If you ever catch yourself hearing the words “Let’s just be friends”, “I’d like us to just be friends”, or any variation therefore, you better get yourself the f**k out of there.

…that is unless you intend, or will be content with remaining strictly as her “friend”. This also means no heavy touching, kissing, or anything physically intimate. Are you sure you want that?

When a woman tells you she wants to be friends, don’t buy any of the common excuses when you hear them. E.g “I have too much work nowadays”, “I need some time to think things over,” “I don’t want too ruin our friendship”.

My friend, when a woman categorizes you as a friend, it translates as “I am no longer attracted in you. You just don’t turn me on. Hands off me now.” Her interest level simply wandered off into no-where land, and you do not want to go chasing for it.

So, how do you crawl yourself out of this dreaded shit-hole? The question you should REALLY be asking yourself is, how did you get yourself there in the first place?

Most likely, you became too dependent and needy. Your whole schedule probably even revolved around her, and you had nothing “going on for you” other than HER. This is the type of reality that’ll turn a woman off quick like hearing a girl fart during dinner.

Ok, to the solutions board. If such scenario applies to you, here are three actions you ought to follow through: to help you possibly regain her interest level, and to help you move on from any imminent emotional repercussions from the blow in confidence.

1. Don’t be phased. If you let any signs of “being hurt” show, you’re giving her the upper hand. Stay cool and collected. Tell her upfront with a tone of sincerity that that you’re afraid that’s “not going to happen,” since that’s not the kind of relationship you can see yourself in with her. Hey, it’s your life, run it your way.

Wish her the best and tell her it was great knowing her. Don’t break down and cry over the phone insisting that you could do better. You want her to feel a sense of loss or denied access. Women want what they can’t have.

2. Avoid further contact with her. Cut loose, or go cold turkey (it’s ok to be extreme in this case) on the text messages, e-mailing, or whichever form of communication she got used to. Get on with your life and business.

3. Instill jealousy. Meet and hang out with other women. Don’t do so forcibly out of revenge though. Do it because you intend on meeting other quality women, and yes, there are plentiful out there! You never know who’s available until you start shopping!

By increasing your social factor, you inadvertently pump up your perceived value in her eyes. Let her know that you are in demand, and that you can have a smashing time with other women. Once she realizes that she’s missing out on the fun, her interest level will naturally shoot back up.

Needless to say, do learn from your past. Track back and evaluate how you behaved. Did the flirting dynamic start to suck? Did you become too supplicating? Uninspiring? Non-challenging?

Did you soften up completely and handed her both your balls where she now keeps in a jar? Whatever it is, don’t repeat the same mistakes.

I call this game… “KEEP THE STARE”

Thank you, I put a whole lot of effort into that name.

Here’s how it works.

Next time you’re out and you see any fine looking girls on the street, practice staring them down, in a non creepy or malicious way of course.

Instead of averting your eyes – which suggests that you are uncomfortable – light up a friendly smile and give a light nod.

Let them know that you register their existence and that you’re not fazed or afraid of their appearance. This is very sexy, refreshing, and great for sexual tension, since most guys would typically shy away.

Hot girls usually like to stare a guy down to test his level of confidence, so be prepared to rise up to this challenge.

If she reciprocates and smiles back, what I’d do is then catch up to her (after you two have walked past each other), and tell her, “Hey, I just wanted to tell you that you had a wonderful smile.”

This always melts them on the spot, and instantly makes her open up to you for conversation.

Try it.

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Unless you’ve been living under a rock, then you know the world’s now living in a digitally-driven era. This means you’ll no longer have to bank on outdoor venues to spark a connection.

With Myspace, Facebook, Orkut, and a shhi-load more emerging social networking sites, meeting more women online should not be ruled out from your playbook.

Discover how to attract women online easily in that very armchair of yours by following my outline below.

1. Personal profile photo – Deal Breaker

Take a high quality (hi-resolution) photo of yourself. The sharper and cleaner your image, the less sketchy and cheap you’ll appear. Also, your initial photo sets the greatest impression of yourself; a reflection of your character.

2. Kill any potential distractions.

You want the girl to focus on you, not your profile page layout. Try to limit the amount of widgets you have onboard. Moderate your wall, and avoid glittery background – avoid tackiness at all costs.

3. Profile page equals you.

Treat your profile page like your home. Keep it tidy, clean, and welcoming. You’ll score points for a mature well-groomed look.

4. Protect your mystery.

Don’t be tempted to fill out your personal profile details. You want mystery. Omit facts such as whether you “want to be married” or ever have children alone.

5. Capitalize off your ’status’ box.

This is the area where can beefen up your perceived value, that is,  if you have any ‘interesting’ activities to share.  Women dig men with ‘plans’ in his life.

Are you traveling overseas? Attending a big event? Got a raise?  Broadcast it on your status. Whatever you update about yourself, make sure they define your individuality and not disguise it.

That’s all for now

In part 2, I’ll be revealing the secrets on how to approach and interact with women online

“HOW HARD WORKING ARE YOU?”

Gentlemen, my apologies for not having wished all my readers Happy New Years, so here it is… Happy new years! And may we start 2010 with a big bang

In this post, I’m going to share a quick effective tip on kino escalation for those who struggle on seamless transitions.

Since the palm reading method is overdone, played out,  and has etched itself into the mainstream consciousness, here’s an alternative technique you can add to your artillery.

Here’s how it goes down…

Once you’ve reached the point in a conversation where questions are volleying back and forth in regards to each other’s personal background – which you eventually will – ask her…“How hard working are you?”

