Once word. Exercise.

This sounds like a given, but the thing is, most people fail to follow this simple and classic dating tip. The older most guys get, the less time they have for this shit. I know because I’ve been there.

There are many reasons why most guys don’t hit the gym, or squeeze in hourly slots into their schedule for a quick game of soccer or basketball with their boys.

1. They’re too caught up with college or career. When most of us graduate from high school, everyone’s too busy working, pulling part-times, late-night shifts, and just trying to make more money. For those that work, they’re usually too exhausted to move their asses by the time they get back home.

2. The word “exercise” itself sounds mundane, more so, most people react to it as extra work.

Well, hopefully this entry serves as the turning point where you’ll consider giving “exercise” a big warm welcome to your lifestyle.

Here’s 7 grand reasons why you should exercise.

1. You will lead and live a healthier lifestyle. Once your body is well-shaped and shredded, you’ll get prolonged eye scans and longer attention span from the ladies.

Some may even start approaching you. Here’s the deal: The more sexier body features you have, the more reasons they’ll have to throw themselves wildly at you.

2. You will build and strengthen your immune system to ward off all kinds of diseases, especially obesity. The healthier you are, the more time and energy you’ll have to be around women.

And yes, looking fit and toned beats the living shit out of carrying lumps and rolls. Being overweight or nearing the resemblance of a whale is not something you should be proud of.

3. Exercising easily lets a woman know that you know “how to take care” of yourself, which also translates to them as “I can take care of you.” Didn’t you know some girls get wet when they’re around professional athletes?

4. When you take care of your body, you add more “perceived value” to who you are as an individual. A woman will know that you care about your image and future. This commands mad respect and builds up a feeling of security when they’re around you.

5. With all those waves of endorphin (chemicals that make you feel peaceful and happy) released from a session of intensive exercise, your energy and mood will rev up. You will feel good about yourself. Your foundation of inner confidence goes up.

Once you feel good about yourself, women will feel good around you. That’s another classic tip on how to get more girls. Exercising helps to shift you into that positive mindset by nurturing all your senses with joy.

6. With the cardio and stamina game you’ll be honing, you’ll last even longer without passing the f-ck out when you’re getting freaky with a girl in bed.

Now, if you don’t have a weekly workout routine, start one. The three types of exercising I strongly recommend are: aerobic exercise, strength training, and flexibility training. Think holistic.

Find something of your interest or one that inspires you. For me, it’s basketball, soccer, and just power walking. Oh, sex counts too.

Sign up for hot yoga or gym aerobic classes where you’ll increase your opportunity to meet hordes more hot young women. Yes, it’s in-trend and meditative for women to sign up for these body contorting gym sessions, especially those with day job in the offices.

Make sure you exercise correctly. Give a day in between each workout day so your body can rest, heal, and so your muscles can grow etc. Google a bit about exercising if you need to.

The golden key is to stay committed to your workout regime. And the secret to staying committed is turn whichever form of exercising you’ve chosen into a habit.

Overall, it’s a win-win activity for you, and women will start noticing.

While you’re out scouring for more dating tips on how to get more girls, get out, soak up some vitamin-c powered sunshine, and exercise. The least you can do is to start brisk-walking (I call it power walking).

And like I always say, invest in yourself first so the ladies will invest in you.

Now that’s a classic tip on how you get more girls. Share it with the next generation.

I want you to play this video clip above, released by all star R&B singer Lloyd featuring B.o.B

Notice a recurring element in the hook? The three words “Lay your head”… that’s a commanding statement.

How’s a commanding statement relevant? Well, women love it when you take command! As discussed plenty of times before, the best way to get girls is to be comfortable with leading.

Leave alone the indecisive and non-confident side in you. Be assertive and lead the way by taking command – that’s what women want from a man. Want to know how to get a girl’s number? Don’t ask, “tell” her to give you her digits, in a non-pushy but casually cool demeanor.

The secret on how to get girls is this: If you can get them to comply to your commands in endless successions, she develops the habit of giving in to you. This is how you crush any barriers to getting a girl to spend time with you and do as you wish.

In the initial phase of courtship, what women is for you to be the street savvy driver while she rides passenger. Take command of the wheel, and give her the ride of her life.

