critical factor to consider if you’d like to triple your success with women and enjoy longer term relationships.

To enhance your understanding a couple notches up, make sure you download my 20 Dating Secrets special report revealing 20 shocking facts 97% of men worldwide don’t know about women.

What up guys,

What you’re about to discover is one of the most timeless dating tips for guys. This is one of the most critical component to acquire as part of your inner game seduction.

Now,  just to grow a bit more accustomed on my editorial style, I’m not the type to beat around the bushes ; I like to cut straight to the chase.

Why? Because  I don’t to waste your time.

IF you need any clarification on any matter, feel free too comment or hit me up at syncdating@gmail.com

Let’s get to it.

“Developing optimism and indifference towards women.”

1. Realizing The Power of Optimism & Indifference.

In this fast-paced dating world, you must be absolutely optimistic. It’s not just memorizing methods on how to pick up a girl, the real secrets to attract women is by adopting an unshakable optimistic mindset.

For example, if you’re not optimistic about getting that girl’s number, then you’ll never even consider “taking action” or approaching her.

Truth is, the only person that’s holding you back from bedding more women or inching closer to your dream girl, is yourself.  It’s all in your mind.

Rewire your beliefs. Cast away all doubts. Stop frowning on your incompetence with women (if that’s the case,) and tell yourself, it’s all going to change today.

As a matter of fact, “get optimistic” about transforming into a chick magnet within 3-4 weeks, no longer. There’s no such thing as an overnight success, but there’s an express lane to it.

If you strongly believe that you can succeed with women fast, then chances of that happening WILL tip in your favor. That’s what I call, the “power of believing.”

So why am I talking about “Optimism” with women?

The energy and vibrations from your thoughts, emotions, and feelings combined all have an impact on your performance and the reality you are trying to shape.

If you’re filled with optimism, you’ll be more comfortable and confident when dealt with their presence.  Your overall performance heightens and you’ll be a lot more fun to interact with.

What a woman wants is a man that understands this social dynamic. If you’re optimistic, you’re more prone to feel happy. Since emotions are contagious, she will soon be influenced by your happiness and associate you with that special feeling.

2. Now, on an equal note, let’s talk about remaining “Indifference” around women.

Once you stop putting women on the pedestal and perceiving them as goddesses of earth, your “indifference attitude” towards them will create an air of mystique and attraction.

Indifference works like a charm, and is oft-hushed about as dating secrets to attract women with. Let me shed some more light on this aspect.

Imagine this scenario. A steaming hot chick walks into a bar, and suddenly all the guys turn towards her drooling and howling.  Such behavioral action will only lead her to labeling those guys as “losers”. You can, however, capitalize off this moment by remaining “indifferent”.

By showing that you don’t really care about her looks, she’ll notice right away and her curiosity level will spike.

She’ll be asking herself…”Why isn’t this guy like the other losers in here barking hungrily at me?”… “Hm, interesting… I like this”.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not telling you to “ignore” women. If that’s the case, you may only be at risk of sending signals “not interested”, or “I’m gay, so I’m not going showering you with the attention like the other dudes”.

My apologies on being blunt, but you’ll get used to it.

Being indifferent is telling yourself that “I’ve got better things to do rather then falling head over heels over a girl I hardly even know.”

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Here’s a toast to exploding your game,

Andrew Wang (Allurre)

Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula

What up guys.

You could argue that modern day men have been negatively affected by the demystification of female psychology.

You see. Back in the day, Steve McQueen didn’t have to worry about feminine insecurities; he just put his cowboy hat on and rode off into the sunset.

Today, the prevalence of Sex and the City and Female Psychology 101 films like ‘He’s Just Not That Into You’ have added an additional bullet point to the list of the modern man’s responsibilities:

We aren’t expected to just wine and dine women anymore; we’re expected to understand them too.

That’s all fine and dandy if the first date goes well and you’re on the road to Relationship Highway.

But what if the first date doesn’t?

Here’s my special piece of dating advice today: Perish that first standard instinct to pack up, move along and not look back. It may be easy for you, but women move in mysterious ways.

