Here’s a quick checklist on the highly sought-after qualities all men should possess when it comes down to how to get girls with your inner game. Now, don’t just skim through this entry and acknowledge the defining 5 P’s; You should memorize, adopt and apply the golden nuggets on what you’re about to discover.

1. Persistence
2. Patience
3. Perseverance
4. Positive mindset
5. Planning

Persistence. Whenever you get rejected, when a girl flakes on you, when you encounter last minute resistance, or when things don’t go accordingly, do not feel as if the world is collapsing.

Be immune to those destructive fleeting doubts of “Oh… I’m just not good enough for her.” Hold yourself together, keep your chin up, chest out.

Persist by moving forward with constant unshakable cool and dignity. Smile, cheerfully and tell yourself “everything’s all good.” Girl problems should never be a problem for a real man.

Of course, assess what you may have done wrong (or what wasn’t working), and correct your faux pauses, don’t take them lightly or overlook them.

Experiment, learn, grow, and game with Herculean persistence. Empowering yourself with more knowledge on how to get girls and gaining more field-experience will help skyrocket your dating success.

Patience. Professional dating instructors and pick up artists all resemble in one way: they have patience. When patience is part of your nature, you destroy the “neediness” in you, thus making you non-outcome dependent.

However, waiting to long to physically escalate is something you should avoid. The secret to how to get more girls is that when you can object to instant gratifications, you entire being will be at ease,

Don’t force or rush the process of attraction. Just be an attractive man. How exactly? Focus on your social worth, net worth, self-development, career. The more reasons why a woman would want to be with you, the more attractive you are as a man.

This is one of the biggest pivotal realizations most men will experience on how to get girls. Everything will unfold more quickly to your favor than expected when you are patient. When you’re patient with results, your speed of success accelerates at quantum levels.

Perseverance. This trait ties closely with being persistent. When you get knocked down, insulted, be glad it happens now and that you can recover. Don’t ever let a woman bruise your ego or self-image. Leonardo Divinci said it best: “Obstacles od not bend you.” Every obstacle can be destroyed through vigor.

In fact, you should never rely on external sources to feed your inner confidence. The principle to success applies also dating: Never quit, never give up. Adversity is opportunity for growth. It’s a numbers game, and not every woman is going to be a good fit for you.

Positive Mindset. A positive emotional, spiritual, and mental state will automatically give you that hard-to-resist energy; also known as charisma. Being able to associate yourself as a source of fun and enriching energy plays a key factor on how to get girls.

All women can feel and sense this immediately, and they always respond positively to it. They want it like a coffee addict needs his fix.

Planning. Before any outings with your date, know like the back of your hand what you’re going to do. Prepare an itinerary full of excitement and fun, but don’t tell her in advance. Just lead her as you go so everything seems spontaneous.

Make the night adventurously rapturous. Carefully consider the convenience of the logistics and how to “make the best” out of the given time available with her.

If you’re visiting the local art gallery or museum together (for intellectual women), take turns pretending you’re an analytical art critic; but do so playfully and half-serious. Planning to go bowling? Compete for points. Winner gets free 20 minute back oil massage.

The biggest dating no no is not knowing what to do and where to go.

Practice the 5 P’s on the daily, and the results will pay dividends. For more ready-to-implement dating tips on how to get girls for men, check out my other entries on here.

Here are some audio-visuals that you can model to add more oomph to your body language attraction.

Again, the majority of hip hop music video releases today are very useful resources when you want to pick up more quality body language attraction tips. Yes, reading about body language attraction is helpful, to an extent, but watching it strengthens your awareness even more.

The artists featured are always beaming with positivity, high-energy, confidence, masculinity, and charisma.

In this music video “My Last”, I want you to observe and analyze Big Sean’s movement. Big Sean’s the guy Red Wings fitted cap by the way.

In this shoot, he projects the epitome of “Relaxed confidence” very smoothly.

You can sense that  degree of equanimity, self-control, and undeniable inner cool.

When sitting across the chick in the black dress, in no way does he seems panicky, worrisome, or nervous.

It’s complete relaxation in action.

