It’s no surprise that most modern guys still find it a tricky mission when it comes down to how to get girls in the club. They wonder how you can talk to a girl in such a noisy voice-drowning environment, and how to not resort to the “Can I buy you a drink” approach – since it never really works and immediately identifies you as a supplicant type.

Because most can’t dance also, they really have nothing at their immediate disposal to really attract a woman with. Most guys just lack the foundational guiding principles to push them forward with the right dose of energy, flair, and confidence.

There are actually multiple killer-methods you can employ on how to approach a girl in the club, but that’ll come in part 2.

To approach women in the club with a higher hit rate of success, there is one under-discussed truth you must first be well aware of.

Firstly, know that your competition level is bound to be very low. Why? Well, most guys are readily intimidated by the mere thought of approaching the hottest women in the club. I’m sure you’ve caught a lot of guys acting like flies on the wall, holding on to their drinks, and staring at the girls. This is straight up creepy and definitely not sexy for the ladies.

Just like you, most guys have already assumed that the finest-picks are either already taken, have a boyfriend, or will give you a hostile response by rejecting you with their verbal swordsmanship.

They already have this deeply entrenched preconditioned belief that most women just aren’t that friendly or approachable. Such preconception is highly disruptive and destructive to the process on how to get girls in general, so make sure you abandon this belief right now.

You’ve probably experienced the same exact thought-process, which is actually a false reality you’re creating as an excuse to not approach women due to your insecurity, shyness, or fear of being turned down like a bad resume. You fear that your ego may be shattered, so nothing is accomplished.

Well, what does all this translate to? Barely any guys are approaching! You really have less competition than you may think. This gives you more advantage as women will be a lot more accepting of the guys who have the confidence and guts to step to the plate.

If you already have a copy of my 20 Dating Secrets guide, you should know by now that all women in the club want guys to hit on them! Less than 10% of the sociable girls who go out at night are there solely for the booze, music, and dancing. Even when they’re having a girl’s night out, they all anticipate on “getting lucky” too, as long as the right guy comes by.

Plus, most of the guys have no idea how to get the girls and seal the deal. They may know how to start up a conversation, but it usually lasts as long as your visit to the toilet.

Now that you are armed with this simple truth, you should know how to approach a girl in a club with much more buzzing confidence.

Follow me on part two to discover 3 fail-proof methods and the best ways on how to get the girls in the clubs effortlessly.

Here’s a sweet dating tip on “how to get girls” for guys you’ve probably never come across before.

Ready? Here it is: Hang out or spend more time with hot girls.

Don’t worry about creating or sustaining any attraction. Find a way to build and roll with a hot group of female friends, just don’t fall for the water boy effect (where you end up being bossed around by them).

The bottom line is to get used it to being around hot women.

Now, you’re probably thinking, how can you make more hot female friends?

Hit the cologne, cosmetic or clothing sections in the malls. The mall also ranks amongst the most preferred places to meet women.

Select a shop, and I’m sure you’ll spot a good-looking female sales assistant on duty. Well, most mall management groups hire eye candies nowadays — if they don’t, their budget must be low.

What next? Talk to them.

The beauty of this method is that women of such occupation will be very open and receptive to your approach. There is no evident bitch-shield or up-tightness you have to dissolve. These girls are locked into a service-minded, customer-first mindset. If they reject you, report them.

There’s no need to be shy or even guilty with this practice. You’re in it to brush up your game, and they’ll never know your intentions. In fact, most are bored witless at their jobs, and by talking to them, you’re doing them (and their employers) a great favor by making them do something.

If you’re in a clothing store like Zara or H&M, pretend like you’re shopping for a birthday gift for a female model friend of yours (good for social proof). Ask for their recommendations or “what’s in” lately.

You may even ask her to dress you up for fun. Get her opinion on what she thinks would look good on you. This invites great grounds for kino and conversational intimacy. As long as you’re talking, you’re good. In such context, you are also safe to subtly flirt or touch her (for e.g, tap her on the back if her back is facing you and you need her assistance).

When you’ve successfully opened the conversation, you may even want to lead her into a topic out of context. Perhaps get more personal or ask to hang out in the near future, if you’re feeling her character and vibe.

The goal is: Seek to interact with hot women. The geographic, time, or age doesn’t matter. Trash the thoughts picking up women or attracting them for the moment. Have fun, get social, relax, and interact.