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Let’s face it, gentlemen–we all want to be high rollers, but very few of us have the bankroll to back it up. It would be great if you could live the baller lifestyle 24/7, but you’re going to have to make some sacrifices. The good news is that it’s possible to be a baller on a budget.

One of the most important dating tips for men is that you need to learn how to get the most out of your money. With just a little bit of forward thinking, you can treat your woman to a lifestyle of luxury and still have enough money left to buy some nice stuff for yourself.

Follow these simple tips and you’ll be well on your way:

1. Don’t blow all your money on the first date. The first time you go out with a woman, you’ll probably want to make a good first impression. Resist the urge to go all-out. You need to set a standard you can live up to. If you take her out to an expensive restaurant and shower her with gifts on your first date, she’ll expect the same from you every time you go out. We’re not saying you need to dine at McDonalds on your first date, but you have to think ahead to the future and be realistic about what you can afford going forward. You don’t even know if there will be a second date, so keep things in check.

2. On second thought, don’t go out to eat unless you have to.

Seriously, restaurants are really expensive. For the same amount of money you’d spend at a nice restaurant, you can cook your date a gourmet meal at home and still have money left over to buy a nice bottle of wine and even some flowers for her. Figuring out how to get the most bang for your buck is key.

3. Spend money randomly. If you fall into a pattern of paying for things, your woman will start to expect it all the time. Don’t start paying her bills or anything that will need to be done on a regular basis. Instead, surprise her with gifts when she isn’t expecting it. If you surprise her with tickets to a concert or a new pair of earrings, she’ll appreciate it more because she won’t be expecting it.

4. Shop online. You can find designer clothes and jewelry online for a fraction of the cost you’ll pay in stores. Don’t be afraid to buy used jewelry, which you can often get stuff at a huge discount. You should also consider looking for good knockoffs of name brands–most people can’t tell the difference.

5. Work your butt off. You can’t spend money if you aren’t making money. Get a job. Get two jobs. The more income you have coming in, the more money you’ll have to spend on your woman.

Got any powerful and life changing dating tips for men?  Would like to have your words and wisdom featured on absolutedatingtips.com? then please contact me at syncdating@gmail.com

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I just came back from touring several cities around China. Nanjing, Ningbo, Suzhou, Hangzhou, and Wuxi. All were breathtaking cities, and I was utterly wowed by the rapid city development of them all!

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What up guys,

I never really thought it was necessary to include an entry in regards to weight loss on my dating tips for men blog; but it seems like a lot of guys out there are facing this self-image predicament. To know how to get more girls, you must first know how to get yourself together.

Many are too self-conscious or insecure with their bodies, yet they can’t muster the courage to do something about it. Well, I hope today’s quick motivational speech will serve as the turning point to how you treat your body.

To begin, thinking about shaping up and staying fit is one thing, doing it and maintaining that habit is another.

I don’t know what your socio-lifestyle is like, but if you have a schedule that revolves around lavish living, culinary indulging, back-to-back party nights, then losing weight may just seem out of the question.

But ask yourself this: Is this the lifestyle worthwhile of not just your sex-life, but your bodies need? Are you happy with the body you see in the mirror?

Your close friends may tell you to ignore your appearance, and tell you that they’re fine with the way you are. Well, those are statements coming from your friend, not your girlfriend.

News flash: What women like is a man with a body, just like you’d ideally want a woman with smoking hot curves and legs. And when on a date, they want to be seen in public with a good-looking male figure, just as you’d want to also.

Surely, you wouldn’t want anyone to start talking about your weight behind your back right?

If your weight is a matter of your concern and it’s been skewing and chewing at your confidence level for quite some time now, why continue living like the old ways?

This is an ageless fact: Shaping up your appearance and your wardrobe will always give you an edge on how to get more girls. You don’t need to pump yourself up like Arnold. Just stay in shape.

The good news is: Your weight is all under your control. Instead of partying up, invest time in the gym, or if you don’t have the time or money, do what I did before, go for daily power-walking sessions when you’re commuting.

Once you get into the habit of this simple work out, your mind will involuntarily look forward to it. You grow into liking any activity which you may initially dread. Why? because humans are creatures of habit. It no longer becomes a chore or bore, but rather an effortless activity which will only benefit you immensely in the long haul.