Notice how Big Sean & Chris Brown’s arms are rarely crossed. Their body language is open, which creates a more welcoming presence. Women love it, and it builds up their comfort meter.

Again, if you want body language tips, the best way is to watch the celebrities in action.

Whichever role model of yours shares the same personality and attitude
as you, study him.

Put your ego to the side and learn from anyone that’s already doing it better than you are.

Oh, and here’s another great dating tip you can take away from this music video: “Live everyday like it’s your last”.

Play that date out like it’s your last. Make it one unforgettable date.

And that’s all for now bro.

More body language attraction tips coming soon

Cheers.

Andrew (Allurre) Wang

What up guys,

I never really thought it was necessary to include an entry in regards to weight loss on my dating tips for men blog; but it seems like a lot of guys out there are facing this self-image predicament. To know how to get more girls, you must first know how to get yourself together.

Many are too self-conscious or insecure with their bodies, yet they can’t muster the courage to do something about it. Well, I hope today’s quick motivational speech will serve as the turning point to how you treat your body.

To begin, thinking about shaping up and staying fit is one thing, doing it and maintaining that habit is another.

I don’t know what your socio-lifestyle is like, but if you have a schedule that revolves around lavish living, culinary indulging, back-to-back party nights, then losing weight may just seem out of the question.

But ask yourself this: Is this the lifestyle worthwhile of not just your sex-life, but your bodies need? Are you happy with the body you see in the mirror?

Your close friends may tell you to ignore your appearance, and tell you that they’re fine with the way you are. Well, those are statements coming from your friend, not your girlfriend.

News flash: What women like is a man with a body, just like you’d ideally want a woman with smoking hot curves and legs. And when on a date, they want to be seen in public with a good-looking male figure, just as you’d want to also.

Surely, you wouldn’t want anyone to start talking about your weight behind your back right?

If your weight is a matter of your concern and it’s been skewing and chewing at your confidence level for quite some time now, why continue living like the old ways?

This is an ageless fact: Shaping up your appearance and your wardrobe will always give you an edge on how to get more girls. You don’t need to pump yourself up like Arnold. Just stay in shape.

The good news is: Your weight is all under your control. Instead of partying up, invest time in the gym, or if you don’t have the time or money, do what I did before, go for daily power-walking sessions when you’re commuting.

Once you get into the habit of this simple work out, your mind will involuntarily look forward to it. You grow into liking any activity which you may initially dread. Why? because humans are creatures of habit. It no longer becomes a chore or bore, but rather an effortless activity which will only benefit you immensely in the long haul.

When you can take care of your body, women will notice. You will be doing yourself a big favor on how to get more girls as you’re demonstrating that you respect yourself – which universally and indefinitely, is what women like.

Starting from today, wake up to every morning reminding yourself: Shape up, or ship out.

Here’s a toast to your dating success!

Andrew

Next time you’re about to head outside, whether it is for groceries, or just going to the mall to pick up some new gear, here’s a new “going out” mentality that will significantly propel your inner game attraction to help you attract women effortlessly.

When going out…

1. Feel incredible. Note: I am not suggesting that you feel superior amongst others. Don’t allow yourself to feel arrogant or over-emotional. What I’m suggesting is that you should never become a prisoner of mood-swings, self-pity, and just being trapped in cycles of dismay.

They biggest key on how to attract women is remain calm, collected, in control, and to be consistent with maintaining all three states. Consistency really is key, as it breeds a more vibrant future for attraction to grow.

In other words, charge your body up with a “constant non-erring wave of positivity and cool”. Let it circulate throughout your entire body, from your head and down to your toe cuticles. Visualize this endlessly, let it fill your mental space.

Have a skip to your step when you walk. Feel euphoric. Think happy thoughts.

Feel like you are at the center of your universe.

Here’s a quick exercise you can run.

2. Replay in your mind all the good things and times you’ve had. Think of your achievements, respect earned, inner battles defeated. Relive those joyous moments; after all, you made it happen. Anything that transports you onto the positivity road is preferred.