Once hanging around hot women becomes sewn into the fabric of your reality, you will no longer feel that weird sense of disconnect when talking to other hot girls.

You will belong to the same social world, and will soon learn how to create synergy with them. I cannot emphasize how incredibly important this concept of “belonging to the same social world of hot girls” is to your progress in getting more girls.

So here’s the deal. Commit to hitting the malls up 3 or more times a week. For each day, talk to at least 5 sales assistant from varying product departments.

It could be the health shop, jewelry counter, kitchen appliances, electronics, or even footwear section. Use your eyes. Once you detect a hot girl, don’t even hesitate. Make the move.

Also, next time you’re at a social event, gravitate towards the hot girls with no intention in hooking up with them. Just spend more time around them. Read their body language and find out what they enjoy talking about.

Make it a mission to enlarge your social network of hot women – let it be online or offline even.

The more frequent you talk to hot women, the more impassive to their appearances you will also be. This transformational outlook of not being affected by a woman’s physical splendor will serve as massive leverage to your confidence, and also help derail your nervousness.

Follow this simple piece of do-able advice, and I’m sure you’ll soon be more comfortable around hot women, where simultaneously, you’ve now discovered an easy path on how to get girls upon demand.

Shoot me an e-mail and let me know how things turn out at syncdating@gmail.com

Cheers.

Andrew

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Unless you’ve been living under a rock, then you know the world’s now living in a digitally-driven era. This means you’ll no longer have to bank on outdoor venues to spark a connection.

With Myspace, Facebook, Orkut, and a shhi-load more emerging social networking sites, meeting more women online should not be ruled out from your playbook.

Discover how to attract women online easily in that very armchair of yours by following my outline below.

1. Personal profile photo – Deal Breaker

Take a high quality (hi-resolution) photo of yourself. The sharper and cleaner your image, the less sketchy and cheap you’ll appear. Also, your initial photo sets the greatest impression of yourself; a reflection of your character.

2. Kill any potential distractions.

You want the girl to focus on you, not your profile page layout. Try to limit the amount of widgets you have onboard. Moderate your wall, and avoid glittery background – avoid tackiness at all costs.

3. Profile page equals you.

Treat your profile page like your home. Keep it tidy, clean, and welcoming. You’ll score points for a mature well-groomed look.

4. Protect your mystery.

Don’t be tempted to fill out your personal profile details. You want mystery. Omit facts such as whether you “want to be married” or ever have children alone.

5. Capitalize off your ‘status’ box.

This is the area where can beefen up your perceived value, that is,  if you have any ‘interesting’ activities to share.  Women dig men with ‘plans’ in his life.

Are you traveling overseas? Attending a big event? Got a raise?  Broadcast it on your status. Whatever you update about yourself, make sure they define your individuality and not disguise it.

That’s all for now

In part 2, I’ll be revealing the secrets on how to approach and interact with women online

What up guys…

Here’s a quick field report documenting a live example of
how to banter with women

[Part I]

The other night, I decided to clock in some evening hours
at Coffee World to work on some new projects.

Approximately 15 minutes later…

A group of smoking hot tourists — which I discovered later
were Irvine (California) undergrad students –  came in and sat
down right across the table from where I was.

Two minute goes by…

One of them comes up to me to ask if I had any idea whereabouts
they can find ‘transexuals’ in Bangkok.

Obviously, they wanted some raw uncut entertainment and
amusement. Witnessing transsexuals for the first time in
their lives must be special occasion.

Don’t get the wrong picture though, it may be stereotypical
to assume that transsexuals flood the streets here Bangkok,
but in actuality; their community is very small.

Anyways, as soon as she asked,

I decided to step the plate and and tease her…

I throw her a playfully startled look and tell her…

“Wow, I really didn’t know you were the type that’s into them.”

She instantly laughed and gave me a playful punch to the arm.

Note: Whenever a woman initiates such physical contact,
you’ve broken the ice.

I then tell her where she can locate them, and surprisingly…
she continues to ask me whether “they are good-looking”

This gave me more fuel to tease…

I tell her… “I am really starting to get a stronger
impression that you like them now.”

“Were you… (pause) a transexual in your past life?”

Bam. Double-shots of flirtatious tension.

***

[Part II]

A friend of hers then joins and sees what the commotion is,
and her face lights up with joy when she sees my laptop.

(I assume she’s been internet-deprived and hasn’t checked her
email due to heavy-duty traveling.)