If there’s attraction on her part, you can bet she’s going to be checking her phone every quarter of an hour for that follow-up call you’re supposed to make. And as hours turn to days turn to weeks, that anticipation turns to bile and pretty soon she’ll be bitching about you to her girl friends about how all men are scum, etc, etc, etc.

Now, in these days of Facebook, Friendster and ever-decreasing degrees of social separation, you wouldn’t want to gain a reputation as a dismissive cad, would you?

If you don’t fancy her, pre-empt everything by simply dropping her a line saying just that.

“Hey, I’ll be honest with you, but I don’t think we’ll work. This is out of respect as I do not want to lead you astray”

It might hurt a bit, but at least she can move on. Besides, you might one day end up dating one of her friends and you would want to be in the ‘had-a-good-date-but-it-didn’t-work-out’ category, not the exaggerated ‘idiot-never-called-me-back’ column.

Keep that score sheet clean; honesty is sometimes the best policy.

While making our debut appearance at a newly opened trendy-chic night club “Funky Villa ” yesterday, me and my girl ran into a conversation about how I used to help other men to succeed with women.

I told her about a secret I shared which served as turning point — or on a more subtle note — stepping-stone to all my friend’s success.

It was a refreshingly and enlightening discovery for her.

Here’s what happened.

I told her, “I bet I can tell which one of these girls want to have sex tonight.”

“And how so?” she asks.

I lifted up my forefinger and drew an invisible circle to every women in sight.

The fact is undeniable.

Any women out clubbing on a night wants to go home in bed, not alone if possible.

I’m not suggesting that women are desperate creatures of bed time fun, but they all want to be in the arms of a man, or a lover.

Even if they tell you “I don’t usually sleep on first nights”, it’s a half-lie at best. I usually translate this remark as an indicator to pursue harder.

Once you say the right things, and make the right moves, you will get her.

You can convert an anti one night stander overnight.

To recap, the root belief of this secret is: All women want to have sex. That’s one of the most helpful, and surprisingly unknown facts to many men. For now, it’ll forever be swept off the rug.

You can pick up my “20 Dating Secrets” Special Report, where you’ll get 20 highly coveted information about women at www.syncdating.com

The download link can be accessed right away.

Enjoy. I know you will.

Andrew Wang (Allurre)

Still facing ongoing difficulties with understanding women? Or understanding what women want in men? I’ve got you covered.

If you believe all the movies out there (and you should, because life always sounds better with a Howard Shore soundtrack and that hissing sound you just heard is an Alien waiting to pounce on you), you could be led to believe that womankind, them of XX chromosomes, are beyond complex, inherently contradictory organisms.

They say yes when they mean no; they say no when they mean no; they like the attention, but protest when you pay too much attention claiming its ‘patronising’; they dislike being objectified, yet dress up like a cliché.

What’s a man to do? Are women beyond understanding? Is gritting your teeth to watch Sex and the City and endless chick flicks the only way to gain a modicum of understanding of the female psyche?

Bullshit.

Okay, in slightly less harsh tones, just bull. Women aren’t as complex as the media makes them out to be, seriously.

You see, the myth of complicated women sells; it’s the stuff of movie plotlines, tv serials and corny helpbooks emblazoned with the words: “How to understand women in five easy steps!”.

Understanding women is easy; just put yourself in their shoes. If you don’t like being treated or talked to in a certain ways, odds are a girl won’t either. You like to be flattered; they like to be flattered. You get ticked if a guy flirts with your girlfriend, she’ll be irritated if you get friendly with other girls.

The main difference between a guy and a girl isn’t so much the way we think, but our reactions. Men are programmed to be more blasé, girls, understandably, are more emotional.

So understanding women is more about managing expectations than solving a murder mystery. Women aren’t complex; they just have more exaggerated responses.

What you may brush off with an irritated sigh can turn into a full tantrum for a girl. Realizing this is half the battle won; the other half is won by attention, honesty and apologies (where necessary).

Except if it’s that time of the month. That’s when all rationality flies out the window, and you’re better off finding some cover holding up until it blows over.

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To your dating success,

Andrew Wang (Allurre)