Your inner cool is born from your mind. That’s it’s origin, it’s homeland. It is a sensation generated not from what you wear or how you look, it is innate and all under your control. You can decide whether or not you want to feel it.

Whether you are walking, shopping, at work, or going about your solo activities, feel like you’re unstoppable, stellar, sexually comfortable, and that Forbes have estimated that you are worth over one hundred million dollars.

Delight yourself with your own thoughts, and only reinforce thoughts that will keep your inner cool strong.

Internally feel that unwavering cool and self-validated when you are by yourself.

3. But bear in mind: Always balance humbleness into this equation. Do not ever let arrogance or up-tightness wash over you.

To ensure that you don’t veer into the depths of ego-inflation, be conscious and remind yourself that no other individual is any more or less than you.

A closing reminder: when you’re streaming full of positivity and happiness, that’s the highest form of confidence women respect and fall in love for, and that’s how you attract women.

Here’s a toast to your dating success.

Andrew

Timing is everything.

Especially when it comes to physical escalation, and how to attract a girl you like.

There’s a right time to call, kiss, and even lace your fingers with hers.
You wouldn’t call right after she gives you her number, and you wouldn’t wait until 2 weeks later before dialing her up.

You also wouldn’t spend hours together, and get yourself into back-to-back dates when you first start dating each other. That will not only diffuse your entire mystery factor, and render yourself as non-challenging as your actions reveal that you’re too readily “available”.

Then, what happens? You suffer as she eventually gets bored of you because you’re easy-to-get.

Wrong timing will consequently invite the following: awkwardness, discomfort, unpleasant, or unwanted response.

In this entry, I’m going to go over several aspects of timing you should consider when you’re running a conversation with a girl, so you actually know how to talk to girl!

1. When revealing something about yourself, consider whether that “piece” of information you’re disclosing is appropriate at the time. If you want to demonstrate high value, save your fucked up past, personal insecurities, or guilty pleasures for later – preferably when you two have spent an adequate amount of time together and the attraction is strong. Set a strong impression first.

2. When talking about your achievements, don’t spend the entire 30 minutes summarizing all your major career accomplishments or childhood awards non-stop. Keep it short, be humble, and learn to pace.

Reveal something special about you bit by bit, not all at once. Pouring it all out in one session is not how to attract a girl you like. Making her wonder “what more” you have to offer is key.

If I were you, I’d rather have HER talk about her achievements first, and let the spotlight revert back to you (if she asks about it). That’s one great way to indicate whether a girl has interest in you, if she starts asking a string of positive and personal things about you!

3. Don’t dwell on one single topic for too long, even if you’re both enjoying it. If you talk about anything personal or delicate for too much of a stretch, the novelty or value of that topic will eventually die down. Have more “hot” topics lined up!

Just like sex, albeit being a sensitive and emotionally stirring topic, talking about it like there’s no end will only ruin the excitement of it. Leave something for her imagination to feast on.

Just think about the deejay playing your favorite song in the club. Once is good, but put it on rotation for the next 4-5 songs, then your favorable reaction would probably die down. And, he’ll get his ass fired.

Here’s a great tip: When there’s a hot topic, don’t squeeze the juice dry, BUT do keep your conversational topics juicy throughout. Read that again if you can’t put your head around it.
Learn to space the exciting bits out – or even better, save the ‘meat’ of your story for later.

That’s how to attract a girl you like; keep her on-the-edge. That feeling of uncertainty for the better is something all woman crave for. Gradually stack up that sexual tension, and make room for that “surprise” moment.

You can also learn plenty about your date, given the timing she gives for WHAT she talks about.

For example, if she continuously talks about her EX, or slips in comments about him every now and then, she clearly isn’t over him.

When a woman does this, you should interrupt and tell her how you dislike talking about past relations, and if she can’t respect that decision, then it’s time to take a dash for the door.

Well, I hope this tip on timing has proven insightful and useful for you!

More waves timeless tips on how to attract the girl you like soon!

Until next time.

Andrew

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Yes.

Valentines day is nearing.

Some say it’s overrated. Some panic in hopes of not being a
let-down… and will just watch it go by.

