Without being rejected is a tough guarantee to make. Even when you already have alpha male qualities. A guarantee is mathematical. You know, 2 + 2 = 4. That’s a guarantee. Women are biological. No reaction is guaranteed. But, getting a girl’s number with a high level of success can be guaranteed.
Sure, you can predict how they’ll react, but the success rate is pretty much guaranteed to be less than 100%. But what you can do is to swing the odds in your favor. That’s the alpha male attitude.
Think of it as managing a theater show: not only do you have to get her to buy the ticket to come and watch, you also have to arrange everything – the actors, the props, the decor, the food – to impress her so that she has reasons to encourage herself for repeat visits.
Remember, it isn’t not just about getting a girl’s number; its also about her giving you the right number (and not the number of her octogenarian grandmother with Tourette’s) and actually answering when you do call (not file your number under the name ‘Do Not Answer’).
1. Never should bank on pick-up lines. Dust them off your memory lane.
2. Be confident. Women dig alpha male confidence; not the seventh-grade approach anxiety you used to have. Acting nervous won’t endear you to her; women like men to take charge. So even if your knees are knocking from anxiety, man up, drink up and approach her with your back straight.
3. Try to search for a common ground of interest. She’s drinking a daiquiri? Tell her about the awesome daiquiris at a bar you know. She has a tan? Tell her about the great diving trip you went on recently. Don’t lie though; you’ll look like a tool if she calls you out.
Once the conversation is going well, stage an exit but before you go, casually tell her it was fun speaking to her and suggest that you two should keep in touch, preferably involving one of the earlier talking points. If her interest level is high, she’ll break out in a smile and agree.
Tell her to punch in her number on your phone and give her an immediate missed call so she knows your number and will know it’s you when you call, not an annoying telemarketer.
And gentlemen, that’s how to get a girl’s number without being slapped by rejection.
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To your dating success,
Andrew Wang
Creator of Sync Dating and Instant Addiction Formula