As soon as she answers, tell her to give you her hand. You’ll then want to hold and inspect the palms. Don’t do this intently but casually.

THE DIAGNOSIS

Those who work laboriously outdoors are more likely have a rougher skin texture and hands.  If her hands are smooth, she may work more indoors, and her work is less physically grueling.

Give it a shot, and let me know how things pan out

And once again, may I raise my glass to toast to a more luminous future: Better health, more time with the family, fatter income, and finding an amazing partner to kick it with

The smallest and most unexpected things can shape the course and dynamics of a relationship. Ultimately, it can either improve or limit your success with women.

Even an online text message (AIM, MSN, Yahoo) or offline one can spoil the dynamics if carelessly conducted. Just because your phone plan permits you to send out unlimited text messages, or seduces you with ‘happy hours’, don’t consider yourself playing it smart and getting your money’s worth by clogging up your date’s  inbox space. This is not a real estate game.

Nowadays, I see a lot of guys, especially with a Blackberry devices, BB’ing their girls incessantly like there’s no tomorrow. What they don’t realize is that a lot of fluff talk goes down, and that the compounding effect inevitably manifests as negative impact.

Keeping in touch with people is cool, but constant texting will eventually kill your mystery level and chew away your private life. When this happens, don’t blame the recipient but yourself.

With that said, I’d now like to introduce to you my 5 rules of engagement for off and online text messaging.

Follow this simple guideline, and I can guarantee that you will increase your perceived value and attraction level simply by pushing-buttons.

Rule #1: Have a date-oriented end-purpose.; and that one single purpose should be to use bridge into your next date.

Don’t just text to ask “What are doing?” or “What are you up to?” without any follow-up text to set up for a date after.

Suggest that she joins you for xxxxx next week, state how it’ll benefit her, and be enthusiastic about it.

Rule #2: When you can, communicate on a level that stimulates a feeling of excitement and anticipation. Messages like…

“Guess what?”

“I got something amazing to share with you.”

These types of lines all elicit anticipatory responses.

Now, to keep your conversation dynamic exciting, follow rule 3.

Rule #3: Keep your texts short, succinct, playful, and flirty. Avoid punching in long messages. 2-3 lines or less would be preferable. Usually, a round of text exchanging shouldn’t exceed over 8-10 messages (including yours and hers)

Rule #4: Attitude of a tease. Try to recall something silly/embarrassing she recently said, and talk about it. This is a great way to maintain a level of sexual tension.

“You were amazing at basketball today. Averaging zero points per game. For some reason, why do I find that sexy?”

Rule #5: Keep your message open-ended and call for emotional involvement. To keep the text conversation buoyant, she must be involved.

Ask questions that require a response every time you send a text message. I always end my messages with a question etc.

In terms of response, make sure it triggers a side of her emotions. The last thing you want is for her to respond indifferently.

Avoid however, asking nosy questions which prompts a negative response.

For example,

“When are you going to sleep?”

“What will you do tomorrow?”

“When do I see you again?”

As you notice, a woman wouldn’t exactly be thrilled to reply to those questions. Instead, it only makes you seem more desperate, lonely, and meddlesome.

Remember, always keep a woman guessing to whether you are interested in her or not.

So there you have it, my 5 rules on text-messaging. Never go over-the-top, and try cast a restraining order to volleying messages back and forth like it’s a sport.

Gentlemen, have a great day, and go easy on the calls too.

How often do you guys see a sparkling-fine women in public, alone, perfect for approach, yet you still let the opportunity slip through your fingers?

Next time this happens, CANCEL any thought that may arise and impede you from succeeding with women. If you want to crack the code on how to get women quick and easy, it’s all about taking action with the right mentality.

Instead of saying “Next time…”

Say… “Not next time, I’m going NOW”

Instead of doubtfully saying “She may not be interested…”

Say… “I KNOW she’s going to be interested”.

Get used to pattern interrupting YOUR usual behaviors.

Believe in the power of self-fulfilling prophecies. Whatever you think of for yourself will become your reality.

Don’t allow your parents, society, or culture shape the image of your destiny.

LIFE is a SOFTWARE, so PROGRAM yourself. And no, you don’t need to be a computer wizard.

PATTERN interrupt what you usually do. CANCEL the UNDESIRABLE thoughts next time. Create thoughts that SUPPORT you. 80% of YOUR thoughts are negative on an average day.

“Things never work out for me”

“I’m always short on luck”

“I’m not that good looking to…”

“my communication skills are poor”

“I can’t keep a conversation running”

Think about it. We’ve already programmed ourselves to behave in a certain way daily.

For example, some of you wake up in the morning brushing your teeth… or take a nap in the afternoon… have to eat dinner around evening.

THIS is your self-programmed schedule, lifestyle, prophecy.

Why not self program yourself to be a chicks magnet?

TELL YOURSELF: I’m full of ENERGY & VITALITY. I don’t need to nap, and I can have dinner in the late afternoon, not evenings like I used to.

What you think of THIS moment becomes your fate.You have the POWER to change at this instant, this second to reshape your FUTURE.

If you do things you’ve always done before, you’ll always get the same result. Start changing your pattern of thoughts and believe.

DO THE INNER WORK. PROGRAM YOURSELF ACCORDING TO YOUR DESIRES. Only THEN, will your outer strategies (Body language, gentlemanly gestures, charming words) work.

Control your thoughts, and you will have more control of your future — especially if you want to know how to get women by leaps and bounds.

To your dating success,

Andrew Wang
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula

P.S That’s a trippy but intricate piece of art huh?