If you ever catch yourself hearing the words “Let’s just be friends”, “I’d like us to just be friends”, or any variation therefore, you better get yourself the f**k out of there.

…that is unless you intend, or will be content with remaining strictly as her “friend”. This also means no heavy touching, kissing, or anything physically intimate. Are you sure you want that?

When a woman tells you she wants to be friends, don’t buy any of the common excuses when you hear them. E.g “I have too much work nowadays”, “I need some time to think things over,” “I don’t want too ruin our friendship”.

My friend, when a woman categorizes you as a friend, it translates as “I am no longer attracted in you. You just don’t turn me on. Hands off me now.” Her interest level simply wandered off into no-where land, and you do not want to go chasing for it.

So, how do you crawl yourself out of this dreaded shit-hole? The question you should REALLY be asking yourself is, how did you get yourself there in the first place?

Most likely, you became too dependent and needy. Your whole schedule probably even revolved around her, and you had nothing “going on for you” other than HER. This is the type of reality that’ll turn a woman off quick like hearing a girl fart during dinner.

Ok, to the solutions board. If such scenario applies to you, here are three actions you ought to follow through: to help you possibly regain her interest level, and to help you move on from any imminent emotional repercussions from the blow in confidence.

1. Don’t be phased. If you let any signs of “being hurt” show, you’re giving her the upper hand. Stay cool and collected. Tell her upfront with a tone of sincerity that that you’re afraid that’s “not going to happen,” since that’s not the kind of relationship you can see yourself in with her. Hey, it’s your life, run it your way.

Wish her the best and tell her it was great knowing her. Don’t break down and cry over the phone insisting that you could do better. You want her to feel a sense of loss or denied access. Women want what they can’t have.

2. Avoid further contact with her. Cut loose, or go cold turkey (it’s ok to be extreme in this case) on the text messages, e-mailing, or whichever form of communication she got used to. Get on with your life and business.

3. Instill jealousy. Meet and hang out with other women. Don’t do so forcibly out of revenge though. Do it because you intend on meeting other quality women, and yes, there are plentiful out there! You never know who’s available until you start shopping!

By increasing your social factor, you inadvertently pump up your perceived value in her eyes. Let her know that you are in demand, and that you can have a smashing time with other women. Once she realizes that she’s missing out on the fun, her interest level will naturally shoot back up.

Needless to say, do learn from your past. Track back and evaluate how you behaved. Did the flirting dynamic start to suck? Did you become too supplicating? Uninspiring? Non-challenging?

Did you soften up completely and handed her both your balls where she now keeps in a jar? Whatever it is, don’t repeat the same mistakes.

Something to squeeze into your play list next time you get some slow, sensual bed room play

Hey guys,

I’m currently on vacation in China right now — at the city where they shot the blockbuster favorite AVATAR. The view of the mountains are utterly breathtaking, very similar to what you see in the digital version in the movie.

Well, I just needed to get some serious holiday action after spending the past few tiring months writing up the Verbal Playboy Blueprint www.verbalplayboy.com

In the mean time, feel free to contact me if you have any burning inquiries in regards to ANYTHING related to getting that girl you want.

I’d love to help you out.

Respect,

Andrew

www.verbalplayboy.com

I’m sure you all know this already...

You can’t achieve deep-level attraction or personal
connection with ANY woman without knowing HOW to talk to her.

And without that, you WILL not trigger the essential
positive to sexual responses that get them fired up
to want you badly.

That’s just how the world spins.

Anyways, after several unsurprising delays, it’s officially
READY for release

I’m unveiling my personal playbook on how to march up to the hottest
woman in your metro area…   blast through their bitch shield,
and instantly escalate into deep-attraction to sexual levels.

Allow me to present to you my latest/finest masterpiece…
the Verbal Playboy Blueprint.

…even if you believe that you are chronically handicapped or
cursed to succeed with women verbally, I’m about to prove you
DEAD WRONG.

AND…Not only will you be experiencing a new life, you’ll be
the NEW BIG THING — or more like the BIG BANG — to HER LIFE.

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Here’s the kind of reality that can be yours….

* Go from “Hello” in public to “Hello” in the bedroom.

* Supercharge your communication artistry and alter your reality
with women simply with words – anyway you imagine it.

* NEVER again be at a loss with words or run out of bountiful
juicy topics to dwell forever on. People in general
just WON’T ever sick of talking to you.

* Take the conversation OFF the ground and into the pinnacle
heights of attraction!

… With my “Filters” capturing technique, you’ll know exactly
what SHE loves talking about, and know exactly how to connect
and vibe on a high note with women.