When you can take care of your body, women will notice. You will be doing yourself a big favor on how to get more girls as you’re demonstrating that you respect yourself – which universally and indefinitely, is what women like.

Starting from today, wake up to every morning reminding yourself: Shape up, or ship out.

Here’s a toast to your dating success!

Andrew

If you ever catch yourself hearing the words “Let’s just be friends”, “I’d like us to just be friends”, or any variation therefore, you better get yourself the f**k out of there.

…that is unless you intend, or will be content with remaining strictly as her “friend”. This also means no heavy touching, kissing, or anything physically intimate. Are you sure you want that?

When a woman tells you she wants to be friends, don’t buy any of the common excuses when you hear them. E.g “I have too much work nowadays”, “I need some time to think things over,” “I don’t want too ruin our friendship”.

My friend, when a woman categorizes you as a friend, it translates as “I am no longer attracted in you. You just don’t turn me on. Hands off me now.” Her interest level simply wandered off into no-where land, and you do not want to go chasing for it.

So, how do you crawl yourself out of this dreaded shit-hole? The question you should REALLY be asking yourself is, how did you get yourself there in the first place?

Most likely, you became too dependent and needy. Your whole schedule probably even revolved around her, and you had nothing “going on for you” other than HER. This is the type of reality that’ll turn a woman off quick like hearing a girl fart during dinner.

Ok, to the solutions board. If such scenario applies to you, here are three actions you ought to follow through: to help you possibly regain her interest level, and to help you move on from any imminent emotional repercussions from the blow in confidence.

1. Don’t be phased. If you let any signs of “being hurt” show, you’re giving her the upper hand. Stay cool and collected. Tell her upfront with a tone of sincerity that that you’re afraid that’s “not going to happen,” since that’s not the kind of relationship you can see yourself in with her. Hey, it’s your life, run it your way.

Wish her the best and tell her it was great knowing her. Don’t break down and cry over the phone insisting that you could do better. You want her to feel a sense of loss or denied access. Women want what they can’t have.

2. Avoid further contact with her. Cut loose, or go cold turkey (it’s ok to be extreme in this case) on the text messages, e-mailing, or whichever form of communication she got used to. Get on with your life and business.

3. Instill jealousy. Meet and hang out with other women. Don’t do so forcibly out of revenge though. Do it because you intend on meeting other quality women, and yes, there are plentiful out there! You never know who’s available until you start shopping!

By increasing your social factor, you inadvertently pump up your perceived value in her eyes. Let her know that you are in demand, and that you can have a smashing time with other women. Once she realizes that she’s missing out on the fun, her interest level will naturally shoot back up.

Needless to say, do learn from your past. Track back and evaluate how you behaved. Did the flirting dynamic start to suck? Did you become too supplicating? Uninspiring? Non-challenging?

Did you soften up completely and handed her both your balls where she now keeps in a jar? Whatever it is, don’t repeat the same mistakes.

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Hey guys,

I’m currently on vacation in China right now — at the city where they shot the blockbuster favorite AVATAR. The view of the mountains are utterly breathtaking, very similar to what you see in the digital version in the movie.

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In the mean time, feel free to contact me if you have any burning inquiries in regards to ANYTHING related to getting that girl you want.

I’d love to help you out.

Respect,

Andrew

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It’s inarguable: Any man with social proof will always be perceivedwith higher value and status, thus making him more desirable.

Now, the question is, how do can we maximize our social proof? how we can explode our network of friends?

Here’s a quick tip that’ll go a LONG way.

Say “Hello” to the people around you more often!

Of course, wait til the you guys meet eye-to-eye.

Although most of us were raised and taught not to  “talk to strangers”,  I believe now is the time to defy this rule. If you fear meeting new people, start developing a passion to do so now.

Watch your social network and contact list on your phone balloon within the next month

The more frequent you practice this method, the more “accustomed” you’ll grow to this new habit, and trust me, your popularity / social proof will shoot through the roof.

Now hit the stride and get go on a “Hello”ing spree! You’ll soon realize that most people are more responsive and friendlier than you’ve expected.