I’ve had many people ask me for pointers, so I decided
to extract some time out of my chaotic schedule to
spread some insights

Here I go.

* For those who will have a date for this special occasion
with their significant other…

Don’t worry about outdoing your last V-day.

Your winning ticket is to just keep it ‘original’.

Once you’ve got everything planned, ask yourself…

“Will tonight be memorable?” Better be yes.
“Can it be replicated?” Hint: Think outside the box.

My point is: It’s unnecessary to buy into the generic dates.

You can choose not to dine under the stars, or book for a swank
restaurant where you can gaze out in the sparkling city skyline.

Don’t be ashamed of keeping it ‘frugal’ later. She’s not
going to think you’re cheap if you can override her logic with
a constant surge of fun and happiness.

Instead of investing wallet-bruising numbers on an expensive
date, think outside the box and let creativity do the
‘wowing’.

It’s always the whole interaction that counts, not the
external extravaganza.

Now …

*  If you two just started dating, don’t let V-day raise the bar
or sweat you a bit.

1. Focus on getting to know each other better.

Establish deep-level attraction by progressively
escalating into more emotional intimate
conversational topics..

For example…

Exchange stories about each others most adventurous,
embarrassing, unforgettable experiences.

Then, raise the heat by
talking about the naughtiest, or publicly obscene conducts
you’ve been through.

Swap crazy stories. Time will FLY.

2. Drill into her lifelong interests and passions.

Get down to her quirks, dramatic childhood
stories.

Dare to ask for ‘private’ information. But do so in a relaxed
manner. Set the frame that she will entertain to your
questions.

Once you get her into the habit of opening up herself – not
only will you have shot up her comfort level towards you, but
also rocket-shuttled your personalization level.

3. Just to sweeten the night, or to add more fire to the romance
(without getting physically sexual yet…)

Find a venue or local college for live music with swinging jazz.

I’m sure there’s bound to be more than enough events around your area.

Take in the wind, and have a few nice drinks to recline to.

Now, if the vibe is noticeably buzzing well throughout
the night,  you know what you got to do: Sexually escalate.

It ain’t just the guys, women all want to get laid on valentines.

How do you bring her home?

Seed the idea of visiting your place later
while you’re on the date.

Tell her you’ve got some (insert an object
of her interest) you’d like to show her…

If she’s a die-hard fan of Bob Marley,
prepare a play list in advance and
return home to listen to it together.

You get the idea.

One more thing…

If you’re getting her flowers…which I assume
most will, save it for last.

And get artificial ones. Don’t go overboard with bouquets
either.

Try to attach a little slip that says something along
the lines of…

“I had an amazing night with you. Happy
valentines.”

Simple yet effective. Less is more.

What you want to imbue in her mind by the end of the night is…

“What’s next?” … followed by smile on her face.

Gentlemen, I hope you all have an amazing Valentines.

Try not get her pregnant.

Cheers.

Respect,

Andrew Wang

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What up guys…

Here’s a quick field report documenting a live example of
how to banter with women

[Part I]

The other night, I decided to clock in some evening hours
at Coffee World to work on some new projects.

Approximately 15 minutes later…

A group of smoking hot tourists — which I discovered later
were Irvine (California) undergrad students –  came in and sat
down right across the table from where I was.

Two minute goes by…

One of them comes up to me to ask if I had any idea whereabouts
they can find ‘transexuals’ in Bangkok.

Obviously, they wanted some raw uncut entertainment and
amusement. Witnessing transsexuals for the first time in
their lives must be special occasion.

Don’t get the wrong picture though, it may be stereotypical
to assume that transsexuals flood the streets here Bangkok,
but in actuality; their community is very small.

Anyways, as soon as she asked,

I decided to step the plate and and tease her…

I throw her a playfully startled look and tell her…

“Wow, I really didn’t know you were the type that’s into them.”

She instantly laughed and gave me a playful punch to the arm.

Note: Whenever a woman initiates such physical contact,
you’ve broken the ice.