* Interact in ways that instantly explodes through the roof the
PERCEIVED VALUE a woman sees in you.

* Spike her “buying temperature” whenever you choose to! You
will have full control of how you want her to feel!

* Effortlessly EARN her trust, disable her inner-skeptical, HAVE
her warm up to you, and transition into a deeper-than-soul type
of rapport.

* Instinctively and almost super-naturally behave in ways that
will evoke the rarefied response where you two are ‘meant’ for
each other.

* Skyrocket her compliance level by commanding absolute dominance
most men would kill to possess. Make your date do exactly what
you want them to do – it’s almost like silent mind control.

* Maximize your social intelligence and be competent of
attracting women with bi-polar personality from you.

* Understand the psychology of your date naturally without ever
dealing with analysis paralysis again! … Soon you can read a woman
like a map so you know exactly which path leads to her heart.
Digest her like an open book.

* Keep the interaction flaming hot – Transition with rapidness
from unstoppable comfort building to kino-escalation in fly
“under the radar” fashion.

… and there’s SO MUCH more gems packed inside this blueprint.

I’ll let the site do the talking..

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Now, let’s move on to some cold-hard facts, and the reason why
I HAD to compose this blueprint for you guys.

1. Poor communication patterning is the greatest detrimental factor
on causing break ups and holding women back from bonding
intimately with you.

2. If you can’t naturally speak to women, you’ll never
enjoy a long lasting relationship with DEPTH. Never.

The Holy Grail to conquering this competitive dating jungle is
to have a killer communication skill set. Without knowing
how to communicate and decode a woman’s psychology, you’re basically
playing with LUCK to survive.

www.verbalplayboy.com

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This is your million dollar opportunity to evolve into a world
class natural communicator, and become a Houdini with words.

If you’re serious about getting intimately emotional and
physical with that woman of your pick, I’m going to make sure
that happens for you. Mark my word.

It’s all up to you now.

Get started right away, hit the universities, coffee shop, malls,
nightclub, effortlessly approach, bulletproof the mutual rapport, and leave with her number or even in your arms.

This is my best piece of work to date. Remember I cover
everything from START to FINISH.

From breaking down her “invisible wall”, spiking her curiosity
level towards you, and then infiltrating smoothly into her world.

I literally guarantee that you will find a chock-full of
cutting-edge value, and regardless of all the streamlined
information being pounded into your head, you WILL still have
FUN as you learn and ESSENTIALLY get this part of your life
together.

If you know me, my ONLY intention on releasing my line of
products is to INVITE you guys to PERMANENTLY RIDE high on the
waves to social and sexual abundance.

That’s what this is all about!

It will revolutionize your dating life, get your communication
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No need for further introduction. See for yourself at:

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If you have any questions, just let me know. I’m always
her for you.

Respect,

Andrew Wang
Dating Instructor
CEO/Artist/Producer/Designer
LUXLIVIN Entertainment

It’s inarguable: Any man with social proof will always be perceivedwith higher value and status, thus making him more desirable.

Now, the question is, how do can we maximize our social proof? how we can explode our network of friends?

Here’s a quick tip that’ll go a LONG way.

Say “Hello” to the people around you more often!

Of course, wait til the you guys meet eye-to-eye.

Although most of us were raised and taught not to  “talk to strangers”,  I believe now is the time to defy this rule. If you fear meeting new people, start developing a passion to do so now.

Watch your social network and contact list on your phone balloon within the next month

The more frequent you practice this method, the more “accustomed” you’ll grow to this new habit, and trust me, your popularity / social proof will shoot through the roof.

Now hit the stride and get go on a “Hello”ing spree! You’ll soon realize that most people are more responsive and friendlier than you’ve expected.

Hey guys,

Wow.  It’s almost two weeks deep into 2010, and it only felt like I was counting down & popping bottles on the last 10 seconds of 2009 yesterday.

I wanted to drop by and keep my readers updated, and shoot ya’ll a few pointers that will easily give you edge over other men.

Updates:

1. Verbal Playboy is 90% complete. I’ve received ongoing inquiries regarding to when the actual release date is… after 2-3 push backs. Well, my apologies fellas, I’ve been really strapped for time and the finalizing stage can be a bitch — it’s mad exhausting. I’m just as eager as you to get it on the market, but I simply won’t let anything incomplete fall into your hands.

I only want the very best for you.

