There’s a reason why opinion openers are favored in my playbook.

Why?

1. It reveals no intent that you’re actually ‘hitting on her’.
2. It’s your first hook to make her commit herself to you.
3. Women love to share their personal opinion. It indirectly communicates that you VALUE and RESPECT her.
4. It immediately grabs her attention — always.

Next time you see a prospect, try an opinion opener.

Here are some hot starters…

“Hey, quick question, I need a woman’s opinion, what color shirt do you think looks good on me?”

or… go with something that can lead into a debate.

“Hey, this will be quick. I’m just doing a quick survey. What are three most important traits women look for a man in this time?”

Notice: How I’d inform her in advance that “this will be quick”. This is to cool off any pressure and ward off any thoughts where you’ll be wasting her time. Thus, her compliance level rises

Once you receive your initial answer, don’t just end it there… extend the conversation a bit longer by getting to know each other.

For example, if she tells how how she values a guy with humor, honesty, and integrity, probe deeper and ask her.. “so you don’t care about looks?” or “so what kind of humor exactly? the witty, lame, sarcastic type?”

The rest of the course is yours

Make sure you number and e-mail close just so in case you need her valuable opinion again in the future.

Not forget, it’s not only what you say that matters,but also how you say it. Your tonality and body language plays a major role and should always remain positive, enthusiastic, and upbeat.

Positivity and confidence breeds positive & confidence. Feel as if you want her to feel towards you.