About: How to get more girls, but building your social value on demand (Part 2).

I know, I know. It’s been a while since I last posted after crossing over to 2012! We’re already halfway into the month, and I swear it feels like I was partying til 8 am after the new year’s countdown last night. But I digress.

What I’m going to share with you today, is a timeless tip that should help enhance your personal social value on demand, when you’re in public.

Talk to the girl! Yes, when you’re seen talking to a girl, it projects immediate value instantly. If you know how to talk to women, you must be social at the very least. Not only that, you must be someone that’s friendly, non threatening, non repulsive and interesting to some degree. Yes, that’s how the other girls will register you in their minds.

This makes them feel more secure when you approach them later. Since you’ve already been spotted talking to another girl, your prospect will assume that it’s okay to talk to you.

In fact, when you’re in a setting where you’re amongst the few rare dudes who are “seen” chatting up with the ladies, it instantly amplifies your worth to the by-standing ladies.

So go on, grab your balls, and go talk to the girl you want. Nothing else matters nor will any rewarding scenarios (getting a number, kiss close, or getting laid) take place if you don’t make the initial move to open up a conversation.

Ignore all the social pressure you may be feeling at that time. Tell yourself, it doesn’t exist. Or, an alternative is to accept the social pressure or nervousness, but tell yourself that this state will only last for a minute.

One of my secret inner game mind trick on how to approach a girl is to assume that attraction is there already. Imagine a tangible energy between the two of your bodies, charging higher in frequency as you both inch closer. Visualize and feel the spark of the electric current.

Seriously. Simply by approaching a girl in public indirectly communicates that you must have a high social value as you have dare to talk to strangers.

You don’t want to kick yourself the morning after for not ever talking to the girl you’re interested in.

One additional point I’d like to include is this: Do not try to impress the girl you’re talking to, nor should you try to make yourself look impressive in front of those around you. Instead, you should be the one that needs to be impressed.

After a good few minutes getting to know each other, enforce the power of absence. I usually talk to a girl 10-20 minutes tops before excusing myself to rejoin my friends. Too much talk and exposure of yourself on the first visit will diminish your value when you return.

Withdraw yourself a bit earlier, and she’ll want more of you when you’ve demonstrated high value and strong connection with her during your first approach.

Need more assistance on how to talk to girls? Check out the Verbal Playboy Blueprint.

There’s a very simple yet underestimated way on how to be attractive to women – and that’s to get yourself the right dose of oxygen intake. Yes, sometimes, you just have to focus on the foundations of your game.

No matter where you are – even when you’re not on a date with women – be aware of your breathing pattern.

When you are aware of your breathing habits or patterns, you’ll actually recognize your mental and emotional state improve; and when your mental and emotional state is positive, it permeates into the quality of your interactions.

Most people aren’t aware that they’re not breathing incorrectly. The majority breathe too shallow, and are unconsciously depriving themselves of the necessary daily oxygen. Short breaths are also cause you to feel uneasy and stressful.

Wouldn’t it be better to get rid of all that nasty coiled up tension? So let’s begin with some quick and easy methods.

Below are several essential breathing practices you must know on how to be more attractive to women.

1. Focus your attention on every breath you take. Visualize the air entering your nose and refreshing your lungs. Gradually, slow down your pace and take in deeper and more relaxed breaths.

2. Always inhale from your diaphragm. When inhaling, your ribcage should be expanding sideways. It should feel like they’re trying to escape from your body. Your upper chest should also be stretching outwards. You should see your naval get sucked in, and expand when you exhale.

Then, exhale gently. Never be in a rush to exhale. Never.

3. While stretching your arms away from you, interlace your fingers together, and make sure the palms are facing away from you. Now, start to slowly inhale peacefully. Then, bring your outstretched arms upwards above your head. Keep them straight and push upwards towards the sky.

While doing all this, keep on filling up your lungs until you reach full capacity. Afterwards, hold onto your breath for 5-10 seconds and release. This will help you kill all your body tension.

Your body muscles should feel more relaxed. You should feel relived. This is the state you want to be in when talking to women.

Practice the above three steps multiple times until you can do it fluidly and automatically without having to remind yourself. Most people will find it a bit challenging breaking out of old breathing patterns, but with practice and persistence, you will break it.

Lastly, I’d also like to recommend that you should get yourself involved in sports – if not already. Get on a treadmill, play basketball at your local park, find a female jogging partner to run with.

I personally play soccer – as it aids in making you a more competitive person, disciplines you to stay focused more focused, and helps improve your body coordination. This indirectly helps sharpen your body language.

Not to mention, exercising loads your body up with endorphins. It’s fireworks for your brain, fine sculpting for your physique. Your hormones become more balanced, and your testosterone level goes up. You’ll eventually become a more confident and well-rounded person.

