There’s a reason why opinion openers are favored in my playbook.
Why?
1. It reveals no intent that you’re actually ‘hitting on her’.
2. It’s your first hook to make her commit herself to you.
3. Women love to share their personal opinion. It indirectly communicates that you VALUE and RESPECT her.
4. It immediately grabs her attention — always.
Next time you see a prospect, try an opinion opener.
Here are some hot starters…
“Hey, quick question, I need a woman’s opinion, what color shirt do you think looks good on me?”
or… go with something that can lead into a debate.
“Hey, this will be quick. I’m just doing a quick survey. What are three most important traits women look for a man in this time?”
Notice: How I’d inform her in advance that “this will be quick”. This is to cool off any pressure and ward off any thoughts where you’ll be wasting her time. Thus, her compliance level rises 
Once you receive your initial answer, don’t just end it there… extend the conversation a bit longer by getting to know each other.
For example, if she tells how how she values a guy with humor, honesty, and integrity, probe deeper and ask her.. “so you don’t care about looks?” or “so what kind of humor exactly? the witty, lame, sarcastic type?”
The rest of the course is yours
Make sure you number and e-mail close just so in case you need her valuable opinion again in the future.
Not forget, it’s not only what you say that matters,but also how you say it. Your tonality and body language plays a major role and should always remain positive, enthusiastic, and upbeat.
Positivity and confidence breeds positive & confidence. Feel as if you want her to feel towards you.
To know how to talk to a girl, is to also know what topics you should avoid like popping open beer bottles with your eye socket.
I’m going to go over some of the most common subjects women dread to hear, unless she’s totally obsessed with you and wouldn’t mind to just hear you the sound of your voice.
Here we go.
1. Talking too much about yourself that bears NO relevance or relation to her life.
Don’t talk about your favorite basketball team, their winning history, especially if she’s not even remotely interested in sports. Imagine discussing something that does not affect either person’s life is in anyway, what will you get out of the conversation? Nothing much. You’ll probably forget about it the day after.
So, what personal information should you actually disclose?
Talk only about yourself when it relates to something that coincides with her interest or life. If she tells you how just developed a newfound passion for photography, and assume that you have experience in the field, you may then proceed to expand on photography itself.
When diverting the attention onto yourself, you also want to talk about things that will ramp up your character value. Communicate that you’re a man with exciting things happening in his life; that you are someone with qualities worthy of boasting to her friends and family.
Tip: Talk about things that will evoke an emotional response. What does she like to take pictures of? Why kind of moments does she enjoy capturing?
To keep yourself on the right track, most of your conversation should be based on “getting to know her” better. Silence is golden; let her do the talking.
2. No numbers. The numbers sitting your bank account, the time, mathematics, the number of women you’ve dated, the number of awards you’ve won. Anything involving numbers should be tucked away.
3. Don’t talk about your friends, or anyone she’s not familiar with. This happens way too often on dates. The guy starts talking about a ‘cool’ friend of his — who either did something incredibly macho, magnanimous, or messed up — so he shares the story thinking it’ll amuse her, when the only person who finds it interesting is himself.
Bottom line is, if you talk about a person she never met or barely even knows, keep it short, or you’ll drive her nuts. You’re on a date, hence, you’re suppose to get to know each other, not someone else.
That’s all for now
Until next time, we’ll talk about how to transition smoothly into the topic of sex without any awkwardness in the air.
Cheers.
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Hey guys,
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If there every comes a time where you run empty on conversational juice, here’s an immediate back-up plan to implement.
Play the “What Do You Think That Person’s Thinking Game”
I know, that was a well-thought and extensively designed name.
It’s very simple to play, and can stir up a good laugh. In fact, time zooms by when you play this.
Instructions:
For example, if you see a woman sitting alone with a poker-face, commentate on it with a narrative voice.
Think of what’s going on inside her that skull of hers. In this case, I would just assume that she’s sitting bored to death.
“Why is today… just so boring?” — Say it in a low, exhausted, and raspy voice.
“When am I going to find a guy that knows how to treat me right” — In a feminine high-pitched voice.
“I believe… life sucks, officially, today.”
Get what I mean?
This is a very entertaining activity, and excellent for rapport building. it will certainly help increase your attraction level with women.Women will enjoy and pick-up the creative side to you.
The trick is to make it seem as natural and realistic as possible.
Give it a try.
To your dating success,
Andrew Wang (Allurre)
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula
