During any interaction with a girl, carefully coordinate your internal thoughts and feelings.This is literally all you have to do to yield impact on how she feels toward you.

For example, if you’re in a piss-poor mood and your boss just informed you in advance that you’ll be sacked in a weeks time, the negativity and stress boiling from within you will definitely be felt.All women are emotionally intuitive.

It will show through your expression, body language, and tone of voice.

On the contrary, if your mind frame was fixed on something immensely positive, such as “having won $100,000″ last night, you’ll thus feel more empowered, excited, and on top of the world!

That’s exactly the ideal emotional state you want to render a girl to.

So, to recap: What you think will always influence how you feel; and how you feel potentially affects the conversational dynamic, which consequently affects the type of responses you get from a woman.

To know how to talk to a girl, is to also know what topics you should avoid like popping open beer bottles with your eye socket.

I’m going to go over some of the most common subjects women dread to hear, unless she’s totally obsessed with you and wouldn’t mind to just hear you the sound of your voice.

Here we go.

1. Talking too much about yourself that bears NO relevance or relation to her life.

Don’t talk about your favorite basketball team, their winning history, especially if she’s not even remotely interested in sports. Imagine discussing something that does not affect either person’s life is in anyway, what will you get out of the conversation? Nothing much. You’ll probably forget about it the day after.

So, what personal information should you actually disclose?

Talk only about yourself when it relates to something that coincides with her interest or life. If she tells you how just developed a newfound passion for photography, and assume that you have experience in the field, you may then proceed to expand on photography itself.

When diverting the attention onto yourself, you also want to talk about things that will ramp up your character value. Communicate that you’re a man with exciting things happening in his life; that you are someone with qualities worthy of boasting to her friends and family.

Tip: Talk about things that will evoke an emotional response. What does she like to take pictures of? Why kind of moments does she enjoy capturing?

To keep yourself on the right track, most of your conversation should be based on “getting to know her” better. Silence is golden; let her do the talking.

2. No numbers. The numbers sitting your bank account, the time, mathematics, the number of women you’ve dated, the number of awards you’ve won. Anything involving numbers should be tucked away.

3. Don’t talk about your friends, or anyone she’s not familiar with. This happens way too often on dates. The guy starts talking about a ‘cool’ friend of his — who either did something incredibly macho, magnanimous, or messed up — so he shares the story thinking it’ll amuse her, when the only person who finds it interesting is himself.

Bottom line is, if you talk about a person she never met or barely even knows, keep it short, or you’ll drive her nuts. You’re on a date, hence, you’re suppose to get to know each other, not someone else.

That’s all for now

Until next time, we’ll talk about how to transition smoothly into the topic of sex without any awkwardness in the air.

Cheers.

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Yes.

Valentines day is nearing.

Some say it’s overrated. Some panic in hopes of not being a
let-down… and will just watch it go by.

I’ve had many people ask me for pointers, so I decided
to extract some time out of my chaotic schedule to
spread some insights

Here I go.

* For those who will have a date for this special occasion
with their significant other…

Don’t worry about outdoing your last V-day.

Your winning ticket is to just keep it ‘original’.

Once you’ve got everything planned, ask yourself…

“Will tonight be memorable?” Better be yes.
“Can it be replicated?” Hint: Think outside the box.

My point is: It’s unnecessary to buy into the generic dates.

You can choose not to dine under the stars, or book for a swank
restaurant where you can gaze out in the sparkling city skyline.

Don’t be ashamed of keeping it ‘frugal’ later. She’s not
going to think you’re cheap if you can override her logic with
a constant surge of fun and happiness.

Instead of investing wallet-bruising numbers on an expensive
date, think outside the box and let creativity do the
‘wowing’.

It’s always the whole interaction that counts, not the
external extravaganza.

Now …

*  If you two just started dating, don’t let V-day raise the bar
or sweat you a bit.

1. Focus on getting to know each other better.

Establish deep-level attraction by progressively
escalating into more emotional intimate
conversational topics..

For example…

Exchange stories about each others most adventurous,
embarrassing, unforgettable experiences.

Then, raise the heat by
talking about the naughtiest, or publicly obscene conducts
you’ve been through.

Swap crazy stories. Time will FLY.

2. Drill into her lifelong interests and passions.

Get down to her quirks, dramatic childhood
stories.

Dare to ask for ‘private’ information. But do so in a relaxed
manner. Set the frame that she will entertain to your
questions.