Well, I was right. She asks if she can use my laptop
since she hasn’t checked her mail for 5 days.

I said “No.”

They both go “Awww. Why?”

I tell her, “it gets me jealous when other hands besides
from mine touching it.”

Bam. Added flirtatious tension. They both giggle.

Of course, I then gave her permission.

So what happened in the end?

Me and the girls wind up talking & bonding for the
next half an hour.

As the group was about to depart, one of them
even voiced their hesitation to leave as she wanted to stay
behind and talk learn more about Bangkok. (Obviously an
excuse to stick around.)

Well,
I hope you found this short report helpful in some way

The moral of this entry : Never settle for mundane
conventioanl responses.

When a woman is hot, “never please but tease”.

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Wow.  It’s almost two weeks deep into 2010, and it only felt like I was counting down & popping bottles on the last 10 seconds of 2009 yesterday.

I wanted to drop by and keep my readers updated, and shoot ya’ll a few pointers that will easily give you edge over other men.

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2. The new release date is due before end of this month. I promise, and I don’t break promises.

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1. Learn to use your ears more than your mouth.

2. Don’t overexert or over plan for first dates. It’s all in the ‘interaction’ that counts; not where you take her to.

3. If she’s not revealing anything about herself personally and consistently, you’re veering off track.

Follow these timeless first date tips and I guarantee you’ll get a second and more.

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Here’s a live field report which I recently documented for my readers and thought I should share on here.

It explains how I use my Open & Tease (O.A.T) Method which should help those seeking an alternative answer on How to approach a girl in a club.

The other night, I was out with the boys partying at Kao Sarn Road – which is notoriously known as an expat-dominated district with strings of bars/clubs here in Bangkok, Thailand.

You’ll find women from all over the globe on this street.

Anyways, we headed over to the trance/techno club which went by the name “The Club.” – It’s one of the hottest in this area, with state-of-the-art sound system and high powered strobe lighting setup etc.

After buying our buckets of local made whiskey (Sangsom) mixed with coke and Redbull, I scope the scene and my eyes stop at this table with 4 of the finest Korean women (tourists.)

They were wilding out; one put her foot on the table and teasingly lifted her skirt up her legs, another start grinding provocatively with her back to the wall.

Surely, every table around them was watching.

While chilling with the boys two tables away, I see at least 5-6 guys approach these women within the span of 15 minutes.

What happened? All got rejected.

20 minutes go by, and the girls seem to have reached a point of exhaustion from all that swaying and screaming.

One of the girl’s in the Chanel top which I had my eyes on , was leaning back on her couch with her head pulled back.

It seemed like she was falling asleep. I even caught her yawning.

Either they are really tired from all that dancing, or they were straight up bored.

So I did what I had to do and approached.

*THE APPROACH*

So, here’s what I would did.

I walked right up to the girl with the white top, lets her see me incoming, and I took the vacant seat right next to her and sat myself down.

I curiously ask her… “Do you always sleep when you come to a club?”

Her: (Springs upright, smiles, and embarrassingly giggles) Hahaha, no no no, I’m just a bit tired.

Me: I see. Tired of rejecting all those guys? (I gesture towards the men around us)

Her: (laughs) That too!

Me: Well that’s very nice of you. You come to Kao Sarn Road and generously hand out rejections. Are you getting paid to do that?

Her: Hahahaa no!

Me: (Smiles) Well hey, I’m Andrew. What’s your name?

And from that point on, we just hit it off. I meet, handshake, and exchange hellos with her friends after, the drink continues flowing, and we dance the night away.

*THE RECAP*

So here’s what I happened.

1. Before stepping up to the plate, I made observation and caught her on the verge of falling asleep. I then took advantage of this situation immediately as my opening call since this was something I can tease her about.

In a sense, I used her own actions against her and it worked beautifully.

2. I went in with no expression of ‘interest.’

This gave me a better impression at first glance. Right off the bat, my opener communicated to her that I wasn’t like the other guys, so in essence, seeing me was more refreshing compared to others.

I did not walk in with the standard approach of “What’s your name?” “Are you from Korea?” – which is what the other guys most likely asked first. I could tell my reading their lips.

So, next time you’re at the club…

Observe, go in for the kill, and just blend in naturally.

Now of course, there are plenty more methods on how to approach a girl, but this is just one of the many methods that have proven effective for me, and hopefully you can make good use of it too.