I then tell her where she can locate them, and surprisingly…
she continues to ask me whether “they are good-looking”

This gave me more fuel to tease…

I tell her… “I am really starting to get a stronger
impression that you like them now.”

“Were you… (pause) a transexual in your past life?”

Bam. Double-shots of flirtatious tension.

***

[Part II]

A friend of hers then joins and sees what the commotion is,
and her face lights up with joy when she sees my laptop.

(I assume she’s been internet-deprived and hasn’t checked her
email due to heavy-duty traveling.)

Well, I was right. She asks if she can use my laptop
since she hasn’t checked her mail for 5 days.

I said “No.”

They both go “Awww. Why?”

I tell her, “it gets me jealous when other hands besides
from mine touching it.”

Bam. Added flirtatious tension. They both giggle.

Of course, I then gave her permission.

So what happened in the end?

Me and the girls wind up talking & bonding for the
next half an hour.

As the group was about to depart, one of them
even voiced their hesitation to leave as she wanted to stay
behind and talk learn more about Bangkok. (Obviously an
excuse to stick around.)

Well,
I hope you found this short report helpful in some way

The moral of this entry : Never settle for mundane
conventioanl responses.

When a woman is hot, “never please but tease”.

The smallest and most unexpected things can shape the course and dynamics of a relationship. Ultimately, it can either improve or limit your success with women.

Even an online text message (AIM, MSN, Yahoo) or offline one can spoil the dynamics if carelessly conducted. Just because your phone plan permits you to send out unlimited text messages, or seduces you with ‘happy hours’, don’t consider yourself playing it smart and getting your money’s worth by clogging up your date’s  inbox space. This is not a real estate game.

Nowadays, I see a lot of guys, especially with a Blackberry devices, BB’ing their girls incessantly like there’s no tomorrow. What they don’t realize is that a lot of fluff talk goes down, and that the compounding effect inevitably manifests as negative impact.

Keeping in touch with people is cool, but constant texting will eventually kill your mystery level and chew away your private life. When this happens, don’t blame the recipient but yourself.

With that said, I’d now like to introduce to you my 5 rules of engagement for off and online text messaging.

Follow this simple guideline, and I can guarantee that you will increase your perceived value and attraction level simply by pushing-buttons.

Rule #1: Have a date-oriented end-purpose.; and that one single purpose should be to use bridge into your next date.

Don’t just text to ask “What are doing?” or “What are you up to?” without any follow-up text to set up for a date after.

Suggest that she joins you for xxxxx next week, state how it’ll benefit her, and be enthusiastic about it.

Rule #2: When you can, communicate on a level that stimulates a feeling of excitement and anticipation. Messages like…

“Guess what?”

“I got something amazing to share with you.”

These types of lines all elicit anticipatory responses.

Now, to keep your conversation dynamic exciting, follow rule 3.

Rule #3: Keep your texts short, succinct, playful, and flirty. Avoid punching in long messages. 2-3 lines or less would be preferable. Usually, a round of text exchanging shouldn’t exceed over 8-10 messages (including yours and hers)

Rule #4: Attitude of a tease. Try to recall something silly/embarrassing she recently said, and talk about it. This is a great way to maintain a level of sexual tension.

“You were amazing at basketball today. Averaging zero points per game. For some reason, why do I find that sexy?”

Rule #5: Keep your message open-ended and call for emotional involvement. To keep the text conversation buoyant, she must be involved.

Ask questions that require a response every time you send a text message. I always end my messages with a question etc.

In terms of response, make sure it triggers a side of her emotions. The last thing you want is for her to respond indifferently.

Avoid however, asking nosy questions which prompts a negative response.

For example,

“When are you going to sleep?”

“What will you do tomorrow?”

“When do I see you again?”

As you notice, a woman wouldn’t exactly be thrilled to reply to those questions. Instead, it only makes you seem more desperate, lonely, and meddlesome.

Remember, always keep a woman guessing to whether you are interested in her or not.

So there you have it, my 5 rules on text-messaging. Never go over-the-top, and try cast a restraining order to volleying messages back and forth like it’s a sport.

Gentlemen, have a great day, and go easy on the calls too.