The ultimate goal is to keep your body in shape. Get your heart pumping for at least 45 minutes daily, and 4 times a week.

To know how to be more attractive to women really comes down to these kinds of daily commitments. Stop looking for shortcuts.

So there you have it: One of the most effective ways to be more attractive to women is to breathe correctly.

To breathe correctly is to nurture your brain, body, and game.

Shaping up your social value is one of the most surefire ways on how to get girls to like you. Remember high school where the team athletes, artsy musicians, preppy rich kids, or popular dudes were the most desirable? They had this air of cool and positive social value.

Worry not if you had zilch noteworthy buzz back then, as we all age, graduate from college (if you did go), and our social value takes on new constructs and possibilities outside our academic circles.

Your social value is an indicator which other people use to determine whether or not they should get to know you.
When a man exudes an abundance of internal and tangible worth, he has social value. It comes from his presence, character, core personal values and qualities.

It’s how well received he is by people. It’s the “good vibe” that those around him feel in reaction to him.

No, you don’t need to be a Hollywood celebrity or a local big shot. You don’t have to be Warren Buffet rich – although the two former statuses can’t hurt to have.

Your social value can be generated when you focus on improving yourself.

How you manage your attitudinal, mental, and physical behavior during an interaction, and how you coexist in the public sphere will affect your perceived value.

To recap, your social value partly consists of your interpersonal skill and mindset. You have to be outgoing, empathetic, and good with people. You have to like people. Your attitude towards the world and strangers has to be genuinely positive. The more experience you have, the higher your social intuition.

Most people are trapped with this inner struggle hindering them from progressing higher up the social value ladder. If you have a tendency to be shy in public, you can’t expose your worth as you aren’t fully expressing yourself. You must be comfortable with self expression.

Another timeless way to rapidly build your social value, and how to get girls to like you more, is when you give value to your shared reality.

Can you make the most mundane moments positive? Can you lend a helpful hand when unsolicited for? Can you brighten up someone’s day without expecting anything in return?

The experiences that people associate and remember you with, is the value they will have attached to you.

In Part 2, we’ll go into greater depths on how to build your social value internally, from ground up if you must.

Remember, with more social value, women will no longer be evasive and a challenge.Be the one who does the “screening,” instead of seeking for approval, as you possess the social value to fight for.

They will throw themselves at you like moths to warm incandescent light.

Ok. So I don’t usually write about how to please a girl wildly when it comes to bedtime play. Why? Because there are plenty of resources dedicated to that area available online. Well, it can’t hurt to offer some of my own personal tips on how to get a girl wet, and make her go freak-wild for you.

Her are 3 golden tease-her-in-the-sheets tips you can use to your advantage to make it rain down south.

1. Steady Kisses

Whenever you start kissing her, do so with no tongue. Save it for later when you’re deep into foreplay. Tease her with light and quick kisses first, then progress naturally into longer and more sensual ones. You want to vary the intensity. Kiss her intensely, then withdraw. Then soften up the kiss, and raise the pressure. Don’t let her catch you ever with a pattern.

The magical effect of this is denying her the pleasure until she aches for it. Make her sizzle like a sirloin steak on a grill. The act of push and pull you’re executing mirrors the nature of intercourse itself (insert, withdraw).

2. Sniff and Bite

What you can do while kissing her, is to also sniff and bite. This is actually an animal mating ritual since prehistoric times, and a powerful way on how to make her wet gradually. Use all your senses during times of physical intimacy. Smell her neck, hair, body. When you exhale, do so gently so she can feel that tingle in the release.

Tell her in a whisper-like voice that you like how she smells; ok so perhaps some words can help.

Then cast a gentle bite or lick on an erogenous zone (neck, lips, back of ears). This will always send shocks of pleasure through their neurological system.

3. Embrace Everything

Most guys neglect the entire body. They go straight for the breast, ass-grabbing, and then penetrate. Unless you’re both in it for a quickie, avoid the rush if this is your first time with her. Run your hands and explore her entire body.

Don’t touch nipples, or V area. While your hand unabashedly explores her delicate body, give her massages along the way. Firm squeeze and grabs suggest masculinity which turns them on like a switch.

While massaging, remember to multitask and blaze a trail of tactical kisses from her neck to her inner thighs. Grab her feet and give a 2-3 seconds foot massage as you go in lower. When you reach the bottom, return back up to caressing and drumming her back.

Always have both hands working, and embrace the full body. You should also use your body (chest, legs) as an instrument also to create movement when both of you are sharing skin contact.

After a good 10-15 minutes of foreplay, you may want to escalate into French kissing, grabbing he condom, and shifting gears to bang the lights and every breath out of her. She will orgasm all over your shaft and look forward to a second run.

If you enjoyed my personal tips on how to make a girl wet without words, make sure you e-mail me your thoughts and comments.

