When approaching a girl in broad daylight, what can you learn from Johnny Bravo?
The guy’s fearless! Look at how he barely allows any sign of hesitation to gain momentum. Now that’s the raw confidence you need when approaching a girl.
Notice how he never wonders whether his target will “like” him or not, or what he “should say”.
Just go for it – make that dash like Johnny. Put your game face on, be proud of who you are, and introduce yourself to her 
Alright guys, I know it’s been hmm, almost a month since my last post.
Reason: I’m nearing the end of my getaway Euro trip at the moment. More specifically, I’ve been traveling throughout Germany (Frankfurt, Fussen, Heidelberg), Switzerland (Zurich, Bern, Luzern) and France (Strasbourgh, Colma).
But, no, I haven’t forgotten you guys.
Today, I bring to you Part 2 for my Failproof Online Dating Tips for Men Series.
We’ll now be going over the principles on your communication behaviors online with women.
The three essential components are messaging, live chatting, and status updating.
Let’s get to it.
1. Custom tailoring your messages. The second you see a prospect online, resist the urge to message her right away with a recycled message. I know guys who copy and paste the same opening message to every girl. If you’re going to do this, at least mention her name in the same sentence where you say Hi to her. Personalize your message so she actually feels like you’re talking to her, not at her.
Before you message any girl, examine her profile page first. If she’s not the lazy type and spends a great amount of time surfing the net, she will have updated her page with more than 5 facts about herself. The basics like her age, location, work place don’t count. Fish in some information about her. Look at her photo albums, written biography, interests displayed. Try find something that sparks your curiosity, or if you find something in common, and use that as bait.
Please, do not blast out long and windy messages detailing how special and gifted she seems to you. Review your message before submitting, and ensure that it demonstrates good personality, humor, and non-desperation. This is all you need to break the ice online.
2. Nurturing your wall comments.
You have to take advantage of the wall commenting feature. Remember that in Part 1, social value gives you excellent leverage. Treat your wall comment like your own garden – water it every day until it’s lusciously green and worthy of charging people to step foot in for. Ok, maybe I went too far there.
Just make sure you are interacting with people – even if it’s your sister. Make sure you’ve got people posting comments on your walls.
When a woman notices that you are highly interactive social being, it makes her feel more comfortable and inclined to reply to your messages. Her subconscious deduction is this: “Since everyone is talking to you, I guess it’s cool that I do the same also.”
We all grew up gravitating towards the “popular” people. Remember our middle school and high school days? Well, that popularity element still yields residual effect. Social value is sexy to the ladies.
Now, if you’re going to be proactive in sending out multiple messages to the ladies online, make sure you change your privacy settings. If you’re on Facebook, make sure you “Turn off feature that shows wall you posted on.”
You don’t want your status feeds to show that you just spent the last 3 hours commenting on over 100 girl’s wall.
3. Avoid the Live Chat
When you’ve added a girl to your friend’s list, it does not mean you’re obligated to chatting her up right away. Most guys will message a woman on their live chat when they see their girl log on. My personal advice is to avoid the live chat function.
Stick to sending personal messages to her inbox – it’s more intimate and women generally treat their inbox messages more seriously than some guy on live chat bombing her with questions and smileys.
All in all, live chat doesn’t hold as much weight as personal messages do.
You should have “more important things” to do than to spend your days and night on live chat.
Oh, and please don’t waste your clicks doing anything related to “poking” a girl – that stuff is weak, and will not get you a high response rate unless you’re George Clooney.
In part 3 for my online dating tips for men series, I will cover in greater detail the arts of bridging into a date from online, to offline. Stay tuned.
It’s no surprise that most modern guys still find it a tricky mission when it comes down to how to get girls in the club. They wonder how you can talk to a girl in such a noisy voice-drowning environment, and how to not resort to the “Can I buy you a drink” approach – since it never really works and immediately identifies you as a supplicant type.
Because most can’t dance also, they really have nothing at their immediate disposal to really attract a woman with. Most guys just lack the foundational guiding principles to push them forward with the right dose of energy, flair, and confidence.
There are actually multiple killer-methods you can employ on how to approach a girl in the club, but that’ll come in part 2.
To approach women in the club with a higher hit rate of success, there is one under-discussed truth you must first be well aware of.
