There’s one aspect about a man’s attribute that women will always respond favorably to. What’s that?
It’s our self-developed burning passion for what we love to do. A man who avoids to sluggishly carrying out his duties, but does so ambitiously is one profound contagious manifestation. To women, it translates as ‘sexy’.
Women dig men who love what they do, regardless of the subject. What women want in a man is one with deep-seated passion. A dream, direction, and driven attitude.
Whatever your 9-5 job is, or even if industrial standards deem your positioning “Ordinary”, you should always give your career “your all”, not just come “half-assed”.
If you feel like you’re stuck in a rut, find ways to circumvent your problems and make the reality of it better. Trust me, if you’ve got the will, there will always be a way to make your surrounding environs better.
If you have a lifeless soul, no sense of life direction, or no passion to live, then it will affect and show in your external behavior. Your eyes will seem grey, solemn, and you’ll be qualifying yourself as a “walking dead”. Not attractive, just downright scary.
People who are genuinely passionate and attuned to their job are very attractive by default.
When you look at these people, you see a fiery cackle of fire and life in their eyes. These people are fully immersed in what they do and will most likely excel fastest in their field. To both men and women, that’s salutary and inspirational.
Whether you’re a chef, bartender, veterinarian, or even butterfly-catcher, don’t ever be embarrassed with the role you play. Even if you’re a huge fan of fishing, women will naturally develop a keen interest once your actions transfer the energy and excitement you feel to her.
Here’s a final analogy before I close on this note. Imagine yourself as a hip-hop rap beat (instrumental) If the production is low-quality, droning, and poorly structured, you set yourself the risk of being ‘skipped’ by the selective artists (women) who are in search of that beat (man) to complete their song (relationship).
Remember, being ambitious is what women wants. It can never go wrong.
To your dating success,
Andrew Wang (Allurre)