Once you get her into the habit of opening up herself – not
only will you have shot up her comfort level towards you, but
also rocket-shuttled your personalization level.

3. Just to sweeten the night, or to add more fire to the romance
(without getting physically sexual yet…)

Find a venue or local college for live music with swinging jazz.

I’m sure there’s bound to be more than enough events around your area.

Take in the wind, and have a few nice drinks to recline to.

Now, if the vibe is noticeably buzzing well throughout
the night,  you know what you got to do: Sexually escalate.

It ain’t just the guys, women all want to get laid on valentines.

How do you bring her home?

Seed the idea of visiting your place later
while you’re on the date.

Tell her you’ve got some (insert an object
of her interest) you’d like to show her…

If she’s a die-hard fan of Bob Marley,
prepare a play list in advance and
return home to listen to it together.

You get the idea.

One more thing…

If you’re getting her flowers…which I assume
most will, save it for last.

And get artificial ones. Don’t go overboard with bouquets
either.

Try to attach a little slip that says something along
the lines of…

“I had an amazing night with you. Happy
valentines.”

Simple yet effective. Less is more.

What you want to imbue in her mind by the end of the night is…

“What’s next?” … followed by smile on her face.

Gentlemen, I hope you all have an amazing Valentines.

Try not get her pregnant.

Cheers.

Respect,

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What up guys…

Here’s a quick field report documenting a live example of
how to banter with women

[Part I]

The other night, I decided to clock in some evening hours
at Coffee World to work on some new projects.

Approximately 15 minutes later…

A group of smoking hot tourists — which I discovered later
were Irvine (California) undergrad students –  came in and sat
down right across the table from where I was.

Two minute goes by…

One of them comes up to me to ask if I had any idea whereabouts
they can find ‘transexuals’ in Bangkok.

Obviously, they wanted some raw uncut entertainment and
amusement. Witnessing transsexuals for the first time in
their lives must be special occasion.

Don’t get the wrong picture though, it may be stereotypical
to assume that transsexuals flood the streets here Bangkok,
but in actuality; their community is very small.

Anyways, as soon as she asked,

I decided to step the plate and and tease her…

I throw her a playfully startled look and tell her…

“Wow, I really didn’t know you were the type that’s into them.”

She instantly laughed and gave me a playful punch to the arm.

Note: Whenever a woman initiates such physical contact,
you’ve broken the ice.

I then tell her where she can locate them, and surprisingly…
she continues to ask me whether “they are good-looking”

This gave me more fuel to tease…

I tell her… “I am really starting to get a stronger
impression that you like them now.”

“Were you… (pause) a transexual in your past life?”

Bam. Double-shots of flirtatious tension.

***

[Part II]

A friend of hers then joins and sees what the commotion is,
and her face lights up with joy when she sees my laptop.

(I assume she’s been internet-deprived and hasn’t checked her
email due to heavy-duty traveling.)

Well, I was right. She asks if she can use my laptop
since she hasn’t checked her mail for 5 days.

I said “No.”

They both go “Awww. Why?”

I tell her, “it gets me jealous when other hands besides
from mine touching it.”

Bam. Added flirtatious tension. They both giggle.

Of course, I then gave her permission.

So what happened in the end?

Me and the girls wind up talking & bonding for the
next half an hour.

As the group was about to depart, one of them
even voiced their hesitation to leave as she wanted to stay
behind and talk learn more about Bangkok. (Obviously an
excuse to stick around.)

Well,
I hope you found this short report helpful in some way

The moral of this entry : Never settle for mundane
conventioanl responses.

When a woman is hot, “never please but tease”.

It’s inarguable: Any man with social proof will always be perceivedwith higher value and status, thus making him more desirable.

Now, the question is, how do can we maximize our social proof? how we can explode our network of friends?

Here’s a quick tip that’ll go a LONG way.

Say “Hello” to the people around you more often!

Of course, wait til the you guys meet eye-to-eye.

Although most of us were raised and taught not to  “talk to strangers”,  I believe now is the time to defy this rule. If you fear meeting new people, start developing a passion to do so now.

Watch your social network and contact list on your phone balloon within the next month

The more frequent you practice this method, the more “accustomed” you’ll grow to this new habit, and trust me, your popularity / social proof will shoot through the roof.

Now hit the stride and get go on a “Hello”ing spree! You’ll soon realize that most people are more responsive and friendlier than you’ve expected.