Firstly, know that your competition level is bound to be very low. Why? Well, most guys are readily intimidated by the mere thought of approaching the hottest women in the club. I’m sure you’ve caught a lot of guys acting like flies on the wall, holding on to their drinks, and staring at the girls. This is straight up creepy and definitely not sexy for the ladies.
Just like you, most guys have already assumed that the finest-picks are either already taken, have a boyfriend, or will give you a hostile response by rejecting you with their verbal swordsmanship.
They already have this deeply entrenched preconditioned belief that most women just aren’t that friendly or approachable. Such preconception is highly disruptive and destructive to the process on how to get girls in general, so make sure you abandon this belief right now.
You’ve probably experienced the same exact thought-process, which is actually a false reality you’re creating as an excuse to not approach women due to your insecurity, shyness, or fear of being turned down like a bad resume. You fear that your ego may be shattered, so nothing is accomplished.
Well, what does all this translate to? Barely any guys are approaching! You really have less competition than you may think. This gives you more advantage as women will be a lot more accepting of the guys who have the confidence and guts to step to the plate.
If you already have a copy of my 20 Dating Secrets guide, you should know by now that all women in the club want guys to hit on them! Less than 10% of the sociable girls who go out at night are there solely for the booze, music, and dancing. Even when they’re having a girl’s night out, they all anticipate on “getting lucky” too, as long as the right guy comes by.
Plus, most of the guys have no idea how to get the girls and seal the deal. They may know how to start up a conversation, but it usually lasts as long as your visit to the toilet.
Now that you are armed with this simple truth, you should know how to approach a girl in a club with much more buzzing confidence.
Follow me on part two to discover 3 fail-proof methods and the best ways on how to get the girls in the clubs effortlessly.
Here’s a sweet dating tip on “how to get girls” for guys you’ve probably never come across before.
Ready? Here it is: Hang out or spend more time with hot girls.
Don’t worry about creating or sustaining any attraction. Find a way to build and roll with a hot group of female friends, just don’t fall for the water boy effect (where you end up being bossed around by them).
The bottom line is to get used it to being around hot women.
Now, you’re probably thinking, how can you make more hot female friends?
Hit the cologne, cosmetic or clothing sections in the malls. The mall also ranks amongst the most preferred places to meet women.
Select a shop, and I’m sure you’ll spot a good-looking female sales assistant on duty. Well, most mall management groups hire eye candies nowadays — if they don’t, their budget must be low.
What next? Talk to them.
The beauty of this method is that women of such occupation will be very open and receptive to your approach. There is no evident bitch-shield or up-tightness you have to dissolve. These girls are locked into a service-minded, customer-first mindset. If they reject you, report them.
There’s no need to be shy or even guilty with this practice. You’re in it to brush up your game, and they’ll never know your intentions. In fact, most are bored witless at their jobs, and by talking to them, you’re doing them (and their employers) a great favor by making them do something.
If you’re in a clothing store like Zara or H&M, pretend like you’re shopping for a birthday gift for a female model friend of yours (good for social proof). Ask for their recommendations or “what’s in” lately.
You may even ask her to dress you up for fun. Get her opinion on what she thinks would look good on you. This invites great grounds for kino and conversational intimacy. As long as you’re talking, you’re good. In such context, you are also safe to subtly flirt or touch her (for e.g, tap her on the back if her back is facing you and you need her assistance).
When you’ve successfully opened the conversation, you may even want to lead her into a topic out of context. Perhaps get more personal or ask to hang out in the near future, if you’re feeling her character and vibe.
The goal is: Seek to interact with hot women. The geographic, time, or age doesn’t matter. Trash the thoughts picking up women or attracting them for the moment. Have fun, get social, relax, and interact.
Once hanging around hot women becomes sewn into the fabric of your reality, you will no longer feel that weird sense of disconnect when talking to other hot girls.
You will belong to the same social world, and will soon learn how to create synergy with them. I cannot emphasize how incredibly important this concept of “belonging to the same social world of hot girls” is to your progress in getting more girls.
So here’s the deal. Commit to hitting the malls up 3 or more times a week. For each day, talk to at least 5 sales assistant from varying product departments.
It could be the health shop, jewelry counter, kitchen appliances, electronics, or even footwear section. Use your eyes. Once you detect a hot girl, don’t even hesitate. Make the move.