And here’s a toast to exploding you game.

Respect,

Andrew Wang

Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula

You’re in a bar, club, or mall, looking salaciously at her.

However, she’s stationed amongst a group of seemingly protective friends who chit chat nonstop with he. The clock ticks, your eyes are still fixated on her beauty, but your body freezes.

Sounds familiar? Such circumstance is the modern plague of a man’s approach anxiety towards a group of women. To know how to approach a girl in a group is proven more challenging, nerve-wracking, and nail-biting than approaching a girl alone.

Most men just don’t have the guts to step up to the plate, especially when there’s a group of women. It feels like the odds are firmly stacked against them.

Well, knowing how to approach women in a group no longer has to be a daunting task, since I will now lay out for you a step-by-step mini blueprint of mine on how to approach women in a group.

Did you know? When a woman travels in a pack, each one of them still yearns to be noticed by men. They love it when men approach them, and hate it when they don’t know how to approach a girl.

So, never let the size of the group impose an illusive barrier to entry. Remind yourself that every female member in the group is waiting to be rescued, so play supply and demand and do a great deed.

The most non-alarming and seamless way to proceed is to ‘naturally’ submerge into her circle. Don’t dive straight for your target, and don’t make it seem like you’re picking anyone up. They key is to blend in and socialize first.

1. Introduce yourself casually and assertively to everyone in the group. Play the courtesy card and ask how they’re doing. The rule to engagement on how to approach a girl in a group is to first win her friends over.
2. Once all the attention is on you, execute an opinion opener. Tell them you’re conducting research, and that you’d like their honest opinion on what would make a romantic date. This question alone will have them fighting for your attention on their answers. You can also come up with your own alternative questions; just keep it relationship-centered.
3. Time to Isolate. After everyone shares their input, express your appreciation and then ask if you can borrow your ‘target’ for a quick minute. At this point, they’ll be more than welcoming of your advances and comfortable with your presence. Relocate with your target somewhere not so distant – anywhere that’s not off her friend’s inspection-limits.

Then, tell your chosen girl that you’d like to follow up with some more questions later, and it’d be wonderful if she helps out. You have a 99% chance she’ll say yes.

As soon as she agrees, ask for her number or e-mail, and tell her you’ll be in touch. Don’t keep her away from her friends for too long. You have all the time later to talk.

Now that you’re armed with this killer mini blueprint on how to approach a girl in a group, you may also want to check out more groundbreaking articles revealing the secrets on how to approach women in other various hot settings like a party, street side, coffee shop and more.

When you get a chance, please leave a comment and let me know how things work out for you.

To your dating success,

Andrew Wang

Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula

I get this very question pertaining to how to approach girls within the premise of a mall very often, therefore I am going to address it in this issue.

How do I approach a woman in a mall? Well, before we get into the meat, there are some things you must first acknowledge.

Women that walk in the mall are mostly looking for something, depending on the time. Usually it’s food, clothes, or the guilty pleasure of window shopping. Most just want to kill time next to their favorite brand stores. The reasons vary why they roam in, and unfortunately, it’s not because they want to be picked up by a guy.

Now, don’t get frustrated or worry a bit, since there is a loophole here and the mall is indeed, a perfect location to meet and attract women. With the right mind and attitude, you can always attract that special someone regardless of where you are. Here are 5 mall game tips.

1. Don’t regard the Mall as one big component, otherwise it becomes too intimidating. Break it down. Remember that the Mall itself is made up of different small shops: coffee shops, clothing, fast food, gadget stores and etc. Instead of roaming on the corridor looking for woman like a desperate wolf, get into coffee shops or book stores and give it a shot.

2. The time of visit is crucial. Preferably, you should hit the Mall around night time when some most women would drop by to shop or fulfill their daily coffee dosage. But if you are the type that fancies desperate housewives, and given that you won’t be disturbed by the thought of having their son around, then come during the morning or afternoon hours.

3. Blend in. Let’s say the girl’s in the electronic section shopping for the latest iPod Nano. Even if you’re dead broke, align your buying intention with hers. This method is a great conversation starter, and you can begin by exchanging your comments on the iPod colors, incredible memory space for such a small product. If she’s eyeing the purple iPod, ask her why purple? Is it her favorite color? Does it represent her character? What songs will she be smothering her iPod with?