Cheers.

Before you go on shoveling up for more dating tips on how to get a girl interested in you further, I’ve got one powerful pointer for you.

Ask yourself this question: How do you see yourself?

This could just be the key question to ironing out the pesky and seemingly irremovable wrinkles to your game. It’s the exact same question I ask myself everyday.

Whenever you wake up to see that person in the mirror, who do you honestly see? Look deeply into that person and reflect.

Do you see a grumpy weathered cynic? Do you seem like a guy who has an invisible titanium wall barring you from others? Do you look like the kind of guy people would give you a once-over look and forget about?

When you move, do you look strikingly confident and intriguing with every muscle that you move? Do you seem like a guy who possesses this fuzzily inviting self-love that breeds comfort and warmth to those you interact with?

When you look at the man behind the mirror, what are the first few words that immediately spring to mind?

What needs to be changed?
What words should be replaced, and with what? Why?

These are some of the most strategically effective questions you should ask yourself if, not limited to when succeeding with women, but also life in general.

Take a moment for yourself and ask these questions. Once you’ve got the answers, you’ll know what gaps need to be filled. Then, commit yourself to taking the necessary actions to escalating your character/personality/skills.

With this easy yet potentially life changing exercise, you’ll pin down exactly the passive method on how to get a girl interested increasingly through time. Women will throw themselves at you. Remember, self-elevation should always be continuous. Never grow complacent.

Write out all your “hot” qualities, pit them against your “not so hot” ones, and you will gain clarity on how you can become more attractive as a man.

So you and her have both boarded the “exclusively dating” docks. Most guys at this stage, face the nagging question: “How can I keep this going?” Some believe that it becomes more difficult than attracting her from the jump. But knowing how to keep a girl interested in you the long haul requires even less work than you can imagine.

Let me dissect the simple science on how to keep a girl interested in the long haul for you with 5 cornerstone tips.

1. Keep doing what always worked! Why break away from your usual routines that yielded success?

Continue taking the lead, setting the boundaries, and being a challenge. Don’t ever “give her the entire you” – otherwise she’ll soon take you for granted. Keep your ambitiousness at an all time high, focus on your career, and also other areas of life that make you happy. See her sparingly if you must, but when you do spend time with her, make it an unforgettable time.

It’s a psychological principle that needs to be obeyed to the T. You want her to keep competing for your attention. Just because she’s officially your girl now, does not mean you soften up and make more sacrifices for her. The attraction cards still need to be played, and the fun dynamic still needs to be oiled up!

2. Brush aside the “worries and concerns” of “how to keep a girl interested”. If you constantly live in fear that she may leave you some day, then your actions will only come across as desperate, which then compels her to dash out the doors even earlier. It’s always better to let her know in the back of her mind, that you will always have options, and that you are not afraid of being single or independent.

3. Women will always require some form of emotional stimuli to keep them interested. Keep her both intellectually and physically engaged! If not, they’ll restlessly find a guy who will keep her free from the chains of boredom. It could be her friend, colleague, whoever. You want to turn average things to exciting. That’s why the dynamics of getting too comfortable with each other doesn’t fare well in the long haul.

4. Great relationships aren’t based on external elements. Romantic kisses in the rain, late night ambles on the beaches are all Hollywood influenced fantasies. Great relationships stem from the high quality of character from both sides. When you’re both happy, you can just lay around at home, watch a movie together, without worrying about having to do anything extravagant to make the time spent together worthwhile.

If you can’t accept the simple mundane activities – then the relationship is doomed for failure. So make sure you girl understands this, and is not deluded into thinking that she will find her own Aladdin one day who’ll take her up for a ride around the world in a Persian flying carpet.

5. Stop taking the “exclusive status” so seriously. Being boyfriend/girlfriend does not mean you have to see each other every day, or give each other a good night call before dozing off. It does not mean you’ll have a higher tolerance to accept her occasional fits or irrational behavior.

Tease he, and don’t spoil her. Maybe only when it’s her birthday. Continue being a colorful character that’s unpredictable. The roller coaster effect needs to be seamlessly woven into the cloth of your relationship. At the same time, be her better half, and roll with her through the thick and thin. Yes, that’s some cliched stuff you need to adhere to. Always have her associate you with “Joie de vive” – the Joy of life!

Well, I gotta pack now guys. Taipei tomorrow. Stay tuned for Part two on how to keep a girl interested in the long term!

When approaching a girl in broad daylight, what can you learn from Johnny Bravo?

The guy’s fearless! Look at how he barely allows any sign of hesitation to gain momentum. Now that’s the raw confidence you need when approaching a girl.

Notice how he never wonders whether his target will “like” him or not, or what he “should say”.

Just go for it – make that dash like Johnny. Put your game face on, be proud of who you are, and introduce yourself to her