Also, next time you’re at a social event, gravitate towards the hot girls with no intention in hooking up with them. Just spend more time around them. Read their body language and find out what they enjoy talking about.
Make it a mission to enlarge your social network of hot women – let it be online or offline even.
The more frequent you talk to hot women, the more impassive to their appearances you will also be. This transformational outlook of not being affected by a woman’s physical splendor will serve as massive leverage to your confidence, and also help derail your nervousness.
Follow this simple piece of do-able advice, and I’m sure you’ll soon be more comfortable around hot women, where simultaneously, you’ve now discovered an easy path on how to get girls upon demand.
Shoot me an e-mail and let me know how things turn out at syncdating@gmail.com
Cheers.
Andrew
P.S I’ve got many more killer entries coming soon! Stay tuned.
Whenever I upload a hip hop / rnb music video onto the blog, I’m not here to promote it.
My sole intentions are for you to check out how these celebrity artists move, especially their body language game (which I know they spend HOURS training on).
In this video, I’d like you to study their body language and notice how both crooner and rapper communicate nothing short of confidence, authority, and masculinity.
Now, what else can you pick up from this song “Phone Number”?
Notice how Bobby V doesn’t ask, but “orders” the girl when he wants a number.
That’s EXACTLY how you can double your success rate when getting a girl’s number, GIVEN that you’ve established great rapport with them beforehand!
Tell, no need to ask.
I want to talk to you about Momentum today, which I am certain will be one game changing word for you too.
It’s an invaluable element not just to business successes, but for all guys who want to sharpen their game with women.
Momentum is essentially the life force that makes you “stay in the game”. It keeps your driven and consistent with “staying in form”.
You see, we are inherently creatures of habits, so if your goal is to bed more girls, then you must start doing things that will increase the chances of that happening, WITH CONSISTENCY.
The more you focus intently on something, the better you’ll obviously get.
So, if you want more women in your life, reshape your lifestyle where you dedicate a portion of your schedule everyday to meeting new faces.
Don’t be afraid to approach chat up the next girl you see, and even the girl after. Whether she’s a 4, 8, or 9 in appearance, don’t discriminate.
It’s quantity and repetition that helps you gain momentum, and your direction is to keep moving forward!
Most importantly, you must have that sense of urgency to DOING IT NOW.
Day one may be awkward, but after a week of getting into the swing of things, it’s all smooth sailing since you’re acting by default.
These short term goals, or what I call “immediate wins”, will help nurture the “bigger picture”. The small series of success will breed momentum for even greater successes.
It will feed your ego, confidence, and keep you focused.
So, start mapping out all your short term actionable objectives.
Start small, like saying “Hi” to 10 random girls a day, then scale things up to number closing within 10 minutes with 10 different girls everyday.
Complete one thing at a time, and soon everything will “fall into place”.
Once you start, don’t stop, and you’ll soon be unstoppable. It’ll be like getting up everyday and brushing your teeth.
Next thing you know, you’ll have more diversity of women in your life to choose from than you ever imagined.
Go get em.
What to do before talking to another girl?
First, gain momentum. Get yourself into the right mental and emotional state; be “in the zone”. Before you walk up to your next target, talk on the phone with a friend, a nearby counter assistant, or whoever stands nearest to you. Talk about anything, but nothing serious.
The purpose of this exercise is to help you get into a “sociable” mood. It’s like a warm up to a basketball game. Before the match, it’s best to not only stretch, but run laps to get into an active and ready state.
The more people you talk to, the less stressful it is to move onto the next one, simply because you’ve adapted well to this temporary state.
Your body will be gushing with adrenaline therefore making you feel more positive about yourself, and whoever you talk to, will inevitably sense this.
So, get yourself fully amped up before you go in for the kill. Always helps!
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Here’s a live field report which I recently documented for my readers and thought I should share on here.
It explains how I use my Open & Tease (O.A.T) Method which should help those seeking an alternative answer on How to approach a girl in a club.
The other night, I was out with the boys partying at Kao Sarn Road – which is notoriously known as an expat-dominated district with strings of bars/clubs here in Bangkok, Thailand.
You’ll find women from all over the globe on this street.
Anyways, we headed over to the trance/techno club which went by the name “The Club.” – It’s one of the hottest in this area, with state-of-the-art sound system and high powered strobe lighting setup etc.