4. Ask questions like you’re a tourist. This is one of the most well-received ways on how to approach girls at a mall. Yes, pretend that you’re a tourist visiting the place for the first time. You can confess that you aren’t later, and she won’t even care. Start with “Excuse me, but do you know…” and bang! That’s your bridge into a steady dialogue. After all, if she seems impatient in responding to you, all you have to do is just hit on the next girl.

5. Step out your boundaries. Check out the girl’s clothing section. Obviously you want to go where they go. What I like to do is tell your target that you’re looking for a dress for your niece or nephew, then ask for her opinion on which may suit better. It might sound strange and foreign to you at first, but it works like a charm. Women love to offer their opinions, and by turning to them, it makes them feel important and respected.

Arm yourself with these five timeless tips and you’ll never struggle with how to approach girls at at the mall again.

For more cutting edge dating tips for guys on how to become an alpha male, or for further groundbreaking insights on how to succeed with women and how to attract a girl, make sure you check out my other live articles available on here.

Here’s a toast to your dating success,

Respect,

Andrew Wang

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Whether it is daytime or night game, a business meeting or wild party, what trumps all situations to attract women surrounding you depends on how you project yourself with the right release of ‘atmospheric aura.’

This is the process of naturally getting everyone within proximity to bask in your glow, relish in your presence, and enjoy your company. And that’s how you maintain the right connection to any soul on the spot.

The looming question is, how do you do it? If you’d like to know how to get a girl to like you at a party, here are 5 quick timeless dating tips for guys. Start commanding an attractive atmospheric aura — which is exactly what women want in a man.

1. Don’t behave like other guys on the scene. This tip alone will attract a woman dead easily. Your goal is to simply have fun and be recognized as a ‘fun person’ to talk to. Wipe out any intentions of getting stupidly drunk, bidding on one-night stands, or simply getting laid.

This will quickly distinguish you from the hordes of horny dogs in the room. I call this the process of reversing or quenching your insatiable-self. Kill your usual cravings and they’ll eventually come to you by default.

2. Find someone to socialize and chat up with. Don’t just sit by your lonesome and appear anti-social or friend-phobic. When attending any small or large-scale parties, a great place for chatter is where the finger foods and drinks are.

You can always ask the people around you how the food taste, what the special picks on the menu tonight are, what their opinion on their drinks is etc.

Whatever it is, get socially active, and you might just get sexually active after the party.

3. Be sneakily attentive. As you’re chatting away with your friend or soon-to-be companion, observe the scene always. This is the period where you absorb the premise, and familiarize your mind with everything that’s currently happening.

When you’ve mentally settled down at any kind of event, you will perform with higher competence through territorial adaptation.

Then, just ask your self, which woman do you think has potential? What situational openers can you approach her with? You have home court advantage now, so make your move.

Note: Start seeing yourself approaching and building a healthy rapport with her in your head before you actually do it. Visualize it all happening so your brain and body will perform more favorably without failing or disappointing you. By the way, stick to one girl only, and follow up unless you really have no interest in her afterward.

4. Self-Presentation. Dress smart. No, not pimp-slick, overtly formal, or shoddily. Your whole aura should convey eloquence, positivity, and absolute fun. If you want to know how to get a girl to like you in a party, your self-presentation should never be overlooked.

Don’t be too stiff and pose in the corner like a tree with your drink half empty in hand; relax, let your guard down for once, and be immersed in the moment. An alpha male body language would formless, flexible, and free. For those of you brainwashed into peacocking,. If that’s your resort, then do so subtly. No need for publicity stunting either.

5. Be moderate. Your goal is to attract women, not show off your talent or skill. Shelve away your entire pick up routines. A party is a social event, meaning that you should get social with the people around you, not breed a burning motive to unbuckle the bra straps off every woman’s back.

Be friendly to everyone, and don’t just talk to people you’re only interested in. The alpha male would set a great long lasting impression for himself, and have the girls gossiping about him the morning after. Attracting girls was never meant to be a grueling task; most men just try too hard and wind up with fruitless results.

Bonus tip on how to get a girl to like you in a party…

Make yourself look like a party host. This is very easy to manage. All you have to do is greet people around and ask them whether they are enjoying the party.

Stop trying so hard to attract women. Put yourself in the shoes of an event organizer or host — what would they do? Things will naturally fall into place.

Also, no one will take you as an offensive intruder, and you’ll get a chance to expand your personal network by the end of the night.

Here’s a toast to your dating success.

Andrew Wang

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