2. The new release date is due before end of this month. I promise, and I don’t break promises.

Now… on to the 3 Big First Date Tips

1. Learn to use your ears more than your mouth.

2. Don’t overexert or over plan for first dates. It’s all in the ‘interaction’ that counts; not where you take her to.

3. If she’s not revealing anything about herself personally and consistently, you’re veering off track.

Follow these timeless first date tips and I guarantee you’ll get a second and more.

I’m rooting for you.

Andrew

“HOW HARD WORKING ARE YOU?”

Gentlemen, my apologies for not having wished all my readers Happy New Years, so here it is… Happy new years! And may we start 2010 with a big bang

In this post, I’m going to share a quick effective tip on kino escalation for those who struggle on seamless transitions.

Since the palm reading method is overdone, played out,  and has etched itself into the mainstream consciousness, here’s an alternative technique you can add to your artillery.

Here’s how it goes down…

Once you’ve reached the point in a conversation where questions are volleying back and forth in regards to each other’s personal background – which you eventually will – ask her…“How hard working are you?”

As soon as she answers, tell her to give you her hand. You’ll then want to hold and inspect the palms. Don’t do this intently but casually.

THE DIAGNOSIS

Those who work laboriously outdoors are more likely have a rougher skin texture and hands.  If her hands are smooth, she may work more indoors, and her work is less physically grueling.

Give it a shot, and let me know how things pan out

And once again, may I raise my glass to toast to a more luminous future: Better health, more time with the family, fatter income, and finding an amazing partner to kick it with

Fellas, there’s a stark contrast between the potency of a gaze and the detriments of a stare when a man and woman first exchange glances.

I thought I should expound on this factor as most men fail to exploit the power in gazing, and rather shoot themselves in the foot by staring.

You know you’ve done it before. We all have. Some still do.

The difference.

When you stare at a woman, it only conveys that you’re a pervert, lack mileage with women, and is boyfriend no-no.

Staring in our society is considered annoying and disconcerting.
It suggests that you are desperate but don’t have the balls of steels to approach her.

Staring is for the weak. It is rude, pathetic, and counter productive. Quit staring.

Now, here’s the fine difference between a gaze and a stare. Gazing is powerful and seductive.

A gaze can penetrate the windows of the eyes and into the soul. Real talk. When two lover’s are looking into each other eyes, they’re gazing, not staring..

Gazing unravels a wave of tingly and exciting emotions. A stare rings their built-in alarm and makes them want to teleport days away from you.

To your dating success,

Andrew Wang (Allurre)

Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula

Guys, one of the most paramount element to on how to succeed with women, it lies in your choice of shoes.

If you’ve heard of the adage: “The shoes make the man”, don’t question it.

Women will always check out your shoes (just like they check out your teeth) before scanning upwards to the rest of your physique.

It’s not about the grade of your hair, brand of your frames, or dye of your jeans. It’s all in the shoes.

Your shoes determine how well you take care of yourself. It hints to women what your personal standards are, and what your outlook on life is.

Got Gucci shoes? You probably enjoy relishing in the finer-things in life. Nike SB Dunks? You’re a fan of streetwear.

So, what kind of shoes should you get? Here are some principles to your shoe game:

1. Make sure your shoes  suit your overall style or personality. For example, I’m personally into high-end street wear brands, therefore my picks would be brands like Supra Shoes or Creative Recreation.

Being a hip hop artist, this adds extra panache to my self-presentation and their designs blur the line between formal and informal.

If you’re the sporty type, then go for Air Jordan’s, or clean all-white Air Force 1 Classics.

2. Don’t break the bank by purchasing limited edition shoes. Women don’t care what your shoes cost, as long as they look great on you. Neither will they prize the “Limited Edition” concept your shoes were marketed with.

Your shoes should also be comfortable and durable. You do not want to buy yourself ankle blisters after a long day of commuting.

Your shoes should be versatile and valid for more than just one occasion. Also, dress appropriately for the occasion if it’s imperative. If you’re out for a cocktail party, then you may consider donning a suit and well-stitched classic Oxford shoes with a plain or cap toe.

Invest in your shoes, as the reward goes a long way. Black or white pairs are your safest bet. Black if you’re lazy on the shoe scrubbing and maintenance. The trick to maintain a new “look” is to own at least 3-4 pairs and keep them worn in rotation.

Now, here’s one more thing that can win you points from a woman with an acute fashion eye.

Hot Fashion Tip: The color of your shoes should always match the hue of your belt.

How to succeed with women doesn’t entirely rest on inner game seduction, but also your external presentation.

To your dating success,

Andrew Wang (Allurre)

Creator of Syncdating and Instant Addiction Formula