About: How to get more girls, but building your social value on demand (Part 2).

I know, I know. It’s been a while since I last posted after crossing over to 2012! We’re already halfway into the month, and I swear it feels like I was partying til 8 am after the new year’s countdown last night. But I digress.

What I’m going to share with you today, is a timeless tip that should help enhance your personal social value on demand, when you’re in public.

Talk to the girl! Yes, when you’re seen talking to a girl, it projects immediate value instantly. If you know how to talk to women, you must be social at the very least. Not only that, you must be someone that’s friendly, non threatening, non repulsive and interesting to some degree. Yes, that’s how the other girls will register you in their minds.

This makes them feel more secure when you approach them later. Since you’ve already been spotted talking to another girl, your prospect will assume that it’s okay to talk to you.

In fact, when you’re in a setting where you’re amongst the few rare dudes who are “seen” chatting up with the ladies, it instantly amplifies your worth to the by-standing ladies.

So go on, grab your balls, and go talk to the girl you want. Nothing else matters nor will any rewarding scenarios (getting a number, kiss close, or getting laid) take place if you don’t make the initial move to open up a conversation.

Ignore all the social pressure you may be feeling at that time. Tell yourself, it doesn’t exist. Or, an alternative is to accept the social pressure or nervousness, but tell yourself that this state will only last for a minute.

One of my secret inner game mind trick on how to approach a girl is to assume that attraction is there already. Imagine a tangible energy between the two of your bodies, charging higher in frequency as you both inch closer. Visualize and feel the spark of the electric current.

Seriously. Simply by approaching a girl in public indirectly communicates that you must have a high social value as you have dare to talk to strangers.

You don’t want to kick yourself the morning after for not ever talking to the girl you’re interested in.

One additional point I’d like to include is this: Do not try to impress the girl you’re talking to, nor should you try to make yourself look impressive in front of those around you. Instead, you should be the one that needs to be impressed.

After a good few minutes getting to know each other, enforce the power of absence. I usually talk to a girl 10-20 minutes tops before excusing myself to rejoin my friends. Too much talk and exposure of yourself on the first visit will diminish your value when you return.

Withdraw yourself a bit earlier, and she’ll want more of you when you’ve demonstrated high value and strong connection with her during your first approach.

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