Photo Credits: Cutie Court

I know. There will always be women who are raised conservatively, bizarrely shy, religiously-constrained, and in response, you’d think their inner playgirl or ‘stripper’ has been handicapped from ever fully expressing their sensual side.

If you really want to know how to get a girl horny, or helplessly hot and bothered, it all boils down to how you emotionally connect with her under a sexual frame.

Although what you see on the surface may suggest that a woman is in the mood for sex, what lies beneath all that skin is an uncontestable universal truth. All women silently crave to fulfill their sexual urges. They all have a voracious appetite to get down and dirty, even if unconscious. It’s wired in our primitive nature. All it takes is one simple state shift for them to book first class flight to naughty-ville.

The problem is, most men just can’t escalate into a sexually-charged attraction level with her. This is usually due to the lack of emotional progression and comfort build.

Here is a fine 3-step method on how to get a girl horny and awaken her wild inner beast.

1. Start light with non-sugar coated compliments. Push and pull.

If you’re like most aspiring pick up students whose been preconditioned to believe that ‘sweet talking’ gets you no where, that it’s a catch 22 and condemned as a ‘nice guy’ thing to do, you ought to think again.

Women are vulnerable to sweet talk. It’s the overdose of sugar that’s destructive. When you compliment a woman, be cautious perform sincerely and tactically. When sweet talking, you must also trigger sexual tension simultaneously. That’s when Push and pull comes to play.

For instance, if you want to tell a girl she’s beautiful, try… (In a playful tone) “You’re too beautiful to be true.”

You could also tell her … “You’re beautiful, but I’m still debating whether your inner beauty matches up.” Or, “You know, you’re a very beautiful person, but is there more than what meets the eye?”

As you can see, we’ve successfully complimented, but also framed our dates to qualify her for you, which consequently positions you as the one being under pursuit.

2. Never reveal sexual intent. If you’d like a safety net in the process of creating sexual frenzy, never reveal your underlying intentions to sleep with her, and never fully communicate to her that ‘you like her.’ No signals, no hints. This is a reverse engineering tactic to make her comfortable in unconsciously developing a sexual and emotional desire for you.

3. Talk about sex like it’s no big deal.

Most men shudder at the thought of dwelling on sex. Truth is, if you want her to be comfortable with the thought of having sex with you, you must first induce her to associate you with sex as acceptable.

A quick and painless method is to get her into the spirit of ‘intellectually discussing’ about sex. Keep it controversial.

You can simply ask which celebrities have regular affairs, since temptation is all around them; or ask whether she thinks men or women are more desperate for sex. Approach this friendly argument with confidence and playfulness. Don’t take it seriously, and don’t treat it like a big deal. Apply humor where possible.

Your mission is to get her into a participatory mode and spread her insights on the multifaceted aspects to sex.

Then, progressively advance into more personal depths by asking what she considers ‘good sex.’  Just remember, the key to how to get a girl horny verbally is through the right emotional progression and sexual tension.

Follow the three steps respectively and her inner volcano will erupt in no time.

Hey guys,

I’ve been receiving a flurry of e-mails encouraging me to load more content onto the blog lately. Truth is, I’ve got more than a truckload of hot unconventional secrets on how to succeed with women soon-to-be scheduled for posting.

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If there every comes a time where you run empty on conversational juice, here’s an immediate back-up plan to implement.

Play the “What Do You Think That Person’s Thinking Game”

I know, that was a well-thought and extensively designed name.

It’s very simple to play, and can stir up a good laugh. In fact, time zooms by when you play this.

Instructions:

1. Take turns selecting a person nearby as a subject.
2. Pretend to be that person, and voice their thoughts as if they’re speaking through you.
3. That’s it.

For example, if you see a woman sitting alone with a poker-face, commentate on it with a narrative voice.

Think of what’s going on inside her that skull of hers. In this case, I would just assume that she’s sitting bored to death.

“Why is today… just so boring?” — Say it in a low, exhausted, and raspy voice.

“When am I going to find a guy that knows how to treat me right” — In a feminine high-pitched voice.

“I believe… life sucks, officially, today.”

Get what I mean?

This is a very entertaining activity, and excellent for rapport building. it will certainly help increase your attraction level with women.Women will enjoy and pick-up the creative side to you.

The trick is to make it seem as natural and realistic as possible.

Give it a try.

To your dating success,

Andrew Wang (Allurre)
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula