Whenever I upload a hip hop / rnb music video onto the blog, I’m not here to promote it.
My sole intentions are for you to check out how these celebrity artists move, especially their body language game (which I know they spend HOURS training on).
In this video, I’d like you to study their body language and notice how both crooner and rapper communicate nothing short of confidence, authority, and masculinity.
Now, what else can you pick up from this song “Phone Number”?
Notice how Bobby V doesn’t ask, but “orders” the girl when he wants a number.
That’s EXACTLY how you can double your success rate when getting a girl’s number, GIVEN that you’ve established great rapport with them beforehand!
Tell, no need to ask.
I want to talk to you about Momentum today, which I am certain will be one game changing word for you too.
It’s an invaluable element not just to business successes, but for all guys who want to sharpen their game with women.
Momentum is essentially the life force that makes you “stay in the game”. It keeps your driven and consistent with “staying in form”.
You see, we are inherently creatures of habits, so if your goal is to bed more girls, then you must start doing things that will increase the chances of that happening, WITH CONSISTENCY.
The more you focus intently on something, the better you’ll obviously get.
So, if you want more women in your life, reshape your lifestyle where you dedicate a portion of your schedule everyday to meeting new faces.
Don’t be afraid to approach chat up the next girl you see, and even the girl after. Whether she’s a 4, 8, or 9 in appearance, don’t discriminate.
It’s quantity and repetition that helps you gain momentum, and your direction is to keep moving forward!
Most importantly, you must have that sense of urgency to DOING IT NOW.
Day one may be awkward, but after a week of getting into the swing of things, it’s all smooth sailing since you’re acting by default.
These short term goals, or what I call “immediate wins”, will help nurture the “bigger picture”. The small series of success will breed momentum for even greater successes.
It will feed your ego, confidence, and keep you focused.
So, start mapping out all your short term actionable objectives.
Start small, like saying “Hi” to 10 random girls a day, then scale things up to number closing within 10 minutes with 10 different girls everyday.
Complete one thing at a time, and soon everything will “fall into place”.
Once you start, don’t stop, and you’ll soon be unstoppable. It’ll be like getting up everyday and brushing your teeth.
Next thing you know, you’ll have more diversity of women in your life to choose from than you ever imagined.
Go get em.
What to do before talking to another girl?
First, gain momentum. Get yourself into the right mental and emotional state; be “in the zone”. Before you walk up to your next target, talk on the phone with a friend, a nearby counter assistant, or whoever stands nearest to you. Talk about anything, but nothing serious.
The purpose of this exercise is to help you get into a “sociable” mood. It’s like a warm up to a basketball game. Before the match, it’s best to not only stretch, but run laps to get into an active and ready state.
The more people you talk to, the less stressful it is to move onto the next one, simply because you’ve adapted well to this temporary state.
Your body will be gushing with adrenaline therefore making you feel more positive about yourself, and whoever you talk to, will inevitably sense this.
So, get yourself fully amped up before you go in for the kill. Always helps!
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Here’s a live field report which I recently documented for my readers and thought I should share on here.
It explains how I use my Open & Tease (O.A.T) Method which should help those seeking an alternative answer on How to approach a girl in a club.
The other night, I was out with the boys partying at Kao Sarn Road – which is notoriously known as an expat-dominated district with strings of bars/clubs here in Bangkok, Thailand.
You’ll find women from all over the globe on this street.
Anyways, we headed over to the trance/techno club which went by the name “The Club.” – It’s one of the hottest in this area, with state-of-the-art sound system and high powered strobe lighting setup etc.
After buying our buckets of local made whiskey (Sangsom) mixed with coke and Redbull, I scope the scene and my eyes stop at this table with 4 of the finest Korean women (tourists.)
They were wilding out; one put her foot on the table and teasingly lifted her skirt up her legs, another start grinding provocatively with her back to the wall.
Surely, every table around them was watching.
While chilling with the boys two tables away, I see at least 5-6 guys approach these women within the span of 15 minutes.
What happened? All got rejected.
20 minutes go by, and the girls seem to have reached a point of exhaustion from all that swaying and screaming.
One of the girl’s in the Chanel top which I had my eyes on , was leaning back on her couch with her head pulled back.
It seemed like she was falling asleep. I even caught her yawning.
Either they are really tired from all that dancing, or they were straight up bored.
So I did what I had to do and approached.
*THE APPROACH*
So, here’s what I would did.
I walked right up to the girl with the white top, lets her see me incoming, and I took the vacant seat right next to her and sat myself down.
I curiously ask her… “Do you always sleep when you come to a club?”
Her: (Springs upright, smiles, and embarrassingly giggles) Hahaha, no no no, I’m just a bit tired.
Me: I see. Tired of rejecting all those guys? (I gesture towards the men around us)
Her: (laughs) That too!
Me: Well that’s very nice of you. You come to Kao Sarn Road and generously hand out rejections. Are you getting paid to do that?
Her: Hahahaa no!
Me: (Smiles) Well hey, I’m Andrew. What’s your name?
And from that point on, we just hit it off. I meet, handshake, and exchange hellos with her friends after, the drink continues flowing, and we dance the night away.
*THE RECAP*
So here’s what I happened.
1. Before stepping up to the plate, I made observation and caught her on the verge of falling asleep. I then took advantage of this situation immediately as my opening call since this was something I can tease her about.
In a sense, I used her own actions against her and it worked beautifully.
2. I went in with no expression of ‘interest.’
This gave me a better impression at first glance. Right off the bat, my opener communicated to her that I wasn’t like the other guys, so in essence, seeing me was more refreshing compared to others.
I did not walk in with the standard approach of “What’s your name?” “Are you from Korea?” – which is what the other guys most likely asked first. I could tell my reading their lips.
So, next time you’re at the club…
Observe, go in for the kill, and just blend in naturally.
Now of course, there are plenty more methods on how to approach a girl, but this is just one of the many methods that have proven effective for me, and hopefully you can make good use of it too.
And here’s a toast to exploding you game.
Respect,
Andrew Wang
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula
You’re in a bar, club, or mall, looking salaciously at her.
However, she’s stationed amongst a group of seemingly protective friends who chit chat nonstop with he. The clock ticks, your eyes are still fixated on her beauty, but your body freezes.
Sounds familiar? Such circumstance is the modern plague of a man’s approach anxiety towards a group of women. To know how to approach a girl in a group is proven more challenging, nerve-wracking, and nail-biting than approaching a girl alone.
Most men just don’t have the guts to step up to the plate, especially when there’s a group of women. It feels like the odds are firmly stacked against them.
Well, knowing how to approach women in a group no longer has to be a daunting task, since I will now lay out for you a step-by-step mini blueprint of mine on how to approach women in a group.
Did you know? When a woman travels in a pack, each one of them still yearns to be noticed by men. They love it when men approach them, and hate it when they don’t know how to approach a girl.
So, never let the size of the group impose an illusive barrier to entry. Remind yourself that every female member in the group is waiting to be rescued, so play supply and demand and do a great deed.
The most non-alarming and seamless way to proceed is to ‘naturally’ submerge into her circle. Don’t dive straight for your target, and don’t make it seem like you’re picking anyone up. They key is to blend in and socialize first.
Then, tell your chosen girl that you’d like to follow up with some more questions later, and it’d be wonderful if she helps out. You have a 99% chance she’ll say yes.
As soon as she agrees, ask for her number or e-mail, and tell her you’ll be in touch. Don’t keep her away from her friends for too long. You have all the time later to talk.
Now that you’re armed with this killer mini blueprint on how to approach a girl in a group, you may also want to check out more groundbreaking articles revealing the secrets on how to approach women in other various hot settings like a party, street side, coffee shop and more.
When you get a chance, please leave a comment and let me know how things work out for you.
To your dating success,
Andrew Wang
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula
I get this very question pertaining to how to approach girls within the premise of a mall very often, therefore I am going to address it in this issue.
How do I approach a woman in a mall? Well, before we get into the meat, there are some things you must first acknowledge.
Women that walk in the mall are mostly looking for something, depending on the time. Usually it’s food, clothes, or the guilty pleasure of window shopping. Most just want to kill time next to their favorite brand stores. The reasons vary why they roam in, and unfortunately, it’s not because they want to be picked up by a guy.
Now, don’t get frustrated or worry a bit, since there is a loophole here and the mall is indeed, a perfect location to meet and attract women. With the right mind and attitude, you can always attract that special someone regardless of where you are. Here are 5 mall game tips.
1. Don’t regard the Mall as one big component, otherwise it becomes too intimidating. Break it down. Remember that the Mall itself is made up of different small shops: coffee shops, clothing, fast food, gadget stores and etc. Instead of roaming on the corridor looking for woman like a desperate wolf, get into coffee shops or book stores and give it a shot.
2. The time of visit is crucial. Preferably, you should hit the Mall around night time when some most women would drop by to shop or fulfill their daily coffee dosage. But if you are the type that fancies desperate housewives, and given that you won’t be disturbed by the thought of having their son around, then come during the morning or afternoon hours.
3. Blend in. Let’s say the girl’s in the electronic section shopping for the latest iPod Nano. Even if you’re dead broke, align your buying intention with hers. This method is a great conversation starter, and you can begin by exchanging your comments on the iPod colors, incredible memory space for such a small product. If she’s eyeing the purple iPod, ask her why purple? Is it her favorite color? Does it represent her character? What songs will she be smothering her iPod with?
4. Ask questions like you’re a tourist. This is one of the most well-received ways on how to approach girls at a mall. Yes, pretend that you’re a tourist visiting the place for the first time. You can confess that you aren’t later, and she won’t even care. Start with “Excuse me, but do you know…” and bang! That’s your bridge into a steady dialogue. After all, if she seems impatient in responding to you, all you have to do is just hit on the next girl.
5. Step out your boundaries. Check out the girl’s clothing section. Obviously you want to go where they go. What I like to do is tell your target that you’re looking for a dress for your niece or nephew, then ask for her opinion on which may suit better. It might sound strange and foreign to you at first, but it works like a charm. Women love to offer their opinions, and by turning to them, it makes them feel important and respected.
Arm yourself with these five timeless tips and you’ll never struggle with how to approach girls at at the mall again.
For more cutting edge dating tips for guys on how to become an alpha male, or for further groundbreaking insights on how to succeed with women and how to attract a girl, make sure you check out my other live articles available on here.
Here’s a toast to your dating success,
Respect,
Andrew Wang
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula
Whether it is daytime or night game, a business meeting or wild party, what trumps all situations to attract women surrounding you depends on how you project yourself with the right release of ‘atmospheric aura.’
This is the process of naturally getting everyone within proximity to bask in your glow, relish in your presence, and enjoy your company. And that’s how you maintain the right connection to any soul on the spot.
The looming question is, how do you do it? If you’d like to know how to get a girl to like you at a party, here are 5 quick timeless dating tips for guys. Start commanding an attractive atmospheric aura — which is exactly what women want in a man.
1. Don’t behave like other guys on the scene. This tip alone will attract a woman dead easily. Your goal is to simply have fun and be recognized as a ‘fun person’ to talk to. Wipe out any intentions of getting stupidly drunk, bidding on one-night stands, or simply getting laid.
This will quickly distinguish you from the hordes of horny dogs in the room. I call this the process of reversing or quenching your insatiable-self. Kill your usual cravings and they’ll eventually come to you by default.
2. Find someone to socialize and chat up with. Don’t just sit by your lonesome and appear anti-social or friend-phobic. When attending any small or large-scale parties, a great place for chatter is where the finger foods and drinks are.
You can always ask the people around you how the food taste, what the special picks on the menu tonight are, what their opinion on their drinks is etc.
Whatever it is, get socially active, and you might just get sexually active after the party.
3. Be sneakily attentive. As you’re chatting away with your friend or soon-to-be companion, observe the scene always. This is the period where you absorb the premise, and familiarize your mind with everything that’s currently happening.
When you’ve mentally settled down at any kind of event, you will perform with higher competence through territorial adaptation.
Then, just ask your self, which woman do you think has potential? What situational openers can you approach her with? You have home court advantage now, so make your move.
Note: Start seeing yourself approaching and building a healthy rapport with her in your head before you actually do it. Visualize it all happening so your brain and body will perform more favorably without failing or disappointing you. By the way, stick to one girl only, and follow up unless you really have no interest in her afterward.
4. Self-Presentation. Dress smart. No, not pimp-slick, overtly formal, or shoddily. Your whole aura should convey eloquence, positivity, and absolute fun. If you want to know how to get a girl to like you in a party, your self-presentation should never be overlooked.
Don’t be too stiff and pose in the corner like a tree with your drink half empty in hand; relax, let your guard down for once, and be immersed in the moment. An alpha male body language would formless, flexible, and free. For those of you brainwashed into peacocking,. If that’s your resort, then do so subtly. No need for publicity stunting either.
5. Be moderate. Your goal is to attract women, not show off your talent or skill. Shelve away your entire pick up routines. A party is a social event, meaning that you should get social with the people around you, not breed a burning motive to unbuckle the bra straps off every woman’s back.
Be friendly to everyone, and don’t just talk to people you’re only interested in. The alpha male would set a great long lasting impression for himself, and have the girls gossiping about him the morning after. Attracting girls was never meant to be a grueling task; most men just try too hard and wind up with fruitless results.
Bonus tip on how to get a girl to like you in a party…
Make yourself look like a party host. This is very easy to manage. All you have to do is greet people around and ask them whether they are enjoying the party.
Stop trying so hard to attract women. Put yourself in the shoes of an event organizer or host — what would they do? Things will naturally fall into place.
Also, no one will take you as an offensive intruder, and you’ll get a chance to expand your personal network by the end of the night.
Here’s a toast to your dating success.
Andrew Wang
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula
Here’s one of my favorite ways on how to approach girls with. A great conversation starter that will never do you wrong
Check out the “Spotlight Effect.”
My apologies for the short absence from updating my blog fellas. It’s been mad hectic for the past 2 weeks; but I’m back in full gear to pump out more powerful dating tips for you guys.
Stay, patiently tuned.