After buying our buckets of local made whiskey (Sangsom) mixed with coke and Redbull, I scope the scene and my eyes stop at this table with 4 of the finest Korean women (tourists.)
They were wilding out; one put her foot on the table and teasingly lifted her skirt up her legs, another start grinding provocatively with her back to the wall.
Surely, every table around them was watching.
While chilling with the boys two tables away, I see at least 5-6 guys approach these women within the span of 15 minutes.
What happened? All got rejected.
20 minutes go by, and the girls seem to have reached a point of exhaustion from all that swaying and screaming.
One of the girl’s in the Chanel top which I had my eyes on , was leaning back on her couch with her head pulled back.
It seemed like she was falling asleep. I even caught her yawning.
Either they are really tired from all that dancing, or they were straight up bored.
So I did what I had to do and approached.
*THE APPROACH*
So, here’s what I would did.
I walked right up to the girl with the white top, lets her see me incoming, and I took the vacant seat right next to her and sat myself down.
I curiously ask her… “Do you always sleep when you come to a club?”
Her: (Springs upright, smiles, and embarrassingly giggles) Hahaha, no no no, I’m just a bit tired.
Me: I see. Tired of rejecting all those guys? (I gesture towards the men around us)
Her: (laughs) That too!
Me: Well that’s very nice of you. You come to Kao Sarn Road and generously hand out rejections. Are you getting paid to do that?
Her: Hahahaa no!
Me: (Smiles) Well hey, I’m Andrew. What’s your name?
And from that point on, we just hit it off. I meet, handshake, and exchange hellos with her friends after, the drink continues flowing, and we dance the night away.
*THE RECAP*
So here’s what I happened.
1. Before stepping up to the plate, I made observation and caught her on the verge of falling asleep. I then took advantage of this situation immediately as my opening call since this was something I can tease her about.
In a sense, I used her own actions against her and it worked beautifully.
2. I went in with no expression of ‘interest.’
This gave me a better impression at first glance. Right off the bat, my opener communicated to her that I wasn’t like the other guys, so in essence, seeing me was more refreshing compared to others.
I did not walk in with the standard approach of “What’s your name?” “Are you from Korea?” – which is what the other guys most likely asked first. I could tell my reading their lips.
So, next time you’re at the club…
Observe, go in for the kill, and just blend in naturally.
Now of course, there are plenty more methods on how to approach a girl, but this is just one of the many methods that have proven effective for me, and hopefully you can make good use of it too.
And here’s a toast to exploding you game.
Respect,
Andrew Wang
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula
You’re in a bar, club, or mall, looking salaciously at her.
However, she’s stationed amongst a group of seemingly protective friends who chit chat nonstop with he. The clock ticks, your eyes are still fixated on her beauty, but your body freezes.
Sounds familiar? Such circumstance is the modern plague of a man’s approach anxiety towards a group of women. To know how to approach a girl in a group is proven more challenging, nerve-wracking, and nail-biting than approaching a girl alone.
Most men just don’t have the guts to step up to the plate, especially when there’s a group of women. It feels like the odds are firmly stacked against them.
Well, knowing how to approach women in a group no longer has to be a daunting task, since I will now lay out for you a step-by-step mini blueprint of mine on how to approach women in a group.
Did you know? When a woman travels in a pack, each one of them still yearns to be noticed by men. They love it when men approach them, and hate it when they don’t know how to approach a girl.
So, never let the size of the group impose an illusive barrier to entry. Remind yourself that every female member in the group is waiting to be rescued, so play supply and demand and do a great deed.
The most non-alarming and seamless way to proceed is to ‘naturally’ submerge into her circle. Don’t dive straight for your target, and don’t make it seem like you’re picking anyone up. They key is to blend in and socialize first.
Then, tell your chosen girl that you’d like to follow up with some more questions later, and it’d be wonderful if she helps out. You have a 99% chance she’ll say yes.
As soon as she agrees, ask for her number or e-mail, and tell her you’ll be in touch. Don’t keep her away from her friends for too long. You have all the time later to talk.
Now that you’re armed with this killer mini blueprint on how to approach a girl in a group, you may also want to check out more groundbreaking articles revealing the secrets on how to approach women in other various hot settings like a party, street side, coffee shop and more.
When you get a chance, please leave a comment and let me know how things work out for you.
To your dating success,
Andrew Wang
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula
